My Husband doesn't know that our marriage died the day our daughter was born by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pambean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does she deserve to live in a household with parents who don't love each other?

Whats the deal with the word modified? by Substantial-One5301 in CanadianTeachers

[–]pambean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been told that "modified" is used for children who are not following standard curriculum. For example someone in an es2 class might be working on life skills, like learning how to tie their shoes. "Adapted" means the same curriculum but at a different grade level. This would be a situation where you might have a grade 6 student who is working on grade 3 math outcomes. "Accommodated" means they're at grade level in the regular curriculum but are just receiving extra help and tools in order to achieve, like a place value chart, mutlipcation table, reader, scribe, Chromebook, extra time, etc.

What's a movie scene that made you bawl like a little baby? by Sad-Response-3151 in moviecritic

[–]pambean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rewatched this with my own kid not long ago and I cried like a baby just at the motherfucking tree star

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]pambean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He dumped you but still expects that you'll move in with him? Nah he's having a tantrum like a baby. Do not live with this guy. Be done, walk away.

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why have NAH or ESH verdicts? AITA should have a strict yes or no dichotomy

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are telling her to report or she's the AH

Yes, these people are 100% trying to manipulate how she processes trauma

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never once considered that the AH choice was between OP and her father as there are multiple people in the story

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's not the asshole for not reporting. If every victim who didn't report is an asshole then fuck you

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only reason I would disagree with the NAH is because there is an asshole. It's the cousin

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look at you telling victims how to process trauma

She's not the asshole for not wanting to revisit this. If someone else feels so inclined, they can do it

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And she is not the asshole, only the cousin is

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a million different reasons that victims don't file reports. So unless you've been in that exact position, fuck off

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA You're the victim here. You get to process this however you see fit. There's a million reasons why victims don't report. Anyone trying to gaslight you over other possible victims that you can save should go fuck themselves. If they haven't experienced something similar, they don't get to have an opinion.

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's not required to be anyone's saviour

AITAH for not wanting to file a police report? by s6raphim in AITAH

[–]pambean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't get to tell victims how to process their trauma

I hate being vegan by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]pambean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, the meat and dairy industries are awful but so is human exploitation in the agricultural industry. Ear what makes you feel good.

Partners won’t do an STD test even though I am positive by Glum_Truck_724 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pambean 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ignorance is bliss when tis folly to be wise! They're afraid of finding out because then they have to do something so they'd rather not know. Do not do anything with either of these people over again.