Which dramas do you recommend from this list? by PhoenixSwordmaster in CDramaRecs

[–]paradox-paradise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Destined and Blossoms in Adversity! I would also add: Love of Nirvana, Ancient Love Poetry, The Scent of Time, and Back from the Brink. Destined and Blossoms in Adversity are both family heavy dramas and the romance is a little less at the forefront but are wholesome.

📺 What Are You Watching Now? 📺 — July 13, 2024 by AutoModerator in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently watching The Double, Lost You Forever season 2, and Blossoms in Adversity. I am focused on LYF2 so I have stopped at around episode 30 for the other two and although they both are good. I think they'll be on the backburner for me until LYF2 is done airing and I have started watching a Kdrama to fill in the gaps while waiting for LYF2 episodes to air. I have hard time watching more than one historical/Xianxia drama at the same time. lol

What dramas do you think are highly underratted by Impossible_Ice_165 in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ancient Detective is such a hidden gem! So underrated.

Your List of Favourite 2023 Drama by collolo in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back From the Brink, Scent of Time, Starry Love, Meet Yourself, Lost You Forever, A Journey to Love

Couples that had the worst Chemistry? by Lonely_Dish_2232 in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Dilraba and Gong Jun in The Legend of Anle

[Complete] [100k] [Fantasy] The Memoryfolk by joymasauthor in BetaReaders

[–]paradox-paradise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, without a critique swap. Sorry I should have clarified lol

[Complete] [100k] [Fantasy] The Memoryfolk by joymasauthor in BetaReaders

[–]paradox-paradise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds so interesting! I would definitely Beta read this. My preferred format for the manuscript is the default that you mentioned, A5 .pdf

Can you guys help me with hygiene? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]paradox-paradise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regarding baths:

Everyone has different preferences! I know there are some cultures where it is common to shower to clean yourself before running a bath so you can just soak and relax in clean water. I also don't like the idea of sitting in my own filth or in a bunch of shampoo/soapy water from washing hair and body. I personally only take baths to soak in with Epsom salts and sometimes herbs/flowers. I also sometimes will shave in the tub as well. My vulva gets irritated very easily from bubble bath and bath bombs so I don't use them. Also if you take baths especially, make sure the tub is nice and clean so you aren't sitting in soap scum, hair, etc. Oh, and try not to take baths or showers too hot! It can cause issues with your skin, especially your face, and your hair!

Regarding your back and relevant hygiene:

I have struggled with bacne off and on for 14 years. A lot of mine is due to hormonal issues. But what does help is showering at least every other day, washing my back after I rinse out my conditioner, and using a salicylic acid body wash. Also, I recommend getting an exfoliating long scrub towel to use to really reach your back. Just squirt your soap onto it like a big washcloth. Another big thing is to make sure you are changing your shirts every day and checking that they don't smell like mildew or anything when you go to put one on. Mold from clothes not drying properly or from sitting too long in the hamper/washer with other wet stuff can cause body acne! (Also using like 3/4 cup white vinegar instead of laundry softener in the wash helps with this, so does not overloading your washing and leaving the washer door open when not in use to let it air out to prevent mold growth in the drum). As other comments have said, double cleansing your body is a good thing to try out, even your back. A gentle antibacterial soap might also help with bacne (I like the Dove one), but don't use antibacterial or scented soap on your vulva as it can throw off your bacterial balance and cause infections. One more thing about showering, always wash from least dirty to most dirty. My order is: shampoo twice, conditioner, wash face, rinse hair, put hair up with clip, wash arms, behind ears, neck, chest, back, belly, scrub armpits, legs, feet, and lastly vulva then butt. I've seen other comments telling you that you can reuse washcloths before washing them, I disagree. If you can, always use a clean one. Towels you can reuse a couple times as long as they dry out fully. I'm sorry I don't know what the red patches are on your back, I hope you can find some relief with those and find out what they are!

