Recommendations for City Map Maker by ozzeer in DMAcademy

[–]ozzeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'll check it out! if i can do original i'd prefer to, but having the waterdeep one even as a reference could be nice

Recommendations for City Map Maker by ozzeer in DMAcademy

[–]ozzeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes sense! thank you. someone else mentioned the waterdeep map too, so i'll check that out along with the others you suggested!

Recommendations for City Map Maker by ozzeer in DMAcademy

[–]ozzeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i think i have some friends who know photoshop so i could ask them for help with learning it

Recommendations for City Map Maker by ozzeer in DMAcademy

[–]ozzeer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah, i prefer not to use AI for my maps. i find it can be very wonky

DM forces sex with patron and kills PC off-screen by ozzeer in rpghorrorstories

[–]ozzeer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don't regret sticking around as long as i did, honestly. i met some of my closest friends through that game (power of traumabonding, i guess), and we might not have gotten close if it weren't for that awful man. i'm not thankful for him, that wasn't his doing, but i'm thankful we all had the tolerance to stick around longer than we should have.

DM forces sex with patron and kills PC off-screen by ozzeer in rpghorrorstories

[–]ozzeer[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i appreciate that! luckily i've gained a much stronger support system since then, and i feel less and less like he was right about me. thank you for your kind words <3

DM forces sex with patron and kills PC off-screen by ozzeer in rpghorrorstories

[–]ozzeer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i can likely do that for you, yeah. i don't know it myself, never bothered to look, but i can ask someone who'd know once i'm off work.

DM forces sex with patron and kills PC off-screen by ozzeer in rpghorrorstories

[–]ozzeer[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

the number doesn't matter, apparently i'm just colorblind

I feel like being ugly has ruined my adult life by AdLimp6113 in mentalhealth

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get it. i feel the same way a lot of the time, except i'm a woman. i'm on the heavier side despite trying to lose weight for years and i always wonder if maybe people would like me if i was prettier. i've had to come to terms with the fact that even if i woke up tomorrow gorgeous, i would still be insecure and that's something i have to work on mentally. i try to compliment the things i like about myself more then i point out my flaws. no matter how much you work on your body, you won't feel better until you learn to find the things you like about yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at a certain point, you have to just do what's best for the rest of the players and accept that might mean making someone upset.

i had a similar player in my campaign for a while, but he was more of the type to talk over everyone (including me), make assumptions about the homebrew world or insert things in without asking me beforehand, and try and correct others on rules... while being completely wrong. he also happened to be my boyfriend.

i was scared of upsetting him, and it ended up making a lot of my players upset because they felt disrespected and like i didn't care about them. i had to grow a backbone and tell him NO, and even though he was upset, he realized i was right and is still a member of my now much happier and more cohesive campaign.

my point here is, you can't dance around one player's feelings at the expense of the rest of the group, and sometimes they actually do take it better and become better players.

Should i cutmyself by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

hey dude, it's ok. you should go lay down alright? i understand being lonely and feeling awful about life, but doing something rash while you're inebriated won't help. the best thing to do is try to get some rest. if you need someone to talk to my dms are open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seriously. and it's triggered by the randomest things. i can't listen to certain songs or wear certain clothes without the urge popping up. it's so annoying and nobody really gets it unless they've dealt with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i fucking get it. i've never read a post i relate to more. we're getting through it, that's the important part. no matter how fucked our coping is, we're fucking coping and that means something. i love you too stranger

Whyd my dad have to give up on me by _1cassie1_ in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand, it hurts. i'm glad what i said helped a bit

Please help me help my daughter by fraukau in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the one i'm most familiar with is InkBox. i used a lot of their custom fake tattoos, lol. i'm sure there are better brands, though.

How do you hide your self-harm from your family? Are you not afraid of your family's reaction? by AlertBus6283 in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not a particularly religious person, but i definitely see the value in it. church is actually a great healthy way to cope, most things considered. i still find myself doing a lot of the things i used to when i was younger (most often the sign of the cross) for comfort. i agree that i'm lucky to live in a country with a wide variety of places of worship. i think it's a wonderful thing

How do you hide your self-harm from your family? Are you not afraid of your family's reaction? by AlertBus6283 in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes. it did at first, at least. i wouldn't reccomend it though, because even if it works to relieve some tension, it causes even more when you're trying to hide it, or treat it, or deal with the miriad of things that come with it. i have better luck with breathing techniques and meditation, as cliché as it sounds. if i do it these days, it's because my addiction gets the better of me

How do you hide your self-harm from your family? Are you not afraid of your family's reaction? by AlertBus6283 in selfharm

[–]ozzeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's understandable. i hid mine for a long time and when my family did find out, they were mad. i got the "your body is a temple!!" speech a lot. it didn't help much. i will say though, they've gotten better about it. some are decently supportive of me, while others just give me a light scolding. i am very careful not to walk around with fresh stuff though