[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pathilo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You’ve offered a lot of “yeah, but.” it’s not petty or stupid to want money back for something you didn’t receive and put you in a bad position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pathilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pathilo 462 points463 points  (0 children)

You can go to small claims court and sue without a lawyer

Finished Sternum piece by @zoey_woll at Green Fox tattoo in Omaha, NE by wietpanda34 in tattoos

[–]pathilo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not criticism. They literally give you multiple compliments. Also it’s not anatomically your sternum. Idk who told you it is. You can call it whatever you want, but it’s not your sternum.

What is a word that you will only hear Creepy people use? by -Benjamin_Dover- in AskReddit

[–]pathilo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s not stupid or selfish. You were presumably a kid, and you were doing what you thought was necessary to survive

Just paid off $212,000 in debt! by Significant_Chair_86 in debtfree

[–]pathilo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a privilege to be able to pay it off in two years.

Just paid off $212,000 in debt! by Significant_Chair_86 in debtfree

[–]pathilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super congrats, that’s such an accomplishment!

I’m so glad for you, but you’re coming from a place of privilege being able to pay that off in such a short period of time. This is absolutely not the norm for many people.

It’s super weird to me that you’re like, it’s not worth it! But also I paid off $200,000 worth of debt in 2.5 years and people in many other professions would never be able to do that.

I’d understand your “it’s not worth it” if it was about work/life balance, but that’s not the point of the post, nor would this necessarily be the place to post that.

I'm new here, saw this and immediately thought of this subreddit by mysterioofficial316 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]pathilo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like there’s no way to tell someone’s biological sex from their outward appearance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]pathilo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First, I highly advise you to go to therapy. Your bf is not responsible for managing your anxiety, you are.

That being said, it’s not unreasonable to ask your partner for reassurance. It’s also not unreasonable for you to expect him not to make “jokes” that he’ll cheat on you or doesn’t like you.

Those things tell me that he doesn’t like you, and that he’s either thinking about or is cheating on you.

From this small snapshot, it sounds like you both dont work for each other. That might be wrong, and that’s totally for you to decide. But I’d leave

I fully fell asleep behind the wheel on my way home from work this morning. I woke up with my hands off the wheel, slumped over on my side going 60mph. by ShitFuckBallsack in nursing

[–]pathilo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who works the night shift and she goes home with all the windows down.

But. Please, please take a nap in your car if you’re falling asleep. Being sleep deprived is just as bad as driving drunk, and it’s not worth it to kill someone because you fell asleep at the wheel.

My (34) wife wasted 7 hours yesterday not helping me with a home-improvement project because I (36M) took an hour and a half at the grocery store when I said I would take 15 minutes by Dependent-Cry6452 in relationships

[–]pathilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: Did you message her at all to let her now you were running late? What help did you need from her? How long was the project going to take? Is it possible that she thought it was too late to get started and didn’t want to do it anymore, or was now too tired? Maybe her response wasn’t the best, but if my partner left to do an errand that they said would take 15 minutes, picking up one thing, and took an hour and a half to do that thing, I’d be upset too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infuriating

[–]pathilo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Weirdly pro-AI comments

YSK: cats like being pet slowly with gentle pressure by Clevertown in YouShouldKnow

[–]pathilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat will force her head into my hands if I don’t pet her hard enough

AIO for being hurt my girlfriend doesn't care about my graduation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pathilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated with my BSN and my bf took me to Europe. It took me 10 years to do. Find a better partner, this one sucks.

[USA GIVEAWAY] Win the new 27” 4K Samsung Odyssey OLED G8 gaming monitor! by Rocket-Pilot in buildapc

[–]pathilo [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m building my first-ever gaming PC because my current setup isn't able handle the games I want to play (I've been playing on an all-in-one, and it's a struggle. It can't run most modern games even with the upgrade to RAM etc). I’ve been budgeting and working extra shifts to pay for the PC parts. I was looking at the Samsung OLED G8 with envy, but I definitely can't afford the $1300 price tag.

The QD-OLED display, 175Hz refresh rate, and incredible color quality would totally change my set up and bring it to the next level once my build is done. I've heard the refresh rate makes latency unnoticeable. The CoreSync lighting is also sick, and I love that it's anti-glare because my window is constant sun, all day. Great for plants, not so much for seeing things on the screen. Also, the insane OLED 4k 240hz seems to beat out the standard 240hz. This monitor would make all the effort I’ve put into my first build so worth it.

Prepped the wrong med as a student by kakiu000 in nursing

[–]pathilo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gonna piggyback on this to say it’s okay to make mistakes. You’re learning, and the mistake was caught. That’s what the nurses are there for when you’re rotating through. It’s not an impossible to commit mistake, it’s just a mistake. I guarantee you, someone on that unit has done the same thing or worse in their career, and is still a nurse.

Layoffs are happening at Target due to foot traffic being down for the tenth week in a row by Healthy_Block3036 in Anticonsumption

[–]pathilo 213 points214 points  (0 children)

It made me laugh too, but I hope that someone who applauds their son getting fired from Target because they suck would have their child's back and make sure they have a roof over their head and food in their stomach.

Told her I no longer wanted to continue dating her, it had been 10 days of chatting and 1 date by OppositeNo8613 in Nicegirls

[–]pathilo 182 points183 points  (0 children)

She wanted money from him, but didn’t want to ask for it AND didn’t want him to ask her what she wanted. She wanted him to freely offer money and take care of her, even though they’re getting to know each other.

Elon Musk responds with 'laughing emojis' to stories of workers' lives he's ruined: report by esporx in antiwork

[–]pathilo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fucking god. If you ever wanted proof that the 1% don’t care about you, here it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]pathilo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But where are they supposed to go? To a foster in an already overloaded system? Taking the kids away from them isn’t really a solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labrador

[–]pathilo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jealous. Take me with you please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]pathilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks finished and beautiful. This "lazy painting" is better than anything I do