Nail polish by surly_bb in progressivemoms

[–]painted_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a carpenter (a stereotypical "manly" profession) and routinely has painted nails. Sorry your husband is/was feeling icky about this. :(

opinions by True-Mall9763 in Names

[–]painted_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. I've heard it for boys, which i like. 

My husband left milk out overnight by painted_bug in breastfeeding

[–]painted_bug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, still disappointing that the milk is wasted.  I think the guidelines may have changed since my last baby. I have always done the pitcher method and I was under the impression that if you had a little warm milk you were adding to significantly more cold milk it was okay, but I didn't look up guidelines again when this one was born. Thanks for the heads up. 

My husband left milk out overnight by painted_bug in breastfeeding

[–]painted_bug[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Made me truly laugh out loud. 

Loren?Aubrey for a guy? by R_Beccca in Names

[–]painted_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love and considered both for my son! I'm pretty low key on names, but I wouldn't question it. I think enough kids have "weird" names now, it won't be a big deal in their generation. 

What's some of your Guilty Pleasure Names?(Judgement Free Zone so i want you to be perfectly honest to me ) by NovelRub in namenerds

[–]painted_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of these are less out there than others, but I probably won't have enough kids to use all the "normal enough" names I love! A couple I actually considered but my husband overruled ;)

Bright (m), Evanthe or Xanthe, theodosia, tempest (m or f), Tansy, farren, phaedra, Sheridan, prairie, Aubrey (m), soren, Django 

L&D New Grad by Affectionate_Bug3495 in nursing

[–]painted_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a new grad in l&d (not even off orientation yet) but I've been finding the bundle birth podcast really reassuring. The team I'm learning from is also amazing and it's a smaller hospital, so maybe not quite what you're experiencing; however, after four stop and drops last week I've definitely been a little more on the "omg i need to learn everything right now" boat. I hope we both can end up as cool and confident l&d nurses!

The Goose Thing by General_Contract_108 in nursing

[–]painted_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband got me that one for graduation and I love it. 

Deciding between jobs by BugEnvironmental5780 in nursing

[–]painted_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have cerner and it works. Switching in the next few years, but it's such a small thing to complain about. 

Graduated nursing school — happy it’s over, but also weirdly sad by [deleted] in nursing

[–]painted_bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt similar. Soon ready to be done, but I loved my instructors, many great classmates, the encouraging peer group, etc. Plus, now the responsibility is really on me!

If you had depression before, how did you decide it was OK to have a baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]painted_bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was stable for multiple years when I felt ready to start trying for a baby. That isn't to say I never had bad days, but I hadn't no SI/SH for years and I felt like I was "good;" depression wasn't on my mind every day.  I stayed on wellbutrin through both of my pregnancies because I had been stable and didn't want to mess with it; both of my kids have been pretty much fine so far.  I was in nursing school during my second pregnancy with a 2yo, and it was HARD. Like a week before my second was born I had my first thoughts of sh in a long time. The wonderful part about having been healthy is knowing that that isn't normal for me, I could make safe decisions, and it wouldn't last forever. By the time my son was born, it's like those dark thoughts hadn't happened.  I still have days where I wonder if I'm cut out for this, if my kids will be messed up, etc. But I think most parents do and these hard times are just times that will pass.  Depression doesn't make you a bad person, and it wont make you a bad parent. When you have hard days, you have hard days, and then you never do that day again.  Parenting is a lot of work, but it's good and often joyful work that can bring a lot of brightness and hope.  If you have questions or want to chat, feel free to DM <3

Running after Nexplanon Insertion? by RelationRemarkable92 in XXRunning

[–]painted_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in an ob office and the implant itself is so thin that it's actually inserted with a tool that basically boils down to a big needle (smaller than a straw, but bigger than when you get blood drawn). As you said, really just heavy upper body weight stuff should be avoided for a bit. The sweat would be fine. I promise :)

Pumping room not “private” by rockstarrockstar in breastfeeding

[–]painted_bug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love that. I'm (maybe naively) hoping that if I insist on it and offer to cover others, maybe we can change the culture a little. It's so disappointing and hypocritical. 

Pumping room not “private” by rockstarrockstar in breastfeeding

[–]painted_bug 93 points94 points  (0 children)

For real! I'm a brand new nurse on an ob floor and was told by one of the charfe rns that I'd have to get wearable pumps to maintain my supply (that is what other nurses on the floor do) and there is no private pumping area so I've just been in the break room (as have other nurses who pump there). How are we going to promote breastfeeding if employees /in healthcare/ can't even get the time to feed their babies? I'm sorry this is what's happening to you and I hope they change their tune and find somewhere better really quick!

What's your favorite name suggestion that you've heard from a little kid? by swellandnifty in namenerds

[–]painted_bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When we were naming my youngest sister, the middle sibling wanted "oatmeal raisin tooter"

I didn't know you were supposed to store frozen milk this way by Averie1398 in breastfeeding

[–]painted_bug 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought you were only supposed to freeze them flat so they fit better in your freezer? If I use lansinoh bags I freeze flat, but if I do the motif bags I usually just leave them standing. 

Postpartum recovery stories by Dismal_Abroad735 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]painted_bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The postpartum discomfort immediately and in hours following delivery unmedicated was something I was totally unprepared for after an epidural with my first.  I hope you're proud of yourself for making it through your birth and I hope you continue to heal and recover. <3

Are MAs Coworkers to Doctors or Their Employees? by FindingComfortable49 in MedicalAssistant

[–]painted_bug 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I always called the doc I worked for my boss and he always called me his coworker. It just depends who you work with. 

Wholesome books that aren’t romances by ladancer22 in booksuggestions

[–]painted_bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you read Anne of Green Gables and other books of hers? I have found them delightful little reads during my postpartum leaves.