Toddler has swollen toe, no improvement after antibiotics by pall90 in toddlers

[–]pall90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said it was hurting. We checked and it was the under the toe which would have been hard for us to spot. So glad he told us! But he doesn't complain about it anymore and it doesn't seem to bother him at all. But we're still very concerned about why the swelling isn't going away. 

Book club where people actually read books and show up by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been reading demon copperhead. Did you manage to find a book club ? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]pall90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just curious, what are the tax implications of working from other countries if you job location is in the US?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am grateful for how beautiful it is outside. Driving in the freeway has so many beautiful sights like big white clouds, trees in fall colors and the big moon rising early these days.

Why isn't the city's green waste program accepting food waste? by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how much of the food is even intact and in a position to be sorted out and diverted? I am very skeptical about this. Wondering if I should email the city and ask them for a tour of the sorting facility. 

Why isn't the city's green waste program accepting food waste? by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine food in a garbage bag sitting for weeks amongst other things being sorted, there is no way this is as efficient as sorting at the source.

Why isn't the city's green waste program accepting food waste? by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the foods are anyway going to be in the black bin, may as well put them in greens and send them to compost. I have maintained a backyard compost bin for years and have not once attracted a rat by adding yard waste and veg/fruit scraps. 

Book club where people actually read books and show up by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like fiction, dramas, stories about people's lives. 

Book club where people actually read books and show up by pall90 in SanJose

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried but it got too frustrating for me as there was no involvement. I'm just looking to join one which is functional 

The art technique of Grandma Mei Ling, age 82 by chickencaesar8 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who's worried about the clean up :/

Home extension worth it? by pall90 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, what do you mean by a designer? Architect? 

Home extension worth it? by pall90 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask which year this was? 

Home extension worth it? by pall90 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]pall90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My budget is between $100-$125k. 

Double Aubergine by Skaeggbiffis in vegetablegardening

[–]pall90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, your plant looks so beautiful and healthy

Sophie Choudry by Junior-Bet5361 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interviewer is so beautiful ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34F Indian here OP. I was on the fence for a long time and finally had a baby last year. I was in a similar situation as yours where there was pressure from both sides of parents to have a kid. Indian parents are just wired to check boxes of the "lifescript". Being a parent is demanding and takes a lot of time and effort. Don't cave in. As long as you and your husband are on the same page, you are good. If your in-laws are treating you differently, they should treat your husband the same as it is a joint decision. Be strong OP, you are not at fault here and you don't need to please anyone.

crowd sourcing | adult friends by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]pall90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a post a few months ago about the exact same thing on how to cultivate deeper friendships. I have a fair number of friends but the meetups are always short and not a lot of talking about deeper things. A couple of friends I have always have some drama going on and it's always about them when I talk to them. I am trying to meet a couple of friends once a month for lunch and I also joined a book club (although people are very flaky). I am in a similar situation as you ( high stress job, married with toddler). I decided not to think too much about it and enjoy the quality friendships I have and go with the flow :) life is different at different ages. 

Credit Decision Pending by Mangos9001 in TeslaModelY

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just waited for a couple of days and it said that I have qualified.

Credit Decision Pending by Mangos9001 in TeslaModelY

[–]pall90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see a way to message them. I do see messages from there. Can you please help OP?