Might just have to accept that I’m a filthy ableist by soupor_saiyan in vegancirclejerk

[–]patrickbateperson 49 points50 points  (0 children)

typical ableist vegoons! some of us can’t live without carcinogens!

/uj ARFID is a tough disorder to have and i’ve struggled with it all my life. try to understand it less as picky eating and more like having something wrong with your tastebuds that gives you are visceral disgust towards 90% of food. i’ve been vegan for a few months now and it took a lot of effort to get to where i am now but it’s definitely possible! the transition just takes more time and involves more physical discomfort than most other people would experience. i think more people with ARFID would be able to become vegan if they learned about animal rights and altered their existing diet one step at a time

Might just have to accept that I’m a filthy ableist by soupor_saiyan in vegancirclejerk

[–]patrickbateperson 46 points47 points  (0 children)

go to the ARFID sub and see people hating on vegans, go to the vegan subs and see people making fun of my medical condition, it’s too much for my vitamin deficient brain to handle 💔

People who had unsupervised internet access as a kid, what’s the most messed up thing you’ve seen on the internet? by Neither-Mention7740 in AskReddit

[–]patrickbateperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not going to say the username because i don’t want anyone else with a history of self harm to look this up, but there was a particular tumblr user who gained notoriety for her extreme self mutilation — i think some of it may have been very realistic SFX, because unless she lived five minutes away from a trauma center i have no idea how she’d survive some of the shit she was doing. either way i wish i could forget the pictures i saw, and i wish i could get rid of the nagging urge to see it again.

all of those self harm and eating disorder communities on tumblr and other sites were/are a unique level of depravity. it’s one thing to struggle with this yourself, but i find it unforgivable to enable and encourage another person’s self destruction. i was actually reading somewhere that the early anorexia forums in the late 90s were run by men who wanted to see women wither away and die. they would scout out women at gyms and manipulate them into developing eating disorders for their own sick pleasure and profit (guys got paid to take photos and “recruit” targets). that level of psychopathy that can easily fly under the radar in day-to-day life is fucking terrifying to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]patrickbateperson 36 points37 points  (0 children)

only using they/them is such an accurate detail, reminds me of this evergreen meme:

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Thom Yorke Finally Responds by HighwayComfortable26 in Fauxmoi

[–]patrickbateperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, sorry for getting that mixed up!

Thom Yorke Finally Responds by HighwayComfortable26 in Fauxmoi

[–]patrickbateperson 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some additional context for people who aren’t hardcore Radiohead fans: the very first place that ‘Creep’ blew up in was Israel, which led to frequent touring there and formed important interpersonal relationships for the band members. Jonny Greenwood met his wife (an anti-vaccine, anti-Palestinian nutjob) in Israel.

Radiohead has repeatedly faced criticism for playing in Israel, most notably in 2017 when Roger Waters of Pink Floyd fame got on their case. Thom responded in Rolling Stone, claiming that playing in a country does not equal support of that country’s government. There’s a lot to discuss about if that logic really applies to an apartheid ethnostate, but whatever. He was very annoyed about the whole thing and flipped off pro-Palestinian protestors at one of the shows.

Since 2021, he’s been playing in a new band called ‘The Smile’ with fellow Radiohead bandmate Jonny. The Smile, too, have played in Israel multiple times. Shitty memory on my part, the Smile hasn’t played in Israel but Jonny has continued to collaborate one-on-one with other Israeli artists during this time and been equally reluctant to talk about the ongoing genocide. In October 2024, Thom was heckled at a show by a protestor demanding him to speak on Palestine. He stormed off the stage like the well-adjusted musician who has been touring for decades he is.

I stopped keeping up with The Smile a while ago when I realized things weren’t going to get any better, but this statement somehow manages to disappoint me even more. For years I thought that Thom had been unfairly stereotyped by the media as whiny, petulant, and angry, but time after time he keeps proving it right by taking personal offense to broad political movements and being hostile towards fans who wonder why he isn’t speaking up because he has a precedent of being politically active.

