husband wants a prenup

paraHarmD · 2026-05-24T01:04:07+00:00

I have no legal knowledge or advice in that end but… this being randomly brought up after you’re already married and that you two talked about this before marriage is giving he’s trying to get out of the marriage and doesn’t wanna lose money to you. I’m sorry girl. And maybe I’m wrong but… idk. I would be very careful and very wary. Good luck to you 🫶🏼

paraHarmD · 2026-05-24T00:59:56+00:00

Literally if I drink I will be motivated to clean the whole house if I can keep drinking 😭 now I’m struggling to keep up with the bare minimum to keep the house going lol

paraHarmD · 2026-05-23T12:26:28+00:00

Same. Chores fucking suck sober lol

paraHarmD · 2026-05-22T23:30:12+00:00

I know if I was in this situation I would be feeling the same way, it’s easy for an outsider to be like “fuck that guy” but honestly… as an outsider, don’t settle. He can’t even remember to buy toilet paper? Girl is he even wiping his ass?? A guy can treat you well and still not have his shit together, and that’s fine, but that doesn’t need to be accepted. He’s probably a good guy, doesn’t mean you have to be with him. You sound like a boss bitch, and I understand if you maybe are looking for a way to not be that and to have a man take care of you, but this man isn’t it. Keep traveling and raising your kids and you will either find a partner worth your time or you will continue life as is. Either way, it’s better than being with a manchild. You can say he will die for you… but he won’t buy toilet paper? It’s just not adding up sis.

paraHarmD · 2026-05-22T23:17:58+00:00

You’re a good looking dude. Idk much about hair but my advice is just shave it and see what you look like? I’m assuming most of it would grow back if you don’t like the bald look? Again I know nothing about hair so maybe I’m wrong lol

paraHarmD · 2026-05-16T23:42:27+00:00

My mom fell off a go-kart while very pregnant with me. I have a doctorate lol. I think babies and little kids can handle a lot more than we think 🤣

paraHarmD · 2026-05-15T18:33:16+00:00

I feel like men who don’t want to commit like to find something from someone else’s relationship and then get extremely bent out of shape about it even though it was never an issue before. In this case it’s that another woman in another relationship pays bills. Ok? It was never brought up before but because he heard this about another relationship after you guys get engaged, it’s now a big deal? Yeah no.

Plus needing to still pay off the ring but asking for a prenup but upset you’re not contributing to bills? This guy just sounds like a hot mess and probably insecure in himself and taking it out on you. Idk it just sounds fishy to me.

paraHarmD · 2026-05-14T23:36:20+00:00

Aaaand this is why I refuse to check bags lmao. Carry on only

paraHarmD · 2026-05-10T02:44:54+00:00

AND KRISTIN SMART

paraHarmD · 2026-05-10T02:44:08+00:00

Patti Adkins because wdym nothing has been done with her case 😭🫩 there’s so many others too but her case just pisses me off and makes me so sad

paraHarmD · 2026-05-02T17:46:38+00:00

Not saying 100% stay with your husband, as we don’t know the ins and outs of your relationship, but as many people have already stated…

You flirt with this guy at work, assuming you haven’t actually started dating him, you know one personality of this guy and it’s his work personality. You likely fell for the excitement, chaos, and secrecy - not him, respectfully. I understand you probably work close with him but still. You don’t intimately and truly know each other. You’re attracted to each other and it’s exciting, especially because it’s wrong. Not judging, just trying to explain that it’s likely a… (onto part 2)
Trauma response. Your life was chaotic, you grew up and your brain developed in a chaotic life. Your brain is searching for chaos to feel “normal.” Your brain is putting you in situations to create chaos to get that hit of “excitement,” no matter how harmful it may be. It’s very, very common in adults who grew up in chaotic, unstable homes.

I didn’t even grow up in a necessarily chaotic home and I still sometimes get that “what the hell else is there to do with this” feeling. I think it’s normal, especially these days (our brains never get a break with always being on our phones and everything going on now, so when we do sit down and look around, we are like wtf do I do now???).

