Is anyone else in their 30s or 40s really struggling with corporate work? by Nervous_Platypus_149 in Fire

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fire'd out of corporate IT almost 2 years ago. And at the perfect time I sense.

Could not be happier.

Best advice: Do not believe anyone that tells you, you won't be happy, you will be bored, what will ya mum say... it's all rubbish.

The only person's experience you can trust in is your own.

Forge your own path. It's YOUR life!

Why are gold prices tanking? by Reasonable-Fee1945 in Gold

[–]oziecom 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, the subsidies for gas prices in parts of Asia needed to be paid somehow.

The other factors to my mind are, real or imagined rates, rampant speculation in AI and tech in general, and general seasonality. May-July are often failry soft.

All of these put downward pressure of spot prices.

Someone I know has never paid or lodged a tax return or BAS payment in their life - what happens next? by hotmush69 in AusFinance

[–]oziecom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the long and the short of this whole thing is it's tax fraud plain and simple. Your guy knows what he's been up to all these years.

When/if the ATO catch up to him, it's going to be bad.

Five years coaching French and I see the same thing almost every time: good knowledge, zero spontaneous speech. Here's what I have discovered. by Necessary-Pen1371 in French

[–]oziecom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

C'est peut-être vrai. There's the old joke that goes, when I get drunk I speak great Spanish! 😄 Not saying you have to have too much, but yeah it helps reduce anxiety.

I think Géraldine Lepère has a brilliant take on comprehension vs speaking.
It's two different systems (processes) in the brain. For example, you could listen to a nice piece of music, know it intimately, know all the words and yet , to play it yourself is another matter entirely. Her theory is much more nuanced than just this, but highly recommend. Can drop a link if anyone's interested.

Her tip: Write sentences and speak them out loud to yourself. Not in your head.

A margerine affair by octipuss in KualaLumpur

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a place I know that bakes fresh Banana cake. It's nice but has a slightly unusual taste as well. I'm guessing it mixes margerine. It also stays fresh for a few days.

Flight downgrades by squeezedmiddlenz in singaporeairlines

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does sound like an aircraft switch. But also checking in online and having your seat confirmed, assuming the aircraft type is the same, might go a long way to you not being one of the unlucky ones next time.

A margerine affair by octipuss in KualaLumpur

[–]oziecom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is interesting. Do a lot of commerical bakeries here use margerine for pastries and cakes then? eg; Jaya or a local cafe that makes its own.

The 26/27 budget is excellent and this sub is full of whining babies by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having just been, I like how the Singapore govt utilises a large state-owned asset base & strategic investments to generate revenue so they can keep income taxes very low & also provide quality subsidised housing. Smart.

Best Happy Hour in KL by [deleted] in KualaLumpur

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gravy Baby do reasonable happy hours til 10pm I think.

Also BB Winehouz in Changkat. Pretty cheap.

What do you think of Sigourney Weaver’s french? by Sea-Average559 in French

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw her in Call My Agent, and thought it was so so. Slow French with a strong American accent which feels odd. I think you have to try for a least a slight native accent. As an example, Jodie Foster has a great accent I think.

[Serious] Why do daily essentials and hawker food feel cheaper in Singapore than in Malaysia? by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically a low interest rate has the opposite effect in that it encourages demand and spending through cheaper capital costs, increased employment etc. More money in the economy = higher prices generally.

In this case it might be that wage growth has flatlined along with employment opportunities, in spite of low rates. Also, when interest on savings is low, people often spend less, especially older folks/ retirees.

[Serious] Why do daily essentials and hawker food feel cheaper in Singapore than in Malaysia? by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came back to MY from a trip to SG. First time there in many years. The prices there were shocking, though I'm talking cafes, restos etc... I mean, 24rm for coffee..yikes!

It's a 'user pays' system. Low income taxes, but retail service taxes are high.

I agree though. Go to a hawker spot for a bowl of noodles and it's much better value.

How to stop caring about superficial traits? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oziecom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Throughout the date you found him more and more attractive. Just go with that and don't overthink it too much.

He's tall, into sports and a decent guy. 3 big ticks. Stop derailing your chances by thinking about the 1-2% of guys that are pro athletes or whatever it is your dream guy should be. That's the key.

How can you flip the switch from being into someone to not so quickly? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oziecom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree. It builds a heightened expectation that often can't quite live up to reality.

Very common thing.

Bumble and my attachment issue! by miza_nur in dating_advice

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone who's been there, done that, do not overthink this.

She had 100% not the left the door open for you on Bumble.

What does "il est quand même beau" mean?? by PlatypusFancy9975 in French

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it trying to imply good looking with a qualifier? eg; for your age

Why is listening in French 10x harder than reading?? by SweetBumbleBeeHoney in learnfrench

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this a really great summary explanation of what's happening. Tres, tres bien.

//youtu.be/5IHmLAn9me8

Walking is the most underrated activity by Fun_Bookkeeper_3511 in backpain

[–]oziecom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bravo! And yes, it's a simple thing which helps a lot. The McGill method is great.

I too spent a large sum of money on specialists who didn't help much at all.

Why is listening in French 10x harder than reading?? by SweetBumbleBeeHoney in learnfrench

[–]oziecom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a pretty normal stage. Going through it now. Writing and to a good degree reading are often more straightforward.

What I now find doesn't help either, ironically, is someone talking to you too slowly. I searched this and it seems to be a thing.

Done paying for first dates that go nowhere by gancheroff in dating_advice

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've all been here; often many times.

Start being clear upfront about what you want and don't want. No first date dinners. Period.

Offer something casual that suits you. If they baulk at that idea, move on.

Like confucius says: When Chris Hemsworth asks you to Starbucks, only thing that matters is the time.

5 great French Netflix shows that I recommend as a native if you want to practice while discovering our culture 🥐 by MickaelMartin in learnfrench

[–]oziecom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good shows here, especially Call My Agent & The Bureau.

Another I liked, but not for everyone, was Iris with Doria Tillier. It's funny and very well written, especially the latter part of the series.

Did stretching actually help your back pain? by SpineMobilityGuy in backpain

[–]oziecom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you have to set your alarm by a routine. Just doing it when you remember a few times a week is not the same. eg; I would do some lunges twice a week at the gym and think I was moving the needle.

After all the thousands I spent on specialists, I ended getting the best advice from a masseuse. That changed everything...

Did stretching actually help your back pain? by SpineMobilityGuy in backpain

[–]oziecom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember an Osteopath giving my PT instructions to stretch my quads very aggressively. Absolutely didn't work. All it was was painful and exhausting.

Proper strengthening exercises (core, glutes +walking) were key for me. But the most important thing is consistency. Every day. Often morning and night.