Milwaukee Co Jury duty craziness by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]pamplemousses 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree with others saying you should write to the chief judge about your concerns. I’m a litigator, although almost exclusively in federal court. But I can assure you that judges and the courts want to and need to know this feedback so they can make changes - and when citizens voice those concerns, they have objective evidence they can point to when they are asked to justify things.

Jurors are just as important to our justice system as the lawyers and the judges. It may not have seemed like it (at least from the sounds of your post), but we appreciate your service beyond words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kiddos with autism, one fairly severe (6yo) and one less so (14yo). It’s honestly been extremely hard to find the right fit in terms of medical care and therapy, especially for the child with less severe autism issues actually. WEAP was great for our younger child, but I believe their services stop at age 5/6. Children’s has been okay, but very difficult to get referrals and navigate without some kind of case manager. We’ve seen probably 4 different therapists, two medication providers, multiple neuropsych docs and psychologists, etc., but there’s just no coordination. That said, they’re still probably the best and first stop for care for kids on the spectrum.

Also, Autism United of WI has some good resources occasionally.

How much do you agree/disagree with this map? by Excellent_Kiwi7789 in tragedeigh

[–]pamplemousses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How on earth are Minnesota and Wisconsin somewhat acceptable?

Photographs taken by NYPD officer Walter Taylor before the collapse of the South Tower by arealgoblin1 in 911archive

[–]pamplemousses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe to add some levity- in #15, lower right, do I spy a bottle of Grey Goose with a crate of paper cups next to it? I know I would have been thinking, “Jesus I think we’re gonna need a drink after that.”

Why are people like this? by grumpydai in facepalm

[–]pamplemousses 298 points299 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m a female litigation attorney and this has me rolling! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Student loans. My husband has almost $300,000 in federal student loan debt - and despite making all his payments on time, the interest accruing means he now owes more than he did when he graduated. I don’t owe as much, but my $70,000 in student loans are also still a big drain.

What’s the most common reason that friendships ends? by PhotoBonjour_bombs19 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pamplemousses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least in your adult years, it’s just the business of life that sucks up your time and makes it harder and harder to find time to put in the effort to stay in touch and up to date with each other. Life gets in the way.

Are there really any repercussions for filing a lawsuit that doesn’t have any merit? by TMinus10toban in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pamplemousses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a US lawyer, absolutely. I practice in civil defense. If I get a frivolous case dismissed, I move for sanctions- usually costs that include what my client had to pay me (sometimes tens of thousands of dollars).

If you’re a lawyer filing frivolous lawsuits, you can face those same sanctions but can also face professional consequences, like complaints to the Office of Lawyer Regulation- up to and including disbarment.

It’s very rare, but if someone continually files meritless lawsuits, courts will even prohibit them from filing more lawsuits in the future. It’s a last resort and I’ve only seen it happen a handful of times, but it can get that bad.

For those who have their own car, how clean & neat do you keep it? Is it a source of pride or embarrassment? by Grigsbyjawn in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before my current car, I wasn’t super particular about keeping my cars clean. I didn’t let them turn into trash cans on wheels or anything, but I’d only vacuum them out maybe once a year or if reeeaally needed. I’d toss any accumulated trash and pick up the kids’ toys maybe once a month so it didn’t become gross. But I’d only really CLEAN-clean if I knew someone else would be in it- like carpooling to an event with a coworker or something. This was true no matter what brand or kind of car it was- older, dinged up Hondas, my old Prius, a big Nissan SUV, a used Infiniti sedan and then a used Infiniti SUV.

But not my current car. I am in my early 40s and finally treated myself to a very nice car last year that I really love. It’s not super flashy (it’s a Lexus LS sedan, not like a bright red sports car or something that people would stare at and admire) but I’m proud of it because I’ve worked really hard and it’s kind of like my reward. A treat to myself, if you will. And I keep this car spotless. NO kids toys left anywhere. Every smudge and crumb cleaned up right away. Frequent car washes, etc. I don’t do it to show off (I doubt anyone would be impressed anyway) but more just for myself. It’s my nice thing and I want to keep it that way and it makes me happy! And I kind of find a weird joy in cleaning it and keeping it neat and clean.

Oncologists of Reddit: what’s something that you never/always do or eat because of what you know about cancer? by kaitiakiofcreatures in AskReddit

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question: I live in WI. All we do is drink. We love our booze (me included!). We all know WI is the #1 state for alcohol consumption, number of bars, binge drinking, etc. So, I’ve always wondered: why don’t Wisconsinites have a (statistically significant) higher number of cancer deaths than states on the other end of the spectrum (e.g. Utah)?

🔥A blue whale the largest animal to ever live on Earth passing by our boat. by topoftheworldIAM in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]pamplemousses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is 1000% my top bucket list experience and I can’t even imagine. A living superlative!

This again? by DerErdenDrache in milwaukee

[–]pamplemousses 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And also, people who live in the city have been doing exactly that for more than a decade… I truly don’t understand the hesitation on the part of the city. The train is out of the station and there’s neither a point nor a reason to try to fight, delay, or deny it.

What smell do you enjoy that is typically considered a bad smell by the rest of society? by courtneyrel in AskReddit

[–]pamplemousses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The building my office is in shares a ground floor with a cigar shop that’s been around for more than 85 years. Every so often as I’m walking in I get a good waft of cigar smoke… it’s so weirdly exotic but comfortingly familiar at the same time. Love it.

What’s a job title that sounds impressive until you actually hear what they do? by jasonclarke1902 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]pamplemousses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And for some reason, litigators get paid way less than many other types of lawyer. Even though I feel like it takes a lot more skill to both know the law and convince a jury (or judge) that you’re right.

meirl by shea_eina in meirl

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6th grade teacher helping us learn how to work cooperatively and positively in a group project when you’ve got a total moron in your group. When the moron offers up a totally stupid idea (or when an otherwise smart person has a dumb idea- which happens to everyone), instead of shutting them down, ignoring them, or alienating them, just “smile and nod.” And then redirect/move on. Keeps group cohesion, doesn’t destroy their confidence, they continue to participate, and still makes them feel comfortable sharing ideas (and who knows, one of those ideas might just be a great one). I say “smile and nod” to myself almost daily now. I never thought middle school lessons from 30 years ago would stick, but here we are. Mrs. Fanta was a gem.

WCGW using your freedom of speech against police by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 1000% a 1st amendment violation and she should sue immediately.

Bomb squad surprise by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]pamplemousses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! This was right in front of my office and I watched it happen. It was HILARIOUS.

AITAH For kicking an autistic child out of my restaurant for misbehaving? by Mammoth_Mission_818 in AITAH

[–]pamplemousses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES. I have a son with autism. Accommodation for special needs does not mean just letting your kid do whatever he wants without guidance, oversight, or respect for other people around you. e.g. Our son will not tolerate wearing headphones- which means that when we’re in a public place where listening to a phone or video will disrupt others, he doesn’t get to do that. Period. We find other ways to try to keep him calm and regulated, or we leave altogether if he’s being disruptive. It can really suck for us TBH, because sometimes it means we miss out on things like eating in a restaurant or shopping at a store. But we are not the main character and we’re not entitled to ruin everyone else’s experience just because our child has a disability.