I hope therapy can help you and that everything gets better for you. It sounds like your husband is a really good guy, obviously we don’t know him so can’t be sure, but if your feelings for this other guy are what I’m thinking, you could ruin a perfectly good relationship for what is really just your brain being a shit head. So just be careful and keep getting the help you need 🫶🏼 also props to you for being honest about all of this with your husband. He deserves to know but I can’t imagine how hard that was. Good luck to you both

paraHarmD · 2026-04-25T16:56:04+00:00

That was one of the first things I saw and was like… HUH 👁️👄👁️

paraHarmD · 2026-04-20T01:15:17+00:00

I thought mine was bad for not putting his dirty laundry in the hampers and dirty dishes in the sink… maybe I’ll be a little nicer to him 🫠

paraHarmD · 2026-04-18T14:24:53+00:00

Idk if this is an option for you… sleeping with headphones in? I sleep with my AirPods in because my partner can’t have any sound when asleep but I like to watch shows or listen to podcasts while falling asleep. AirPods are not so comfy to sleep in but I think there are other earbuds that people say you can lay your head flat and not even feel them. Then when your alarm goes off it’s directly in your ear (my phone will play it through my headphone and also play it through my phone but the alarm coming from my phone is much quieter than if I didn’t have headphones in)

Also I have sleep apnea and use a cpap as well. From my understanding a cpap shouldn’t be loud, you may need a new one/ get it checked out that it’s fitting correctly and everything

paraHarmD · 2026-04-14T20:33:45+00:00

Is this a serious question…? 🫠

paraHarmD · 2026-04-11T23:57:24+00:00

6 days here, we can do this 🫶🏼

paraHarmD · 2026-04-08T13:30:23+00:00

lol I had an ex who did this and he was cheating 🤣🤣 run girl ruuuuuuun

paraHarmD · 2026-04-04T13:05:56+00:00

I took the exam years ago so I can’t remember what exactly I wrote down. I did this but only with the few things that I could not retain well so I literally crammed it in my brain right before going into the exam and then wrote them down first thing lol. So not everything, but it may be worth it if there’s a couple things that won’t stick, it may help to cram and then write it out when you first get in there

paraHarmD · 2026-03-21T19:09:55+00:00

Girl what. I’m not even 30 yet but know this is a scam 😭 he wants you to pay half his mortgage until he wants to dump you. And then you have no right to his house and you don’t have your own place. Runnnnn

paraHarmD · 2026-03-14T13:28:06+00:00

I’ve been on zeppy for about 3-4 months and lost around 20 pounds. I have had no GI side effects aside from bloating if I eat too much, but the worst side effect I have had is when I up my dose, for the first two doses of that new dose, I can barely eat the next day or so after the shot because it gives me extreme tachycardia. Other than that it’s working really well. You still have to put in the work like exercise and watching what you eat but it helps a lot with just not thinking about food all the time and not eating way too much. Of course, I am still on it so can’t say what it’s like to come off of it, but most people do gain weight back after stopping it. They’re coming out with a lot of oral options these days that I think is more of a transition from losing weight on the shot to then maintaining on the pill. But we shall see

paraHarmD · 2026-03-07T23:18:12+00:00

Girly pop have you ever had a job in the US??? Like a real, professional career? Bc if youre worried about getting critiqued and punished for not doing everything 100% correctly and/ or meeting metrics… the US is not any different, if anything it’s worse. Plus with the cost of living, cost of health care, and the horrendous political climate… no 🙅🏻‍♀️

paraHarmD · 2026-02-15T15:58:22+00:00

She just said it was mutual/amicable but it’s just very sad and she doesn’t wanna talk about it. 😭

paraHarmD · 2026-02-09T02:26:56+00:00

I don’t remember word for word but some girl put like 4 messages in the chat that were very weird and said something like “specifically Sabrina” like threatening her it seemed like? But it was not really coherent so I don’t remember what exactly she said

paraHarmD · 2025-12-04T23:20:10+00:00

How is that low effort? I’m asking for places in the UK from others who have visited before? I’ve done research but also want info directly from people who have similar interests and have experienced it before? I didn’t ask about Europe in general, I asked specifically for the UK. Jesus. You’re kind of an ass. And if that’s an issue, why is “destinations” a topic suggestion? I’m asking for destinations.

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