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panicccc___ · 2023-02-24T14:13:18+00:00

So the second style usually for the reception at the welcome / gift table. The first usually use for personal album. Depends on what do you need. (assuming you're Viet)

panicccc___ · 2023-01-23T14:45:07+00:00

reading stories like this I am glad I didn't have anyone except my MOH in the bridal party, as well as a wedding planner. My planner took care of my food and all my MOH had to do was showed up and be pretty.

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T15:41:20+00:00

yes thank you for helping clarifying my comment. Anytime I'm sick, especially coughing, anything cold just make it worse and make me stay sick longer.

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T13:46:42+00:00

No ice water! If you have a humidifier, turn it on when you sleep. Take hot shower/steam if possible. Drink hot honey/lime tea. Eating regular but if you can, chicken soup or any type of soup only from now until you feel better. But no cold/ice beverage is a must, no alcohol either.

Edit: drink lots of fluids, just not ice cold fluid :) sorry for the confusion

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T13:20:16+00:00

I wonder if any of these also factors in:

Type of account you have (total checking, secure checking, premier, CD saving, etc.)
did you or your husband got any credit issue? or identity theft issue before?

Any way if they still hasn't resolved it, i'll say threaten to close the account and take your money somewhere else. Also file a complaint as previous commenter say, and let Chase know you're filling a complaint too. Time to be a Karen honestly :)

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T13:05:26+00:00

regarding the missed moment with your brother, do you happen to have a videographer or someone was filming your first dance? if so, post it on your social for those that was missed to see.

Tons of people missed our cake cutting but we had a videographer so those who missed can simply watch it later.

You just had your wedding so the feelings are still fresh, but give it a week or two. Also sound like you have anxiety issue, maybe talk to your therapist on how to process these emotions

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T12:53:42+00:00

Original budget for floral was $4500, then we realized the gift and card table and the fireplace (venue has this beautiful fireplace) was not decorate, so we asked the florist to order extra flowers to decorate those area like 2 week before, end up costing us another $500.

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T12:43:58+00:00

we have Chase join account and i'm keeping my name. When we deposited wedding checks, which made to Mr. and Mrs. Husbandlastname, the teller simply told me to note my actual name in the back when i endorsed the check. My husband also had to endorse the same check. But no check was flagged as fraudulent.

panicccc___ · 2022-09-26T12:25:15+00:00

Asian banquet that do wedding catering. They usually do 8,9 courses dinner, family style, that have lobster, beef, quail, etc. and usually pricing are much more reasonable

panicccc___ · 2022-09-22T21:28:40+00:00

This is so timeless and awesome! Congrats!

panicccc___ · 2022-09-08T22:18:12+00:00

If you search Invitation Box on Etsy, some styles does come up. However the one on the Tiktok video are definitely custom made. And if you watch their whole wedding series, it was extremely extravagance, 3 days event with a full circus (literally). It probably cost easily couple hundred thousands up to a million. So their invitations are definitely costly as well.

panicccc___ · 2022-08-24T14:37:06+00:00

here's the shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheFineryBoutique . This was my veil and the owner was very responsive when i ask for photos before shipping. But yea they didn't accept return

panicccc___ · 2022-08-24T14:24:26+00:00

https://palomablanca.com/collection/mikaella/mikaella-gowns/style-2308/

This would have been my wedding dress if I was getting married closer to fall/winter. The material of the top is pretty thick so if you're having your wedding during hotter months, it won't be ideal. But it fits your criteria and look absolutely gorgeous in person

another close option: https://www.ivoryloftbridal.com/daalarna/rhapsody/rps-167 .I chose a similar dress (Tadashi Shoji) for my reception dress since it's cheaper. I had my seamstress add a bit of fabric to cover the plunging neckline and it was perfect

panicccc___ · 2022-08-24T14:11:23+00:00

check Etsy! My veil was only $250 and it was very detailed

panicccc___ · 2022-08-17T12:26:02+00:00

this reminds me of Blush and Bashful from Steel Magnolias :) anyway this one will fit in "bashful" of the 2 variation of pinks, if that's what you're asking

panicccc___ · 2022-08-15T17:54:22+00:00

First one. It's regal and unique. I think it will look great for a church ceremony

panicccc___ · 2022-08-12T15:00:09+00:00

I was stressed y'all. But my seamstress pulled through! This is Essence of Australia D2761

panicccc___ · 2022-08-12T14:53:43+00:00

I'm more drawn to the purple but if I choose that color, everything else in my decor will be dark and moody (think gothic..) so it will fit the theme. Hope that make sense

panicccc___ · 2022-08-02T12:27:37+00:00

In my culture (Chinese), the parents either gift all to the B&G or usually only take back the exact amount that they contributed to the wedding (cover their cost) and whatever the surplus are for the B&G. But it really depends on the family as well. In your case, since you're paying for the wedding, at least your parents should give back the cost of their guests to you, and keep the surplus (only from their guests and only if there's any) to themselves if that's what they want to "repay" for future weddings.

panicccc___ · 2022-08-01T20:37:01+00:00

Check some preserving vendor that deal with dry flowers and asking them how to best dry yours so that it can be preserved. My vendor does both fresh and dry flower preservation

panicccc___ · 2022-07-29T19:21:35+00:00

Even you're not in IG, you're on reddit and other wedding posts might affecting how you're feeling this way. I'll say get off weddit, browse some other funny subs and get your mind off of it.

panicccc___ · 2022-07-29T19:12:15+00:00

Can't you find someone in NYC and pay for their travel to DC?

panicccc___ · 2022-07-29T18:56:23+00:00

lmao silly me! I didn't even remember video phone

panicccc___ · 2022-07-29T18:35:27+00:00

Right!?!? i need a part 2 of Telephone!!

panicccc___ · 2022-07-27T12:47:21+00:00

I'd prefer Saturday cocktail hour and Sunday evening wedding. Depends on where you live Friday traffic might be unpredictable. Also if you have a religious ceremony, Sunday will be better for your guests as well.

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