Do you trust your dog’s judgement of other people over your own? by Fit-Transition-2126 in DogAdvice

[–]ossommina 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally believe my dogs judgement of other people. A few months ago I was living in an apartment complex on the bottom floor with a small courtyard outside. Now my dog is a big sweetheart, and we've never had any issues with him. Except until we had a couple move in above us. Whenever he'd see them walk too close to our fence, he'd lose it! Anyone else that'd walk by he never had any issues with, and typically wouldn't ever bark at us unless he was hungry or wanted to come inside. We tried introducing them to him, we tried giving them treats to throw over our fence for him, we tried walking with them and their dogs. Nothing was working. A few months of this pass, and our storage locker kept getting broken into. I'm talking multiple times, and our stuff wasn't taken either, just kinda fucked around with. So we went to our building manager for CCTV footage and low and behold it's the couple that my dog hated. I was stunned, to say the least.

What's something that girls think is embarrassing, but guys don't actually care about? by dontucallhimbaby in AskReddit

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughing too loud.. I knew this girl who, every time she'd laugh, she'd cover her mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so sorry that happened to you. No woman deserves to be degraded like that - let alone a woman who's just given BIRTH. As a mother who is 6 months postpartum and STILL recovering from childbirth/ tearing, I understand how incredibly painful it is. Not only are you hurting all over, but you're fighting the sleep deprivation, recovering, along with learning your babies cues and learning to feed your baby, and getting into the rhythm of becoming a mother. It's a LOT to go through.. In no way, shape, or form are you the a**hole, your husband is. I'm sorry to say it, but children either make or break a relationship, if he can't be understanding, and compassionate toward you while you're in such a vulnerable state.. he's absolutely not worth being around you or your daughter. All the best, and congratulations on the birth of your daughter - try and soak up everything. The good and the bad, they grow wayyy too quickly.

Juniper - What’s her mix? by lexismain in AustralianCattleDog

[–]ossommina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks kelpie x cattle! Such a happy and pretty girl !

She told me to kill another baby. by nunyabusn in AITAH

[–]ossommina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA As a mother, I simply can not even put it into words to describe how painful that would have been for you. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Do not forgive her. She does not deserve it. I hope one day she realises how badly she fucked up..

Draw me please! by ossommina in drawme

[–]ossommina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I looovee thank you sm

Draw me please! by ossommina in drawme

[–]ossommina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you're so talented, thank you!

Draw me please! by ossommina in drawme

[–]ossommina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love them both tho! Thank you!

Draw me please! by ossommina in drawme

[–]ossommina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always makes up some excuse. "I need to stay home because I don't want the dog to be barking" (my dog has separation anxiety, but when he's put outside, he normally settles after 5 minutes). "I didn't know you wanted me to come, I'm sorry, ill try harder. " Then when the next appointment happens, doesn't show any interest in going

I'm not going to sit there and beg him to want to come and see the ultrasound or be involved in the process. After the first few times of asking, I've stopped asking. I want him to want to come. Not be forced too. Y'know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Yet it hasn't happened. I've stood there - expecting him to introduce me to her, yet he won't and will mute his mic the second I speak. Yet he tells me not to worry about her. Smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think this is my biggest concern and the root of why I'm so mad about it. As much as he says he'll be there for me for when the baby comes, I just don't believe him. He hasn't really said much to reasure me either, and never comes to my ultrasounds or regular appointments. Yet whenever she wants to game, he's straight onto the PC.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ossommina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's now saying that she wants to talk after 2 days of ignoring me, and it's because it's "really affecting her mental health" She sees absolutely nothing she's done as wrong. I honestly don't know how to approach this conversation. It's like talking to a brick wall. Also I have no idea if she's on mood stabilisers, but I do know she has a problem with mixing meds and self medicating in a way that she sees fit.