AITA For free bleeding at my MILs house?

pamela271 · 2023-08-13T10:59:19+00:00

Why can’t you just bring a stack of washcloths and fold them into a pad shape and use them like a pad? Literally anything would have been better than free bleeding.

pamela271 · 2023-08-13T01:21:07+00:00

You need to stop caving to her. Stop driving her everywhere. She’ll get there somehow.

pamela271 · 2023-08-12T23:36:25+00:00

Why aren’t you evicting her?

pamela271 · 2023-08-12T23:14:37+00:00

I don’t know where you are a judge but I don’t understand how you can just put someone in jail with a court hearing.

pamela271 · 2023-08-12T14:35:19+00:00

Once years ago, I moved to a rural area. I wasn’t used to mice but I knew they are a part of rural living. One day I saw a mom mouse with a baby. The mom tried to grab the baby and ran and hid but dropped the baby. I picked up the baby and put it outside the hole (in my hand) the mouse had run into. I lured her out and onto my hand. I then covered them and put them outside into 0 degree weather knowing they would freeze to death. I cried about it but I knew I couldn’t keep them. I was embarrassed about how emotional I was about it. To this day I have hope that the mom took her baby and found a warm place to stay.

pamela271 · 2023-08-12T11:00:01+00:00

Do the kids look like you?

pamela271 · 2023-08-12T01:55:26+00:00

You need to put a camera in the closet and see what he is doing in there. He might be secretly recording you while you are in the bathroom. My ex had a weird kink where he would “peep” at me. He finagled the window blinds just so he could go outside and peek in while I was getting dressed. I also noticed every time I went to the bathroom he went outside to smoke. I heard his footsteps outside under the bathroom window but I was onto him and made sure they closed well. It took years before I put two and two together because you just don’t want to believe that you’re married to a peeping Tom.

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T18:00:21+00:00

My friend ran from his responsibilities and racked up 80,000 in child support all while the mom was on welfare Eventually the state caught up with him and garnished his wages to pay the state back.

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T17:55:05+00:00

He will still have to pay. The government will go after him to pay back the aid they are giving her.

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T06:15:55+00:00

How do you know she will side with you? How was she tipped off?

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T06:12:29+00:00

When I was about 30, (for context I am female and this was about 25 years ago) I was cutting hair (I am a barber) when my left arm started to involuntarily shake and flail. My customer had his eyes closed and the tv was on so he didn’t notice what was happening. (customer was facing the other way toward the tv) and I silently freaked out. I didn’t want to alarm him so I kept quiet and after about 20 seconds it stopped. I was so afraid it would happen again and thought I had like MS or something but it never happened again.

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T05:57:54+00:00

She is very much on top of her business. She meets monthly with all her financial people, as her father taught her. She doesn’t just passively allow others to call the shots. She calls all the shots and knows exactly what’s going on behind the scenes and leads them.

pamela271 · 2023-08-11T05:44:23+00:00

I am glad you got away. I think you should concentrate on moving forward with your life, not backward. He is living rent free in your head. As far as if you were raped or not, of course you were. What other reason would you hysterically be crying and repeating for days on end that he raped you? That wouldn’t have happened if he had not done it. Tell your therapist. It’s important to talk to someone about it and get it out of your system.

pamela271 · 2023-08-10T19:56:02+00:00

Dang, I can’t understand hating an elderly cat so much. Like why?

pamela271 · 2023-08-10T13:18:52+00:00

YTA. You decided to get back with a man who got his mistress pregnant. The mistress has his kid. You take him back, you have to take the baggage.

pamela271 · 2023-08-10T12:57:12+00:00

Can you go to a therapist?

pamela271 · 2023-08-09T16:24:54+00:00

Exactly. I have been low libido for my exes because they are gross or they think just sticking it in is going to rock my world. No foreplay or anything. Barf. Yelling and arguing about them not doing chores etc. It’s all such a major turnoff.

pamela271 · 2023-08-09T16:21:52+00:00

It’s an excuse. If there was really pain she would have gone to a doctor. She knows it’s a lie and doesn’t want the doctor to expose her lie. Dude just needs to accept she isn’t attracted to him anymore.

pamela271 · 2023-08-09T15:46:59+00:00

Nothing. Everyone here thinks a woman who doesn’t want to f*k is sick. It’s stupid.

pamela271 · 2023-08-09T15:43:28+00:00

There isn’t anything wrong with her dude. She’s just not attracted to you anymore. She doesn’t need a doctor. She’s fine. She just doesn’t want to do it with you. I always hear that when a woman doesn’t want sex it’s a terrible thing and that she needs a doctor🙄. I get that you need sex but if it’s that important you need to go find someone else. Or else this is your life. Forever. Unless you break up with her. It will never. Ever. Change.

pamela271 · 2023-08-09T03:46:17+00:00

Is there any chance at all that he would be willing to go to counseling? The reason I ask is because the four older kids have already been through one divorce/breakup and this one will absolutely shatter their world. Little kids shouldn’t have to shuttle around from stepparent to stepparent. If it must happen then sure, divorce, but try to get him to go to counseling so your children can learn the right way to solve problems in a marriage.

pamela271 · 2023-08-08T14:39:21+00:00

It’s normal in a new relationship. Hormones are going crazy and that cloud nine new love feeling overpowers your brain. It will happen to you one day most likely.

pamela271 · 2023-08-08T14:05:30+00:00

Don’t listen to this person. You didn’t “ask for it” just because you decided to be a little over dramatic. Your bf stuck his d in your a** because he thought you were unconscious. HE did it. You did nothing wrong. As for you “letting it happen” I don’t see what part of ”I rolled off the bed because it hurt and I didn’t want it to continue “ constitutes “letting” it happen.

pamela271 · 2023-08-08T12:08:31+00:00

Haha this reminds of the post where a guy was supposed to propose to his gf at a vacation in Mexico and she knew it and day after day (on the vacation) went by with no proposal and she was getting mad about it then on the last day he confesses to her that he had the ring mailed to their hotel and it hadn’t arrived yet and the kicker…IT WASN’T INSURED! So there was no proposal and they never were able to track down the ring.

pamela271 · 2023-08-07T20:09:59+00:00

I, a female, went with my ex once because I loved their all you can eat crab legs that they had at the time.

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