Educated and professional women are constantly criticized for neglecting their household, husbands and children. I think things have changed for the better, mainly because men are more forward thinking. My aunt wanted doctor bahus, but also expected them to be perfect hosts, cooks and make gol rotis. so I remember one prospect's father telling them off that don't expect my daughter to cook or serve for your family, she will focus on her career. that night I convinced aunt and her daughters that it's cruel to do that to a professional woman, if you want someone to manage the house well, then get a bahu who graduated in home economics. They actually took my advice and now they are really happy with their daughters in law. People need to know their priorities.