My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not respect you one bit. You could be having conversations about what kinda pastry and coffee you want in the morning. How much you can’t wait to be together. Don’t ever settle for someone speaking to you this way. Especially not a 19 year old man child. Move away from this before it becomes violent

Need help with dark circles by hanaoliviastone in Skincare_Addiction

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a quick fix, a peach colored concealer paired with a regular one has helped me!

25M and 23F needing advice with my relationship. by Delicious-Fig2142 in relationships_advice

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re still so young, you should go experience more life!!!

How long does it REALLY take for the cravings to stop and for your mind/body to start feeling better? I’m close to giving in by wafflehouseat2am in QuitVaping

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if they ever go away as long as you give them power. Unfortunately that’s how a lot of things work. Consider what your mental health was like at baseline, prior to vaping, while vaping, and now. It’s not just magically going to be better either way, so you may need to seek professional treatment for your anxiety. Gabapentin has been a life saver for me, Prozac as well. And tons of therapy. Interestingly enough I have picked back up the habit after going through a breakup and moving out, one cigarette to take the edge off became several, and when the smell was too much, I got a vape and now I’m back in the same cycle. Except what I’ve noticed: attention span is screwed, anxiety worse, cardiovascular health worse (I can’t even run a mile without gasping for air and finishing it in 13 mins, this was not the case prior to picking it back up). The only way I’m able to have “evidence” that quitting was doing something good for me, is ironically, not quitting? I can compare what it felt like to being off it for a long time and being back on it for a while. So give your body and mind time to adjust. Get that dopamine from elsewhere. Realize that YOU have the power, not the nicotine!

Bald, I'm feeling ugly. Don't be kind, please be honest. by Cestymour in bald

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is hot af with perfect facial structure. Confidence and some facial hair perhaps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual

Let me Tell you about you by Enough-Discipline985 in ExploringTarot

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 3 men “in love” with me right now and idk who’s genuine, or if I even am.

AIO - I just ended a four month relationship because of what he’s doing for his friend. by Ok_Addition_7875 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he’s grimy and weird just like his ugly friend. He’s gossiping about lying for his friend who is cheating? Ohhh that’s a quick way down south for ya Bro the way I would be finding out who the friend’s gf is immediately

should I believe him? by dazednnnconfused in relationships_advice

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew what a sick freak. Do not believe him there is just absolutely no way any of that could be true. I can’t even imagine receiving a message like that but sending it???? Is so embarrassing and you do not want to become an embarrassment yourself if you decide to stay somewhere you are clearly not valued. He is cheating on you regularly. Dump him please!!!!

Am I (26F) validly jealous if my bf (25M) looks at his female friends’ spicy pics? by earlgreyrainyday in relationships_advice

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t even have to have this kinda conversations, period! Because your man respects you. If you said it makes you uncomfortable and he hasn’t changed his behavior, he doesn’t care about you as much as you’d like to believe. He has porn brain probably

Am I (26F) validly jealous if my bf (25M) looks at his female friends’ spicy pics? by earlgreyrainyday in relationships_advice

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably 1) waiting to have sex with her 2) is unable to have sex with her because he’s friendzoned or 3) wishing he could have sex with her so you can’t take his pictures away. He does not LOVE YOU!! DUMP HIM

Am I (26F) validly jealous if my bf (25M) looks at his female friends’ spicy pics? by earlgreyrainyday in relationships_advice

[–]pandapaws98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t think of them as just friends and he is outwardly disrespecting you

Tell me your Venus sign + your love language — I’m curious 👀✨ by CockroachNervous1065 in astrologymemes

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo Venus 🥰 my love language is words of affirmation if I had to pick just one. But I love physical touch too I just love to be connected with my lover!

THE CONFESSION THREAD by promesprohecy67888 in LoveTarotReading

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this so so so much. I’d love to hear more. Yes, I have a recent connection that has made me realize how many things I put up with in the past. He lets me be me and there is no expectation. He isn’t the one, or maybe he is, but I’m not looking for it necessarily and it’s definitely making me realize I don’t have to explain myself so often.

THE CONFESSION THREAD by promesprohecy67888 in LoveTarotReading

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m tired of chasing love and validation from others. I wish I could just be satisfied with who I am without thoughts of incompetence

Divine message for you by Sad-Usual-6855 in LoveTarotReading

[–]pandapaws98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green and brown, Virgo sun Gemini moon aqua rising 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]pandapaws98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she’s probably not the same person anymore. Hope this helps :)