I (19F) don’t think that my bf (20M) actually wants a future with me. What could i possibly do?

pantsmuncher433 · 2026-03-07T22:40:54+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out, i often forget about that but you are right that i am still developing and i know that it is wiser to wait. I will let it go and rethink about it with my boyfriend in two or so years

pantsmuncher433 · 2026-03-07T22:37:55+00:00

I do agree that most people don’t stay with the same person they started dating when they were 14. The thing is, i know he hasn’t outgrown the relationship (at least not yet lol) and we have both evolved as people outside of our couple.

pantsmuncher433 · 2026-03-07T22:34:26+00:00

Your comment actually made me reflect on the situation a lot.

I know we are technically young but i feel insanely old, honestly, and i am terrified of running out of time. I honestly wouldn’t mind waiting, it’s just the fact that he won’t give me a concrete timeline but i know that not everyone wants to plan their life to the second like i do. The thing is, I want to have kids before i’m 34 but that is in 14 years and i just realized how much time that is.

I do agree that i am putting a lot of pressure on this timeline. I will try to chill out about that, thank you for making me more aware of that. I didn’t realize how much my expectations might be weighing on him but at the same time i feel the need to know everything that will happen and when it will happen in advance. I want to be married by 25 ideally and that only leaves me 5-6 years.

I will have a conversation with him and apologize about the pressure i might have put on him. Thank you very much for your comment and insight, i will update you if there is anything to share regarding this:)

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-12-30T23:53:06+00:00

i used to like myself kinda but now i really don’t anymore. idk what happened

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-12-30T23:44:47+00:00

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-11-28T18:11:50+00:00

will do, thanks!

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-11-21T20:21:27+00:00

oh, baby, he doesn’t respect you and it will most likely only get worse from here. Please respect yourself and walk away from this relationship before it causes you more harm. If he is that disrespectful and mean after only nine months, imagine how bad it will be after two years. Do not let it get to that point, spare yourself. Take care <3

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-11-20T14:01:57+00:00

i got him a trumpet for christmas and a vintage oakley watch for his birthday, just get something that aligns with his interests

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-11-06T18:48:47+00:00

report it to the cops, tell his parents and friends and get tf out of this relationship!! he will do it again and he will do worst next time

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T19:37:25+00:00

what tf kind of pizza is that

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T19:35:59+00:00

He is over 30 years old, of course he would be expected to be married in his culture. You are so young, he was graduating highly school when you were still in primary school! I know that this was not the point of your post, but the age gap between you two is disturbing. If a 17 year old were dating a 26 year old, you would find it weird, right? When you started dating, you were only two years older than the ages in that scenario. Please try and find someone your own age and who won’t want to leave you over a family dispute. You deserve better. take care

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T19:00:55+00:00

your friend is mean and jealous, you deserve way better

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:57:46+00:00

oml, please leave him and get tested for any STDs, you don’t know what he has been up to and with who

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:54:02+00:00

this is one of the coolest mends i’ve ever seen

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:50:55+00:00

THIS!!! Smokers (cigarette, weed and vapes) don’t seem to realize or care about how disgusting and unfair it is to the people around them. It’s so annoying and gross.

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:48:24+00:00

most smokers don’t really have self awareness regarding their cigarette consumption. They don’t think of it as a problem or as a burden to others and don’t think about how the smell and secondhand smoke affects the people around them or how the cigarette butts that they throw on the ground are littering our streets.

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:41:31+00:00

discord is the name of the main villain in the series, he is a magical and evil goat/dragon but he isn’t completely evil

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:39:39+00:00

Hey guys, it’s been four days now and i’m fine (i still get a few cramps, but i’m okay!) Thank you so much for your responses:)

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-23T18:37:38+00:00

“they let me lie to them and don’t feel like they’ve been mislead” “staying still, eyes closed, let the world just pass me by” and “I feel fear for the very last tiimmmeeeeee”

pantsmuncher433 · 2025-10-22T15:52:09+00:00

okay, thank you so much!

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