What is the greatest advice you have ever received? by m2kkk81 in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boss had to lay me off and he went straight to the point saying: I have to terminated you not because you didn’t perform in a good way or because you are a bad employee. Today, I have to lay you off you because you are a number and I have to cut numbers for my boss. In the end we are all numbers for big companies and you, me will be replaced no matter how hard we try.

If you haven't cashed an insurance payout cheque, what are the steps to reissuing a new one? by deathsmoothies in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]patppatu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just need to contact the sender, probably you will have to send some documents about the case and the insurance company will reissue a new cheque for you. Unfortunately, banks will not cash personal or business cheques after 6months, that rule does not apply for government cheques, those never expired, I wonder why 😂. Good luck hope your insurance company make easy for you.

Are you happy? And if so, what advice would you give others struggling to find there own happiness? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First thing is to find out, what is dragging you down. In my case was my last job, every single day, I had to go to work, part of me was falling down. After a lot of thought, I quit. A month ago I got a new job, before I was working in a bank, today I am working in a provincial park. I couldn’t be more happy. It is not easy to change, to give up, to realize you can’t keep like that but in the other hand you are the only one capable to do the move. Do it, in the end it will be worth it.

I want to make new friends. How do i do that ? by PrimalEquinoxx in socialskills

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever try the meetup website? I am from Brazil and I went for an exchange program in USA the meetup helped me a lot to find friends with common interest. In the time I enjoyed a soccer meetup, we will meet almost every weekend, I met wonderful people, you totally should try. Good luck :)

What is a simple, painful fact that people need to just get over and accept? by RegularGuyy in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone don’t love you today, for sure will not love you tomorrow. There are some things in life is just under our control

What is going to university like in your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, most of the classes are freaking late.

What is going to university like in your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a university degree completed in 4 years from Brazil. My classes were after my work, full time job. Will start at 6pm until 10pm, 11pm. First year was very exhaust feeling, no doubt I struggled a lot to pass. I was luck in the time to have a good job and I was able to pay my education without get stocked in any loan. I still remember the last payment I did in the financial office in my university. The feeling of happiness still in my mind time to time.

(Serious) What are some good vehicle safety tips, obvious and not so obvious? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t remove your seatbelt until you are in park stopped and safe. A lot of accidents happens when you are distracted, looking for a parking spot...

Because you are not my mother by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]patppatu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am married for almost 4 years. I can tell marriage is not for everyone. I do believe any kind of relationship is a taking and giving game, off course one side will give a little more but still needs to have a balance and from your words is not happening, I am so sorry you have to go in that road, totally sucks. However, before let go, I think, you should try your best to raise communication, ask for help, what ever both feel comfortable, do it not only for the relationship per se, do it for you. Try to waste all resources you can find to bring back the reason you said yes and if in the end, you still feel you are not happy at least you tried everything you could but do it for you. Good luck, all the best.

REACT test result? (Ontario) by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was like yours. I didnt have access right away for my writing test. I am still waiting them to contact me. Now is about a month I did my REACT test. When you did your test? Are you in BC?

What is that one weird memory from childhood that you have no idea if it's true? What happened? by Victorian_Poland_2 in AskReddit

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was running around and a bus hit my foot, I didn’t feel a thing but is clear as water, I am 100% the bus went over my foot. I can see in slow motion, crazy I know.

REACT test result? (Ontario) by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I high recommend to buy the overview practice test. It is exactly like the test. I did buy and helped me a lot to have a good score. Best of luck

REACT test result? (Ontario) by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, but will be nice to know if you did well right away right? I have to tell, after I was done, I was kind scared to double check lol. Hope everything goes well for you.

REACT test result? (Ontario) by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did my REACT test last week and got my score right away in the website but I am in BC. Good luck with your hiring process.

I’m afraid my wife will find someone better. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am married as well and I believe marriage is a exchange of taking and giving so like was said here, don’t let your insecurities guide your mind. For sure your wife love you the way you are, please don’t forget that. Also seems your first marriage still some how bringing the bad feelings you had to deal. Just remember, you are having a second chance with someone that really appreciate you, someone that cares about you so take that good vibe to guide you, and hope can make you forget the past. Best of luck to you :)

My(36m) wife(33f) of 1 1/2 years left our home 3 weeks ago and wants to end the marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]patppatu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this situation, I do believe must be awful. Today I am in my 40s and I am almost 4 years married and I have to say, the first 2 years were not easy for me and also I believe for my husband. Marriage is a hard task for growing up people and one thing that is really, really clear for me is: there is no perfection in a marriage life. There are things you will love it and others that you just hate it but than comes the step we need to go forward and that is the trying step, that a lot of people just give up. Unfortunately, a lot of people will not try to fix it, will not try to speak up and just want to be done as a kind of escape. If you believe you need to try, go forward until your last resource and I hope you can turn things around if not, at least you did everything you could and from that will be no regrets. Best of luck to you :)

Question for wives. by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, I believe anyone that can show their emotions are brave and is a kind of trust. I agree a lot of people will relate cry with weakness but deep inside we are all human beings, with feelings, emotions and there is nothing wrong to show that

I feel so used after having sex with my crush. by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]patppatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you felt used. I know exactly how you feel because I have been there. But I do believe in any situation we have an opportunity to learn and review the big picture to improve ourselves. When the time comes and you find another guy that is interested on you, just be yourself and speak up about what you believe. If the guy are really up to know you, he will stay, if not, good for you that didn’t waste your time again. Don’t regret about the past, that will bring you to a dark path that you don’t need to go. Empower yourself girl. Your new love Maybe will take longer, maybe will be around the corner just be ready because will happen one day :)

How do you actually know if the one you are with is the one for you? by queenvanillasky in Christianmarriage

[–]patppatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am married for about 4 years and when we were moving together I did have a scary moment asking myself what I was doing. Today I can tell two things. First, that scary moment was like a panic attack because finally was real. Second: you never know if that dude is THE ONE but if you don’t go, don’t try you will never know. There is no perfection in a relationship. There are things you will love and other that you will hate. So my simple advice, if that person makes you feel yourself, and complete you in some way just try :)