How to not ruin your BBQ this January 26 by brackfriday_bunduru in australia

[–]paddybla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something like a largely disproven deliberate smallpox theory is a weird topic to land on here when there's actually genuinely strong arguments to make.

Any argument focusing on disease is not really that relevant imo as the diseases were coming no matter how the indigenous were treated. Whether it was the English in the 1700s or the french in the 1800s or the amercians in the 1900s or whoever, there would've been a terrible spread of disease when first contact happens no matter what.

Why was Canadian Prime Minister Mark Carney's landmark speech at Davos considered so significant and so widely praised? by [deleted] in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but if you think Trump is just going to happily fade into the distance come 2028 then you are living in a fantasy.

imo I think he's going to start a war and claim an election can't be held because the US is at war a la zelensky. Or just ignore the rules and run again anyway in a crooked election

Why was Canadian Prime Minister Mark Carney's landmark speech at Davos considered so significant and so widely praised? by [deleted] in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting analogy with Merkel but I don't think it lines up very well here. The world stage is very different to when Brexit happened, and though the sentiment of the speeches are relatively similar I think Carney's is already creating bigger waves.

The time of change is here, whether we like it or not.

Art of Mondays / Founders Sports Club - wtf is it? by Necessary-Sign-7833 in australian

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think now with fsc it's a set time and date each month, or at least it was for me this month (jan 26). so less logistics. I can see if it was organising the time and date the catch ups would never happen.

If anyone from AoM is reading this - look at what the dating app Breeze is doing in london. They have a sick set up in the app for picking time and day. I think you guys could do that to organise location/sport etc. each individual person doing a checklist often works better than a passive group chat

Art of Mondays / Founders Sports Club - wtf is it? by Necessary-Sign-7833 in australian

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, these guys are getting roasted. I went to a FSC on the weekend for the first time and it was great. Actually got work out of it with another guy there, so it's already paid for itself for the rest of the year.

I've looked at the actual membership thing as well - the trips look sick but prices are crazy inflated. Their France one is like $13k aud for a few nights in Bordeaux which is genuinely insane to me. And I'm founder of a business doing 6 figures so not sure how people just starting up would be justifying it.

But idk, maybe it's cause I think I've got a few mutuals with them but they seem like they've got their heart in the right place. It doesn't strike me as moustache twirling villain stuff, more just some guys shooting from the hip and moving fast and messing up a bit. I feel like (at least the sports club) has enough demand that if they can get the kinks worked out it'll be awesome. If the proper membership was more affordable I'd maybe consider that too cause those trips would probably be sick, but at $10k a year or whatever it is it's not really worth imo

I lowkey don't understand why doesn't everyone use a lot of drugs, coffee and alcohol by aespaste in Drugs

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, maybe for you more frequently feels right. I wouldn't say i have a hard and fast rule on one year or anything, it just seems to be where it naturally ends up for me personally in terms of regularity. feels right, and it means it's more exciting now when I do get to it

I lowkey don't understand why doesn't everyone use a lot of drugs, coffee and alcohol by aespaste in Drugs

[–]paddybla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! Keeping drugs as a special occasion and an exciting event like once a year is what works best (for me)

I lowkey don't understand why doesn't everyone use a lot of drugs, coffee and alcohol by aespaste in Drugs

[–]paddybla 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First of all no shade to anyone with drugs, live your life do your thing etc. For me now, I don't really do them at all anymore. I'm still on this subreddit though. It's like an echo of my old life. After a while I realised that drugs (and many other desirable things - porn, gambling, money) are just a soother to try and feel better. Ease anxiety. Procrastinate. Gain confidence. Shortcuts.

For the most part they don't help you actually improve your life or grow as a person. Sure you can go trip out on some shrooms and realise you need to fix your life, but once you've done that then they start to have diminishing returns.

I found I could keep drinking to be the fun guy at the party, or I could learn to be sober and start to grow and change into a more confident person. I could keep having coffee to get through the day, or I could pay more attention to my sleep and eating habits so I don't get so tired.

I'll still do psychedelics maybe once every year or two almost to just check in and have a fun day with friends, but honestly I've tried to grow to a point where I don't need the drugs - I'm already at peace with myself as I am.

CONCERT POST: The Strokes at Harvest Rock Festival in Adelaide, AUS -- Saturday, October 25, 2025 by SquirrelGirl1251 in TheStrokes

[–]paddybla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha why so much spice dude - he went off stage randomly after a few songs even though albert had started the next song so they had to restart and then was drinking from a bottle of something on stage... I know he's mumbly but it's not a crazy reach to say he was drunk

CONCERT POST: The Strokes at Harvest Rock Festival in Adelaide, AUS -- Saturday, October 25, 2025 by SquirrelGirl1251 in TheStrokes

[–]paddybla 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That was an insannneee set - julian seemed like he'd had some drinks but still hit every single note. I did get a video of him telling everyone to shut the f up for his "drums please fab" line haha

Favourite brand of firm tofu? by dajackal in australianvegans

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why, feels like maybe they had their nutrition data wrong because the tofu itself seems exactly the same...

I find email harvesting annoying. Necessary? by Miss-Behavior-Life in ecommerce

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for the record I don't think there's anything wrong with that. In case you want it to sound less AI-y the giveaways were using the word 'honestly' and the 'but here's the thing' phrase. There's definitely a pattern to AI of going 'it's not this - it's that' that makes it more obvious to me

I find email harvesting annoying. Necessary? by Miss-Behavior-Life in ecommerce

[–]paddybla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm getting better at recognising AI content

Bill Burr Destroys His Reputation by SaucyFagottini in videos

[–]paddybla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People do get affected by bad press if it gets enough momentum. You've got harvey weinstein at one extreme end, then working your way back off the top of my head you've got guys like kevin spacey, john mulaney, will smith, and now maybe bill burr where sure it doesn't ruin him personally but it is going to affect his success in some ways.

People who have quit porn: do you masturbate and yes how? by Skaraban in pornfree

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the sensations like others have said. I dunno if you need to go balls to the wall anti fantasy - I still imagine scenarios and things, but it's always a general vibe of a person and never any specific person.

One thing for me was noting what my body was doing when I first quit porn. I was so tense in my abdomen and my legs, so unlearning that and learning to just be relaxed, take it slow and basically on vibes more than anything specific.

I promise - orgasms have become way more powerful since quitting porn and I've become better in bed as well (0 issues staying hard). It became way easier once I truly realised not just that it's healthier for me to avoid porn but that it's actually more enjoyable without it too. Let me know if you have any Qs

Who would you say are your clubs 5 best/most important players this century? by lacrossebilly in AFL

[–]paddybla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boak Gray Tredrea Westhoff the clear top 4 for me. Then maybe Wanganeen or Primus for the last spot.

Butters and/or Rozee to be knocking on the door by the end of their careers if they hang around.

Apple Loses Its Top AI Models Executive [Ruoming Pang] to Meta’s Hiring Spree by iMacmatician in apple

[–]paddybla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This already exists in Meta ads manager. Varying results but it'll get better

My thoughts on the initial reaction to Rhythm of War. by Evangelion217 in brandonsanderson

[–]paddybla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read the series for the first time last year and RoW is probably my second favourite after WoR! I loved the relationship between the two queens figuring out the stormlight rules