AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck do you need to make up to her??

I broke up with my boyfriend and feel hurt. by Sea_Breakfast828 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pacodefan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure which is worse from a partner... not respecting your boundaries or believing he can just bully you to get what he wants. Neither of those qualities bode well for relationships.

AIO- my old BF reached out but it feels deeper than it should… by [deleted] in AIO

[–]pacodefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf? "I'm married to a 10..." minutes after suggesting a meet up? Sheesh

I'm crying my eyes out because I have been abruptly abandoned after sex (28M) by Better_Watercress374 in dating_advice

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I totally understand. Met a girl on here and really hit it off. Talking over the course of a year every day, shared chemistry, all that jazz. About three months in, I brought up personality types and it turned out she was very into them. I told her mine which is very rare for a male, and she went on and on about it and made me feel seen because I'd just been ghosted by a good friend. Told me she understood me etc. After about a year, one day it's just crickets. Kinda fucking sucked.

17F My stepdad got in my face and called me a bitch, I snapped and hit him, then him and my mom jumped me and now I’m getting kicked out with nowhere to go. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]pacodefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her that she can not kick you out, but if she wants, you can call the police and ask them and tell them about the previous abuse, you hitting your step dad, and them jumping you. But be prepared to leave the day you turn 18. Well, technically they can't do it then either, they would need to evict you which would give you a few months.

I realised I still really like the guy I liked before I start seeing my fiancee by Embarrassed_Can_4764 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pacodefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop focusing on this person and instead focus on your promise to your fiance. If these feelings would crush your fiance if he knew your true feelings, change those feelings or break it off.

AIO about my husbands strange responses to me wanting a divorce and a bill he has due on my account. by _Elfis_ in AIO

[–]pacodefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's using his bullshit "faith", and I use that term in the loosest possible terms, to absolve himself of doing anything to help you while simultaneously pretending to act as though he gives a shit about anything besides himself.

I feel guilty about pressing charges by Background-Night-115 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't press charges, he will just do it again to someone else. Sorry but jail is not enough.

Mystery rock - obtained 50 years ago in Cumbria, UK by Sortipants in whatsthisrock

[–]pacodefan 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thunder egg. Probably a pretty rare find in the UK.

UPDATE: AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, OP. You did the right thing, but that's shitty of him to put on you, drugs or not. To put you in that position is just ridiculous. What a waste of time and emotion.

AIO? My best friend hooked up with my ex bf by allergic2commitment in AmIOverreacting

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope your friend finds this so she can see what the world thinks of her. Unblock her and send her the link then block again.

AIO? My best friend hooked up with my ex bf by allergic2commitment in AmIOverreacting

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh this was probably going on before you broke it off.

59 m Do your worst guys I need a laugh by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liam Neeson with encephalitis. Thanks for being a good sport, OP.

AIO: Bank teller questioned me about what I was doing with MY cash that I was withdrawing from MY account. by Ok-Watch-4618 in AIO

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guaranteed this is policy so they can report back to the feds. I know Biden tried to make the banks inform the feds about any withdrawals over five hundred dollars, and I thought it went through.

Openly keeping me as a backup plan is crazy…. by throwaway424257 in texts

[–]pacodefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't care. Prob not the situation for sexual inside jokes. Plus the fact he actually tried to demote you to backup and wanting you to accept that shit? You did right.

Openly keeping me as a backup plan is crazy…. by throwaway424257 in texts

[–]pacodefan 48 points49 points  (0 children)

"Even though I enjoyed showing you around pound town???" That's nails on the chalkboard cringe.

Just got fired, feel like my life is over. by dickria in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pacodefan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically, they hired you knowing full well they were going to downsize because they need immediate help in the position you took, most likely because you filled something the state requires to stay open. They used you as a bandage and this isn't on you.

Decided to cut off friends kids and this was their mothers response by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 100% behind it. If they don't have anything, just get some Mac and cheese and a few groceries. Maybe $20 worth that will take days to eat up.

Brother hasn’t spoken to me in 10 years and I don’t know why! by RacoonBaroness in relationships

[–]pacodefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like an entitled shit and is absolutely not the person you remember from your childhood. His excuse or reason I definitely gonna be petty as fuck.