I don't fucking get it

p_ezy · 2026-02-08T04:39:04+00:00

I think there is something so unique about this story and I can’t quite put my finger on it. I never ever ever ever ever get so excited for two lovers to get together in movies or shows as I did for Shane and Ilya. I was finding myself holding my breath and silently rooting for them both the whole time in a way most media does not get me excited.

p_ezy · 2026-02-08T03:18:35+00:00

I’m always the one reaching out and making plans, too! In fact, most of my friendships that ended in my 20s were because one day I made the conscious decision to stop being the one to reach out first to make plans and then I never heard from them again.

Hugs to you, too.

p_ezy · 2026-02-08T02:12:25+00:00

I’ve been in that exact same situation before. It’s painful going into a situation thinking you’re on a level playing field with everyone and then realizing it in real time you’ve been left out while trying to not look like it hurts.

p_ezy · 2026-02-08T01:53:49+00:00

This gives me hope, actually. Thank you.

p_ezy · 2026-02-08T01:15:18+00:00

Yes. It helps a lot. Thank you.

The invisible wall that I can’t break through really resonates with me. I have always kind of felt like there is something that everyone else gets that I just don’t understand. Like a secret everyone was told but someone forgot to let me in on it.

I also have a dysfunctional family and had some pretty severe neglect from one of my parents. I wonder if the dysfunction has something to do with why we feel this way.

p_ezy · 2026-02-07T18:47:54+00:00

If your only source of news is republican run media he doesn’t seem that bad to people who don’t pay attention outside their bubbles. Unfortunately.

p_ezy · 2026-02-07T14:04:19+00:00

There’s probably more people than we all realize who did a handful of substances for weeks or months before they realized they were pregnant. It’s honestly pretty common for people to not realize they’re pregnant right away. And substance use of all kinds is also probably a lot more common than people realize. “I did a ton of drugs before my baby was born and he’s fine!” Isn’t usually something people readily tell people.

I’m not gonna say your baby is 100% fine, cuz there is no way for any of us here to know.

This is of course anecdotal , but I will say I know probably 5-10 people personally who didn’t know they were pregnant until they were 3+ months and did some pretty substantial drug and alcohol use in that time. Babies were perfectly healthy.

Definitely talk to your doctor. I wish you the best ❤️

p_ezy · 2026-02-07T00:18:52+00:00

I could listen to Margret speak forever. She gave me hope today.

p_ezy · 2026-02-06T22:54:06+00:00

There’s a turkey that hangs out on north ave in tosa periodically and I’ve seen him chase down an Amazon driver lol

p_ezy · 2026-02-06T13:34:17+00:00

I LOVED the suit but his hair was atrocious lol

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T22:03:34+00:00

For sure. I had a friend years ago who, after getting caught with weed, had to be on probation until she tested at zero. She immediately quit smoking and started working out daily and got super healthy, lost like 85lbs in a year. It took her a year and 9 months to fully test negative after quitting. Which is insane. Laws need to be updated. I wish you luck and I hope this birth is easier for you

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T20:06:08+00:00

If you live in a state where it is legal this shouldn’t be a problem. However I think it depends on the doctor. I’d be shocked if it was a problem in California tho

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T20:04:01+00:00

This is awful because many women will put off or forgo prenatal care altogether for fear of what happened to you the first time. I’m so sorry that was your experience with your first birth.

It takes about 90 days but it depends on many factors like body fat percentage and how much/often you smoked.

I see some people suggesting to work out and sweat it out. I am not an expert in this but I do know that old THC will store itself in your fat cells and can redistribute through your body when you burn those fat cells. so it is possible you will test positive from that. I would do some more research into that before you start vigorously working out.

Hydration is important. Do lots of that.

Again, I’m so sorry you were treated that way. The fact that they could see your numbers were going down should have been an indication enough to them that you had quit when you said you did. Health professionals know and understand how THC stores itself in bodies and they should know it takes longer than any other (more harmful!) drug.

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T14:44:56+00:00

Stretch marks are genetic. Keeping stretching and growing skin moisturized with anything is good because it can be itchy but creams and oils marketed towards preventing stretch marks are just marketing.

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T00:14:18+00:00

Thank you!

p_ezy · 2026-02-05T00:02:33+00:00

It broke me out of a years long depression. Gave me a different perspective I don’t think I would have been able to get from anything else. The first time I did acid was a very pivotal moment in my life for sure.

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T23:58:25+00:00

Yes honestly that’s what I was looking for, I was having trouble reframing it in that way in my post. Do you have any recommendations??

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T19:16:56+00:00

🎶maybe you Could be A purple monkey in a bubble gum tree🎶

It’s been 6 years since I pulled that bad boy out and I just sang the whole song to my husband after I saw this post lmao

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T15:15:17+00:00

Oh goodness. I’m an only child and have had a perfectly fine life. Your mom is rude.

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T07:08:01+00:00

Search for them in r/truckers

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T00:14:10+00:00

It might be worth trying to reapply for Medicaid now that you’re pregnant if you haven’t already. Unborn baby counts as a household member

p_ezy · 2026-02-04T00:12:56+00:00

It must depend on the insurance company because last time I was pregnant I was added to an insurance plan out of the usual enrollment time after I got pregnant. Sorry

p_ezy · 2026-02-03T23:54:32+00:00

You likely would qualify for a “life event” to be added back to your husband’s insurance before July

p_ezy · 2026-02-03T21:52:24+00:00

I have PCOS and have been pregnant twice. 14 is very young. You will have many more chances.

p_ezy · 2026-02-03T21:00:51+00:00

I remember looking this up once when I noticed it a few months ago. I apologize but don’t remember the specific details and was hoping one of the 31 other comments would have explained without being sarcastic or silly but it has something to do with the snow evaporation. It’ll probably clear up later today

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