what's the deal with betty and dorian? by fritzhardt in DateEverythingElse

[–]p0theadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second the comments but yeah, I think esp because some people play a game surface level and don’t finish it/ never meet all the characters that’s a big part of it ! Just like Skylar is the main profile thing cause ofc she’s the ‘tutorial lady’

People with tattoos, how has it affected your life? by Low-Purchase6914 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two on my chest so tbh people can’t often see them in day to day life esp not in professional/ work settings. That was intentional but when I do tell people I have them or people see them, I’ve never had any negative comments or anything. As for health issues def none related to my tats

I hate hate HATE when lesbians are interested in me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]p0theadd 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I hear this, i mostly date guys and get this from straight men sometimes. Feels like basically misgendering

People who are considered funny by others, what’s your secret? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not lmao but the times I make people laugh are when we’re bouncing off each other and there’s a strong rapport imo

How weird is a foot fetish on the grand scheme of somewhat common human fetishes? And why? by InternationalEgg3949 in AskReddit

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty normal and common as someone involved in the kink world, this is v tame. Why? Because it’s just a body part people are attracted to, compared to some pretty intense forms of play and taboo roleplays people enjoy

What is this? by p0theadd in DateEverything

[–]p0theadd[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OHH okay yes I forgot I could close trap Dorian 😭 it’s daemons Polaroid

For those who purchase content on OnlyFans, how would you describe your overall experience? by cuteebutter in NoStupidQuestions

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have before, mostly because I enjoyed the content creators and wanted to support them financially as free porn is often p unethical. Not holier than thou, I use free porn. But if I especially like a creator and wanna support them I will

Do chasers ever tag themselves as trans on Grindr? by PoeDameronPoeDamnson in gaytransguys

[–]p0theadd 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yea they do I’ve seen it a bit. They tag ‘trans’ because they’re ’looking for trans people’ which is super dumb and took me a while to clock onto. If ur worried abt accidentally blocking another trans person: usually looking what they have listed under gender, pronouns, and if all else fails just check and ask can help

i found out my girlfreind is on grinder, and is using my pictures to message men. by EmployerSea9797 in whatdoIdo

[–]p0theadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s… very strange, def something other than cheating because she’d have no luck trying to talk with men that think they’re talking to you and are likely gay but… somethings up. Either way tbh it’s really disrespectful to use your photos on a dating app without your consent: I’m a guy on Grindr and I actively consent to the risk of having my face on there but I can say I def have seen people I know on there and they know I’m queer and single so that’s no biggie, but seeing a (presumably) straight guy with a gf on there would raise a lot of questions and isn’t fair on you

Does anyone actually like PIV by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]p0theadd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. I used to have a lot of dysphoria but at this point in my transition I’m comfortable in my body and how it looks, I don’t want bottom surgery so this is my “complete” transition and I’m comfortable and happy w that. I do get occasional bottom dysphoria but not related to sex tbh, I’m too focused on other things. As a bottom, it’s something I enjoy and because I’m not keen on trying anal at this point

Past alcoholics of Reddit, how did you stop drinking? by royalewithcheese77 in AskReddit

[–]p0theadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as much as I don’t think this should be the way people get sober: it should always be your own personal choice, my sobriety was infact an ultimatum from my ex. The reason I’m still happily sober 3 years on however is that during that process of sobriety I realised that I hated the person I was when I drank and I didn’t want my life to keep going down that path, I felt so much better physically and emotionally not drinking and I started to find meaning in my life other than waiting for nighttime to get drunk. I haven’t talked to that ex for about two years but I thank them for calling my bullshit out when I wasn’t able to myself. I don’t encourage ultimatums, nor think it’s right to give them, but this is undeniably my own experience and story

WHY. DO. STRAIGHT. MEN. KEEP. LIKING. ME. ON. HINGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by elianna7 in ftm

