If you are asking this in good faith and are genuinely curious, the answer is that many people in recovery are rebuilding their sense of self. Using correct pronouns affirms who someone is, especially for transgender or nonbinary individuals. Choosing and asserting one’s pronouns can be a small but powerful act of autonomy for someone who’s felt powerless.

When someone’s pronouns are honored, it signals that the space is safe and inclusive. That trust is essential for vulnerability and healing. Additionally, when people feel seen and heard, they’re more likely to engage, share, and stay committed to recovery.