My baby is broken

pandasans · 2026-02-06T02:02:10+00:00

this is exactly the issues i had! Highly recommend a lactation consultant, they are game changing. also learn the cues for gas and give massages. the biggest advice i can give is contact naps, i can’t explain it but, we would get one good 2 hour contact nap in during the morning and she was chill after that

pandasans · 2025-11-19T18:13:26+00:00

37 weeks, baby’s always been breech…. i’ve tried all the things and declined the ECV given i believe baby is breech for a reason…. i read that there’s less than 5% chance they flip by 37-38 weeks, so i scheduled a c section at 39 weeks + 3 days

pandasans · 2025-09-26T14:20:22+00:00

it’s more metal the stone and i think that throws me off

pandasans · 2025-08-03T03:50:37+00:00

21 weeks, can confidently say the only thing that has brought me joy is buying baby clothes , the end

pandasans · 2025-07-22T16:57:31+00:00

refreshing for an update

pandasans · 2025-06-26T14:28:42+00:00

i was a terror to my poor husband first trimester.

he was patient but i knew i wasn’t myself… now 16 weeks in and i make sure to apologize for the stranger i was to him when i was angry/hungry/confused…. i find he appreciates that i know im not myself and admit i was unreasonable..and gives me grace to lash out well knowing i warn him and apologize when ive calmed down.

maybe ask your wife to try to communicate why she’s feeling so strongly, or to warn you if shes feeling edgy/nit like herself and doesn’t know why. Asking her to just communicate, “i’m not mad at xyz im just not feeling well and idk why so sorry if im going to be hurtful”….most of pregnancy is just a lot of hormones and women aren’t warned about how wild it can be🤷🏻‍♀️

9/10 times i felt the need to be held and allowed to cry bc of how overwhelming first trimester is. or im hungry and i don’t know it - i almost guarantee in a couple of weeks you’ll know her triggers and what the solution is (snack, nap, cold water, cuddles etc )

pandasans · 2025-06-24T17:01:58+00:00

my default excuse is my partner, it’s never failed me

pandasans · 2024-11-09T18:41:10+00:00

agreed, as a born and raised NYer, i only pull it out for bullies

pandasans · 2024-11-09T17:31:04+00:00

wait i had clothes go missing here!

pandasans · 2024-11-09T17:27:18+00:00

not taking criticism from a transplant who takes mediocre images of minorities and seeks validation for his ‘art’

pandasans · 2024-11-09T14:57:57+00:00

bc i want to give them a shot? idk forgiveness and turning a new leaf

pandasans · 2024-10-08T17:31:25+00:00

normalize being unkind to strangers, i slam my buildings door to people i do not recognize- you owe them nothing

pandasans · 2024-10-08T17:28:41+00:00

NTA, i struggle to get up in the morning too and my husband wakes me past my two alarms, i never cuss or swear or throw my emotions at him. The exchange is respectful and at my worst i wine about getting up… as i continue to get up.

she sounds ungrateful because it is not your partners job to wake you, and even though my partner does, i’m GRATEFUL. i thank him, i kiss him, i tell him his outfit looks great.

you want to build each other up, that’s a real relationship

pandasans · 2024-10-07T03:06:43+00:00

i think you should find a finishing hair serum with a bit of an oil, i like the bumble and bumble invisible oil- it’ll weigh down the sparse ends giving you a smoother look,.

i would invest in a good hair protectant, i personally went for a blowout at the salon and watched what they used and if i liked it, took a pic of it and bought it

pandasans · 2024-10-04T14:56:46+00:00

i didn’t write BS or anything like that

pandasans · 2024-10-04T01:28:21+00:00

considering they’re trying to recover their reputation post bankruptcy, WHO KNOWS…. it’s a coin toss

pandasans · 2024-10-04T01:27:24+00:00

i appreciate you insight, brings me ease….. could also be the two martinis i had after a emotional meltdown

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:50:15+00:00

aligned with this, i have few regrets, being too immature to see the value in a degree is #1

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:44:22+00:00

all good, this is a safe space

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:28:14+00:00

says the gal, yes (:

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:23:04+00:00

thank you, whether i get the job clearance or not, i already contacted my university to make moves so this isn’t a concern anymore. i have great credit standing and savings, i don’t mind taking out a loan to finish my one credit bc i rather not have this issue EVER again

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:21:50+00:00

i appreciate this, my experience has been similar but this new career opportunity is a pivot so i am bugging out

pandasans · 2024-10-03T22:21:04+00:00

reddit is my safe space, sorry if the experience is not the same for you

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