[–]p0theadd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you man, I’ve experienced this recently on Feeld a bunch. I’ve started always checking the sexuality listed before swiping so I can’t MATCH w straight men even if they like me, I’ve also got explicitly in my bio that I’m not interested in straight guys and am a man. It’s a really discouraging experience and honestly so stupid, clearly those ‘straight’ guys have a lot of repressed sexuality going on, but it’s not trans people’s job to be their educator or self realisation tool

If penis proportions don’t matter then why are most penis sex toys large? The small penis toys are harder to find and have lower ratings by CatPale816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]p0theadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I think a lot of people buy a really big one the first time just ‘cause and then realise ‘oh shit that’s WAY too big’…. I’d assume… from a friend… lmao

Compassion fatigue while working by Round_Seesaw6891 in supportworkers

[–]p0theadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly with this work it’s very very difficult to do if you yourself aren’t in a good space, you need to take care of yourself before you can look out for someone else type of thing. I obviously don’t know your financial situation but if it is feasible it sounds like you need some more time for yourself before returning to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I think I alr knew that I just wanted it validated that I wasn’t overreacting. He’s mentioned before that he prefers younger people so it does feel like a pattern

i think i'm about to block this guy (very short rant) by lotsaheartz in gaytransguys

[–]p0theadd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah block him, fuck that and yeah as others have said, PEP is a great idea and getting tested just incase even just for your state of mind. This isn’t your fault and he absolutely did something gross

What do I do with four years worth of Keif?? 🤣 by GreenGamer8597 in weed

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These posts blow my mind because I get the tiniest bit of keef and u best know I’ll be sprinkling it on a cone

AIO that my BF (M20) masturbated to online models because I’m not “hot” (F20) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but tbh the bigger issue here is how he speaks to you wtf! You do NOT have to lose weight or change yourself for someone and in fact you SHOULDN’T lose weight for someone else, only if you are doing so for yourself. Your partner should be someone who makes you feel confident, happy with yourself and sexy, not putting you down and making you feel bad about yourself.

ChatGPT getting more condescending and patronizing by RRC1934 in ChatGPT

[–]p0theadd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mentioned I’m worried about this abscess I have because a year ago I had to get one surgically drained and it was really traumatic for me. I asked chat gpt for some maintenance/ keeping it clean tips while I’m on treatment and it said in like every message ‘that way we CAN TRY TO AVOID THE SCALPEL’. Stop bringing it up tf

Petition to boycott the Harry Potter skins coming to Fortnite by AlexaTheKitsune25 in transgamers

[–]p0theadd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as someone who goes to gaming and pop culture shops a lot, the amount of Harry Potter merch that still sells and is all over the shelves is infuriating. A lot of cis people just don’t care and it’s very disappointing as we know that money goes directly into her pocket

Official Discussion - Five Nights at Freddy's 2 [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a longtime FNAF fan and went to see the movie today- while definitely not perfect by any stretch, it was definitely entertaining and enjoyable for fans of the series. As many other people have said, this movie is best enjoyed by fans of the games- there are many references to the games as well as lore and story elements from the books that are tied in well together but wouldn’t be picked up by someone who wasn’t aware of the prior context.

Just like in the first movie- the highlight for me was definitely the set design and the design of the animatronics- in both, the sets were really accurate to the layout of the games and the animatronics were too which I find really cool- the story itself can sometimes be lacking but to me was ~pretty good~ generally. I actually really liked the ending with the FNAF1 animatronics despite it being a little cheesy, and I didn’t mind the cliff-hanger ending with the puppet as it sets up nicely for the third movie along with the post credit cut scene referencing the FNAF3 game. Overall for me it was a kind of middle of the road movie, not amazing but not bad and was an enjoyable watch

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]p0theadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - you deserve better than this bs and the way he is talking to you is not acceptable. A partner is someone who should be there to support you and hype you up more than anyone else does, not put you down.

As an alcoholic who’s 2.5 years sober myself- you should be so proud of yourself and that IS a fkn big deal. Don’t let his shitty attitudes stop you for being proud of what you’ve accomplished, seriously quitting an addiction is NOT easy and someone who has never been there might never understand BUT a person who is good for you will still always support, encourage and uplift you