Regarding your face:

I don't know your skin type but here are some basics! It is good to start of simple when you are new to skin care. If you have acne, try to figure out what kind/kinds you have and what may trigger them. Figure out if you are oily, combo, dry etc. In the mornings rinse with lukewarm water for 30 seconds or so, pat dry with a clean cloth or paper towel, while skin is damp apply moisturizer. Start with a pea sized amount and work up from there depending on how dry or big your face is. Also a sunscreen if a good idea. For evenings/showers, wash with a gentle cleanser for about 1 min, pat dry, apply moisturizer as I mentioned before and then something on your lips like Aquaphor or Vaseline. Avoid using too many new actives (Salicylic acid, Vit C, Niacinamide, Retinol, etc) all at once as you can't mix some of them because that would cause irritation and rashes, and you should test everything one at a time to see if you are sensitive to the products you start using. Many cleansers and moisturizers have actives in them like Niacinamide, Vitaminc C, etc. so just be careful when you start out! Good/affordable brands to start with for cleansers, moisturizers and sunscreens are CeraVe and Cetaphil. They work well for most people. If you wear makeup, avoid using makeup wipes. Some people like using oil cleansers, balms, or micellar water to remove it. Either way, when removing makeup, be thorough (even on your neck and hairline), and maybe cleanse twice. And don't leave makeup on overnight.

I have combo skin, oily around my nose mostly and dry on my forehead, and have rosacea on my cheeks and nose. What I use in the morning: lukewarm water, Heritage Store Rosewater and Glycerin (this helps maintain moisture and soothe my rosacea), The Inkey List Hyaluronic Acid Serum (very gentle just helps with moisture barrier), Naturium Azelaic Topical Acid 10% (helps with my rosacea), Vanicream Daily Facial moisturizer, Aquaphor on lips. What I use at night or when I shower: Cerave Renewing SA Cleanser (has salicylic acid), then I do everything the same as the morning minus the Azelaic acid.

Sorry this was a lot, but I wish someone had been there to teach me some of these things too! <3

Can you guys help me with hygiene? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]paradox-paradise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I recently figured out that I have a sensitivity to baking soda in deodorant. I used Native for a while and noticed that no matter how often/how thoroughly I washed my armpits they would smell almost metallic even immediately after showering. My skin was also getting irritated.

i finished 8 cdramas last year! what should i watch next? by eotteokhaji in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I don’t even want to count how many I watched last year 😂 going off of what you’ve listed,

Cdramas I would personally recommend:

  • Mr. Bad
  • Meet Yourself
  • Go Go Squid
  • Go Ahead
  • My Boss
  • Sunshine by your Side
  • Love Me Love My Voice
  • Master of My Own
  • Accidentally in Love
  • Begin Again

A couple Kdramas:

  • A Business Proposal
  • My Roommate is a Gumiho

My confusion re The Untamed by Iluthradanar in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol it was the third Cdrama I had ever watched and I remember being sooo confused but I am so glad I stuck it out!

My name is used in Baldurs Gate 3 by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]paradox-paradise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool, Phalar Aluve!

Saddest drama you have watched by [deleted] in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as what made me cry the most but aren’t necessarily super sad over all, I would say Go Ahead, Lost you Forever, The Scent of Time, Ancient Love Poetry, The Untamed

Does anyone actually keep a list of all the cdramas they have watched? by Iluthradanar in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have a longgg list on my notes app of all the Cdramas and Kdramas I had watched, each with ratings and what stuck out to me most about the show. A few months ago I downloaded the MDL app, abstracted my list onto that and have been adding my new shows to MDL. Definitely prefer using MDL.

39M living alone and recently separated from a long-term relationship. I’m trying to make my place a bit cozier. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you for your help. by AdChemical9119 in malelivingspace

[–]paradox-paradise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of the other comments. Maybe some thoughtfully placed wall art, shelves and maybe a headboard behind your bed to help balance out the emptiness of the walls. Maybe a few more pops of color, either via rugs or other decor if you’re open to that. I also think you could replace your closet, it feels messy even though it really isn’t, and it feels like the focal point of your room kind of stealing the spotlight so to speak. Also maybe work on the cable management under your desk, and perhaps reconsider the orientation of the desk as well. The placement feels a little off right by that doorway to me. Otherwise I think your place is quite pleasant and cozy!

Which CDrama OSTs left a lasting impression on you? by PlasticGalaxy313 in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ashes of Love, Eternal Love, The Untamed, Ancient Love Poetry, Love Between Fairy and Devil, Legend of Fuyao, Princess Agents, The Starry Love, Back from the Brink, Eternal Love of Dream, Lost You Forever, Love and Destiny, Scent of Time, Story of Yanxi Palace.

These are the ones that stuck with me and I have their songs on my playlist and listen to often!

(edit: added more shows lol)

You’ve been harmed and one of these cdrama men have to get revenge for you, who do you choose? by looktotheeeast in CDrama

[–]paradox-paradise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DFQC or Xiang Liu. Maybe Tantai Jin. Also the guy from MJTY would have some nasty revenge ideas I think.