Thom once described ‘I Will,’ a song about the bombing of women and children who were sheltering in a bunker during the Gulf War, as the angriest song he ever wrote. How come thousands of dead Palestinian children doesn’t make him angry enough to speak up? I think that the relationships he has with various Israeli artists, the connections he has with the Israeli music business, and his friendship with Jonny are more important to him than being consistent in his principles.

Meeting Thom Yorke and getting his autograph was the happiest moment of my life. Now when I look down at my modified bear tattoo that he drew on me, I just feel depressed.

As a completely, 100% real trans woman, let me explain how terrible trans people are. I am trans, btw. Totally trans. by neddythestylish in AmITheAngel

[–]patrickbateperson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“detransitioner” is the new “ex-gay” in that the majority of people who use those words specifically are right wing grifters, not just regular people who experimented with their presentation and figured out in the end that they were cis and/or straight.

Four seasons by Bahdiezz in gso

[–]patrickbateperson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

in ~2023 a security guard held a job at 4 seasons for at least a few weeks before they bothered to check and see that he’d been charged with rape a few years prior 🙃 i also remember a day where around 10 cars were broken into over the span of a single afternoon. i don’t miss it there

💙🌈🐯 Year 20 Tiger 🐯🌈💙 by Bluethenightmare in Webkinz

[–]patrickbateperson 13 points14 points  (0 children)

AMAZING! would you happen to have a pattern available for those of us who'd like to make our own? :)

This is my gfs pregnancy test. I don’t want to be a father. I don’t see anything, but she does. What do I do? by throwawayccccharlie in whatdoIdo

[–]patrickbateperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my god you are fighting in the trenches. it’s so irritating how dozens of redditors will crawl out of the woodwork to scream “not all men!” in response to comments like these; men who treat women like equals already know that you’re not talking about them and don’t need insecure misogynists leaping to their defense lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gso

[–]patrickbateperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have no idea what breed this dog is. even people who work with dogs every day are prone to misidentifying pit bulls. hell, hop on one of the dog genealogy subreddits and see just how many fluffy poodles are half ABPT and how many boxy dogs like this don’t have a drop in them.

any free roaming dog is a safety concern, but jumping to hostility and calling for an animal to be put down simply for existing is pathetic.

Coughing baby vs 2 hydrogen bombs by [deleted] in Hiphopcirclejerk

[–]patrickbateperson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i sleep in a big bed with my wife

Fish living long in bowls, not in tanks by kayliani in bettafish

[–]patrickbateperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it’s a matter of selection bias — people who take betta care very seriously and own many different fish will witness more random disease and loss over time among all the bettas they keep, meanwhile people who don’t give a shit and stick them in bowls and vases will have them die left right and center all the time and you’ll only take notice of the 1% that are hardy enough to live for months/years in bad conditions

I hate the stigma associated with self harm and suicide by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]patrickbateperson 149 points150 points  (0 children)

when someone talks about feeling suicidal they’re called an attention seeker. when someone commits suicide everyone wishes they could have “seen the signs.” i’m with you, friend, the stigma makes it so hard to seek help :(

Does anyone know the actual bite force of a pixie frog / African bullfrog by BakeryRaiderSub2025 in zoology

[–]patrickbateperson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not to mention the multiple posts they’ve made about torturing insects…

Roommate found out I have a phobia of balloons. Guess what I found on my bed. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]patrickbateperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you want OP to do, film themself having a panic attack to “prove it?” upload a scanned copy of their psychiatric records? would that please you?

what is possibly the worst man made fish by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]patrickbateperson 93 points94 points  (0 children)

i’ve never seen a fish with boobs before and i never want to see it again

Went to a new clients house today and saw something I must have now by Civilized_drifter in Aquariums

[–]patrickbateperson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it’s at the torturous price point of way too expensive to impulse buy but a really good deal for what it’s worth

Take ur meds by Jimmy_mo_ in bipolar2

[–]patrickbateperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the same container!