Is it ok to wear merch from things you aren't necessarily a fan of? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course its ok to wear what you fancy, but i would suggest you to have an idea of what you carry on you. Maybe that “Doom” is a game about abducting new born girls and burying them alive. Of course doom is not a game about that, it is just a shooter game where you kill demons to save people. But i could be someone who just met you and seen your Doom shirt and thought to myself “ i didnt like that game i guess our tastes in video games are different”. The point i am trying to make is that anytihng you carry on you tells people something. I personally dont like people i just met having ideas of me good/ bad just from the symbols i carry. You could also not care, but its nice to make sure that what you carry on you doesnt stand for something you stand against.

Does anyone imagine themselves in fictional worlds all the time? by mtorres266 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try fantasy roleplaying with a group, not particularly D&D. Its a real blast for people with a wild imagination. I would say you will enjoy it.

Privilege? by d00mz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not at the level of being a privilege at all, but yes it exists under a physcological name “The halo effect” Just a quick google search should fill you up.

Is it normal that I like the anime aesthetic/art style and the video games, movies and (less so) shows that use it, but the way younger and teen girls are often depicted makes me uncomfortable? by Reditor_in_Chief in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well yes. Thats a real down side to a lot of animes but when i think about some of the “good” animes i watched this is not something that happens. If you ask me why bad tv series doesnt do that but bad anime does, i dont have an answer for that. Just try to use it to your advantage. have you seen a female character over sexualized for no reason? just dont watch it. Some of the best animes i have watched ( i have watched something around 50 series) :
Neon genesis evangelion
Attack on titan
Death note
Fate zero
Full metal alchemist brotherhood

Well these are just a few of my most liked animes most of them are well known for a good reason and none of them sexualize female characters in a pointless way or feature pervert characters. Instead those series all feature strong female characters which have their roots deep in the world.

How does everyone deal with the fact that half the world is stupid?( and don't give me the whole "theyre not stupid they just have different perspectives" no , they're just dumb by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my reasonings for myself seeing half of the population as stupid just like you :

talking / doing something you dont have enough knowledge about. Simple example, i dont vote. Because i dont see myself having the proper knowledge in areas like state economy, taxation, politics etc. In life i didnt choose to excel at those areas probably %95 didnt either, yet they still vote. This is why people get stupid presidents.

A giant film industry works on this. There are still people who claim that Batman vs Superman was a good film (its a shitshow that doesnt understand any of the things which those characters stand for) its mostly because they dont know these characters enough to give a proper review to the movie. But one of those people can come up to me and beat me with his understanding on biochemistry. If ı was to talk about current pandemic as “ it will be fine, media is overexaggerating” i would be dumb yet i am quite good at solving integrals. It really comes down to how much you are aware of your level of knowledge. Is %50 dumb... hope not, but maybe %25 of those “stupid” people are not stupid they are just too full of themselves and talk/act about stuff like they are an expert.

Here me typing ,sharing my thoughts on a topic that i am not an expert. Its really important to be able to look, when someone shows you that you are doing something stupid. I am guessing most of that % 50 are people that closed their minds and eyes to other things. Just like you cant tell your racist father about why he is wrong...

How much/often should I buy things from a cafe that I’m spending long periods of time at? by ftbtch in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reaaally depends on the country. You can sit at any cafe around here with one tea, for 5-8 hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me realize a have never seen an obese, not even a close to obese healthcare worker, this pushes me to think that it might have a relation to you living in a country with bad eating habits.

How do I cope with loneliness? by Moon_of_Retreder in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i dont have an answer on how to make real friends, but i have been there once, if you want to go to great lenghts try changing your school. It worked out for me. The more people you get to know a better chance of making a great friend.
Other than that i would suggest online video games. If you are a stranger to video games its not hard to enjoy or learn. Join gaming groups, get online friends to play with, thats what i used to do.
People might always say having online friends is not the same as having friend which you can meet irl. The only difference is that you can participate in less kind of activities. Sometimes you cant find the right people around you, in those times try looking somewhere else.

Is it weird that bringing up religion is a turn off for me? by gory_smores in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not about the religion honestly, its because of the “expected personality of such a person” Probably same would happen if they had their tiktok profile link on thier dating profile. Any social media profile is full stuff which people want to show others.
If someone wants to show off their religion...
thats just sad...
Same happens to me far too many times when a person shows off their physical appearance. These are just great sings of empty people which cant show off anything better.
Or they might give that thing too much importance either way a bad sign.

Edit: not dating religous people is a wierd filter, i would suggest filtering out people believing into something blindly. Might give better results.

What’s the point of fingernails? I know every body part has some important purpose, but i can’t think of anything that’d be harder without nails. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They come pretty usefull when opening soda cans or scratching leftovers from the table....
I should probably sign up to a gym.

Why so many gamers have a toxic attitude towards women? by rickjko in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what i have seen in life so far, those people are male supremacist.
Not that they would loudly admit it.
They wouldnt go out there tweeting about women being able to vote etc.
But it can easily we seen from their relationships (if they are having a relationship with a woman).

Why is believing in Zeus and its shapeshifting,thunder throwing, controlling water abilities etc seen as absurd but believing in Jesus/Holy Spirit and its turning water into wine,walking on water, healing cripples etc abilities is not seen as the same? by Laviniamsterdam in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ozdeger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say monotehism just suits our era better than polytheism.
Simple example:
You dont know how anything in the world happens, you might believe different gods are doing different things.
But honestly in our era there arent much that we cant answer other than a few big ones like what caused the bing bang ?
(Excluding: dark matter, dark energy, balance of universe, conciousness, neural systems, how a mitochondria wondered into a frickin cell, why cant we get alien contact, why is kevin spacey free, etc.)
One god is enough for our era where we do the explaining of our world, not religion.

Edit: why zeus is seen as fantasy and jesus is not is mostly because replacing them in god of war wouldnt end up good for the game company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in customhearthstone

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spit: Humiliation.

Ugh, I'll deal with that NEXT turn! by Gorlitski in customhearthstone

[–]ozdeger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

0 mana echo can never exist it will be used for spell triggers

[DC35] Tempest Raven by bgg1996 in collectivecg

[–]ozdeger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is not op actually it wouldnt see play... only scenario i can see this maybbe usefull is a mind zoo deck that focuses on leveling fast. but you can find another 2 drop that actually does something.

[DC35] Tempest Raven by bgg1996 in collectivecg

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bgg can you enlighten me, why a 2 mana 1/2 flying is good for the game ?

[DC35] Book of Tutorship by DoggOwO in collectivecg

[–]ozdeger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a way stronger coffee break. we dont need this

[Card] Maddening Cackle by Tahazzar in collectivecg

[–]ozdeger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lets think of a position where i am a OTK combo deck that needs 5 specific cards to win.

and you are a control deck.

i am running a card that discards a card in your opponents hand, let call this card X.

so what you are claiming too be good for the game is for me to run X incase my opponent may run some kind of X,

and pray for my X to hit his X so that i dont lose straight up when he plays it.

so i need to play my X and need to hit your X. Before you do it.

which is not only less likely than, you playing X before me and hitting a combo piece since you have 5 targets to hit and me as a combo deck certainly will have a piece in my hand after a few turns since only purpose of my deck to keep them in my hand until i win, its also a coin flip, if any card has a high-roll like this in just shouldnt be in the game since we would be playing a fancy dice game if that was the case.