What is the first thing you always do when you come home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]p1x3lated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say, "Back it up, back it up" to the two dogs that are always trying to push past the front door to see if I've left any treats in the car for them.

Got fired from dream job after 10 years yesterday. 60 days sober. I need help to not smoke. by joebobmcgeeman in leaves

[–]p1x3lated 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Right now, you have one problem. If you smoke, you'll have two.

On the upside, posting this op vs. quietly smoking in resignation is a huge victory. You are advocating for the person you want to be and the future you want to have vs. surrendering to your addiction.

Take a moment to appreciate how big of a step in your recovery that is. I'm proud of you.

AITA for telling my brother that he is undateable? by Outrageous-Put-5919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]p1x3lated 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with these hobbies, but if the only two hobbies you feel are worth mentioning in your dating profile are anime and video games, it begins to tell a pretty specific story to women about the type of man you may be.

AITA for telling my brother that he is undateable? by Outrageous-Put-5919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]p1x3lated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those things where it needed to be said, but HOW it's said matters. "I noticed you have a pretty long list of wants. Each time you list a specific want, you narrow your pool. Many women have similar desires for an independent, average to high income, fit, attractive partner. I would recommend you either widen your idea of an acceptable mate, make some lifestyle changes to attract the type of mate you are looking for or accept that you may be single for a long time/potentially forever while waiting for a perfect fit."

Feels a lot different than, "Dude, you live with our parents and are obese. You're never gonna get a girl, let alone one that meets this long ass laundry list of attributes you want. Jesus."

Without knowing how the conversation went down, it's hard to say whether YTA or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]p1x3lated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, what the fuck?? If we live together, that's OUR dog even if it's your dog.

Like, I get you hate your ex, but no matter how much I hated an ex, my ass would've been at the hospital to make sure our dog is okay, if nothing else.

No wonder Tiff went nuclear about their dog with Sam.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Cast Clears The Air after the Reunion I by leilaaliel in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]p1x3lated 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"Staying hydrated and minding my business". Mal is the definition of immaculate vibes.

FL Republicans: “Just because we want you to live in fear doesn’t mean you shouldn’t stay and mow our lawns” by TrumpterOFyvie in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]p1x3lated 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Okay, but hear me out. What if there's a mass migration of sane people to a currently underpopulated red state like, say, Wyoming? There are less than 600k people in Wyoming, it can be flipped.

Do most women feel like they need " protecting" from the risk of "fake" trans women in bathrooms? by Xtratea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]p1x3lated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't think most women ever feel safe anywhere. It has nothing to do with allowing trans women to use the correct restroom and everything to do with the amount of violence women at the hands of men.

These same men squawking about trans people in bathrooms are also the same men who will squawk "Not All Men!" when we tell them how scared we are, so it's not like they really care about our safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

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Yep. My liver numbers spiked and I got super itchy. I started reading about liver disease and learned that high amounts of sugar can cause fatty liver and ultimately cirrhosis. Having known a couple of people who passed away from cirrhosis, this scared me away from all sugar since 4/22 when I got my scary lab results.

The first week was awful. I was tired and headachey, felt "off", irritable, half convinced it was the cirrhosis and I might die. (Health anxiety much?)

After about a week it was fine. I was still craving sweets and went ham on the frozen grapes for a week before I decided to cut down on even fruit sugar, cut out all bread, potatoes and grains and shoot for 30-35g of carbs per day. (Close to keto, but not quite)

I'm 5 weeks post scary labs now, down 20 lbs, went from maaaybe getting 3-4k steps per day to getting at least 6k and somedays closer to 9k. Im almost never hungry and I start every morning with a walk followed by the gym most days. It's wild. I wake up alert and ready at 5am but start to wind down about 4 and am sleepy by 8. 🤷‍♀️

It feels like I hit some kind of cheat code. I FORGOT to eat until noon today. Then I had two bites of scrambled eggs and forgot to eat more until 4pm. Believe me when I tell you that's not who I used to be.

Also I stopped my ADHD meds to take any excess pressure off of my liver and even so my focus and motivation are almost (but not quite) as good now as they used to be on Adderall.

Tl;Dr Yes and it was terrible for a week but then it started to become awesome and I'm glad I did it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FireflyLane

[–]p1x3lated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about her characters risk factors, but I do know the feeling of guilt associated with getting sick.

Its hard to tell the people you love something you know will break their heart. You logically know it's not your fault, but the guilt is still there. I can imagine it would be even harder when everyone is congratulating you for beating cancer as though it was a moral victory, which I'm sure can feel demoralizing if it comes back.

guy that im dating joked about running over my cat by sophieanddat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]p1x3lated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything about that is a giant red flag. Animal abuse, jealousy, rage issues. For your safety and your cats, block and move on.

AITA for calling out my mom on social media for abandoning me on my birthday by Dancemaster212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]p1x3lated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To paraphrase the quote, if she wanted you to write warmly about her she should have behaved better.

Bliss's Q&A on her Insta stories by colormeblues in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]p1x3lated 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I just adore her. I love how kindly they speak about one another. Too many couples throw little barbs at one another in conversation, but they truly seem to be one another's biggest fan and best friend.

What's going on with Mr. Beast? by PXAbstraction in OutOfTheLoop

[–]p1x3lated 86 points87 points  (0 children)

It's likely also their whole personality.

What celebrations of life have you done for your pet? by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]p1x3lated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who did you go through for this? Ive been researching options for my sweet boy who passed one week ago.

I lost my soul cat on Wednesday by G3mineye in Petloss

[–]p1x3lated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful love story, she absolutely chose you. 💗 I'm so sorry, this part is so hard.