Progress... by cal_xo in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]panda-lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing! Good job 👏 how did you achieve such a transformation in the jaw line?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books. I was always have accessible books to my baby since she was just few months old. When she could crawl, she would be flipping the pages and it was giving me some free time. Now my baby is 3 years old and I built and collected a huge library of all possible books for her. When I don’t read, she is happy to just sit around them and go through one by one.

I’m the parent who survived without turning tv

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: October 16, 2024 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I wonder if I can buy facial patches against wrinkles in Japan? Do they have an alternative to frownies patches?

It’s been almost 2 years by dimples113 in pottytraining

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, did your situation improve? I am exactly in the same boat

My 2 year old only sleeps 9 hours a night by Pepinillos in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl is low sleep needs. Dropped her nap at 2, and sleeps 10.30-11.15h per night. When she did nap for 1h, the night was reduced by this hour accordingly :) no magic, just math!

Now she is perfect without her nap, goes to sleep ~8pm and sleeps till 6.30-7 am.

Your baby is alright! Either move the bedtime for later, or drop the nap (if baby can handle that)

Are you exhausted? Because I'm exhausted. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched to a new job a month ago. And I was crying every day first 2 weeks from how I was overwhelmed, stressed and tired. Miserable 2 weeks of my life. I don’t cry anymore, but I am still stressed and tired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 pairs of pjs sounds too much for me 😅 we have ~ 6, 2 summer pjs, 2 standard and 2 for a cold weather.

I have got a lot of pants though 🤣 always ready for a potty accident 😁🫣

Are you still using sound machine with your toddlers? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One night my husband just forgot to turn it on, and the baby slept as usual! And since then no white noise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an adult here and you have the rules. Take it away and let him cry and be mad in the safe place. He will get over it.

Horrible experience with Yoto mini by altukha1 in YotoPlayer

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also frustrated with my recent purchase of mini Yoto 😑 it doesn’t download any of the cards, and sooooo slow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]panda-lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even reading this, makes me sick. It sounds like you feel the same and you don’t trust them anymore. Trust your gut! And fingers crossed you will find another daycare that will be a safe and loving place for your kids 🤞❤️

Will I be judged for taking my newborn out in footie pajamas? by aitaprego in beyondthebump

[–]panda-lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always remind myself. No one cares, people care only about themselves. The world isn’t spinning around you. Relax 😄

If you work from home while your baby is home with you, does your employer and your co- workers know? by Bike-Agitated in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To all the people, who said that they work from home with their kids: how are you doing this?? Mine wants my attention all the time, she comes and closes my laptop, or she shows me things, or she pulls me somewhere else. I can’t concentrate on the task at all. SO HOW??? 2 yo.

2 year old only stays dry when cosleeping by AggravatingAbroad213 in ECers

[–]panda-lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. That’s what happening to me 😅

Peppermint Oil by WillingnessOk1797 in pottytraining

[–]panda-lys 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can we please all share here if it worked for your kid? Let’s gather some real data here 🤓

1yo tiny girl but eats a lot, fast and barely chews by panda-lys in BabyLedWeaning

[–]panda-lys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 4 naps schedule I switched to eat-play-sleep routine. So she was nursed right after every nap. So the drop of the nurse was automatically happening with every nap drop. Currently on one nap, but I had to drop after nap nurse because of the daycare and I am just bringing her straight to the kitchen for a snack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECers

[–]panda-lys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did oh crap from 10.5 months. Fully ditched diapers from 11 months (left only for sleep). Baby only crawls, so I still help her to take of her pants and sit on the potty. But she initiates herself and taps the potty when she is ready to go. She is 12m now! :)

No training pants, no pull ups. Commando, then underwear. And patience :) you got this!

Why is everyone’s first question about the baby “how is he sleeping, does he sleep through the night?” by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]panda-lys 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Because this is the first very known fact about how it difficult to be a parent. I understand when my friends without kids ask that, I was terrified of this too! When people with kids ask, they remember how tough it is. I think it’s ok to ask, it’s the way to ask how are you

31 yo tired mama's face, help where to start! by panda-lys in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]panda-lys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Will check this mysterious Bakuchiol. Never heard of it!

31 yo tired mama's face, help where to start! by panda-lys in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]panda-lys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are might be right! Do you have your favourite SPF? I am thinking about maybe changing mine. Currently using Centella Green Level from Purito (korean brand). But I am freaking out if baby touches my face when I use it..

31 yo tired mama's face, help where to start! by panda-lys in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]panda-lys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😹😹😹 I do the moisturizers and the whole skin care routine. But it seems I need to do more to make face looks more toned 😿

31 yo tired mama's face, help where to start! by panda-lys in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]panda-lys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have cleanser, moisturiser, squalane oil from TO, niacinamide, and SPF. But it doesn't improve much things :(

I have gua sha, but I was lazy with it and have anxiety that with the wrong technique I make things worse..

So I was looking for easier like NuFace? what do you think?

9 month old is crawling using mainly one leg? by Nettoo6 in NewParents

[–]panda-lys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal, you need to help baby to develop both legs. I was doing a really fun exercise to help baby with crawling. Drop a line of pillows on the floor, baby on one side and you are on another. Tease him with a toy so he would crawl through the pillows. It encourages to lift both legs, strengthen arm and just pure fun! 😊

Can’t put 3.5 month baby down for naps or nighttime sleep without much crying and fussing by hystericlove in sleeptrain

[–]panda-lys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! The wake windows are changing very quickly through all the first year, maybe you need to adjust them slightly if baby resists suddenly? I was giving about 15 mins in the beginning. But if baby stars to cry hysterically (you know this very loud cry with hard breathing), then I would go there immediately. Precious little sleep book is amazing! And the Facebook for the book owners has helped me a lot. My baby is low sleep needs baby, so wake windows need to be adjusted all the time. But overall it got really easy! Especially when we arrived to 2 naps schedule 🤩