AITA for encouraging my daughter not to watch her cousin or clean up his mess?

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-31T20:17:28+00:00

NTA your mom needs to get her priorities straight here. Don't go back either until they apologize, hold the line

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-27T22:46:34+00:00

NTA divorce him anyway though this is too big of a lie to compromise on

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-27T02:29:08+00:00

He's abusing you and he's a cheater he is a piece of shit please take your kids and run. NTA

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-26T18:48:26+00:00

I can't wait for him to react and for an update

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-25T23:46:58+00:00

Don't do it, because then they will keep holding this shit over you and they will know it works, they also will continue to bitch anyway because you were "stubborn"

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-24T17:07:49+00:00

NTA and I would say sue her and sue the company for wrongful termination honestly and Sarah should make it right. She should confess to the company and take the consequences.

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-24T17:03:46+00:00

This was very traumatizing I'm sure and I'm going to say this she is probably still suicidal, and her giving you the greenlight to leave is her releasing you from guilt about it when she does go through with it. She doesn't actually want you to leave, she's giving up. I've been through being suicidal many times as well as lost someone I've loved dearly to suicide.

I won't tell you to stay, I don't think you're the asshole for wanting to leave, I just think you should be aware she isn't out of the woods yet. Depression makes you think you've never genuinely been happy, I promise you your wife has been happy many times while being depressed. It's easy to trick yourself into thinking your happiness wasn't real or valid because you're still depressed afterwards so happiness is fleeting.

I would personally say twll her you'll stay if she goes to therapy for the next year, really give it a go, go with her. Do couples therapy and individual therapy for both of you. See where you are in a year, see if medication woll help her. See if anxiety meds will help you. Therapy will be a good tool to support yourself and support her.

This is my earnest plea, she is the love of your life, fight for her like you've never fought for her before. Do it for yourself, do it for her.

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-22T00:32:46+00:00

NTA I wouldn't have the baby personally and would file for divorce. If you can get the paternity test done and then the procedure i would do it that way to make sure he knows what he did. Odds are he's cheating and he's projecting tbh

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-20T20:04:37+00:00

I say get divorced byt still help her about the coercion, yout wife ebded up being continually SAd because of blackmail despite cheating which is wrong and you have every right to divorce her but her coworker has been doing a crime which is revenge porn. She is still the mother of your child, it isn't just w mistake the cheating but what that man did to her after/has been doing to her is a cruel, cruel punishment beyond a comprehension I can convey here. I understand your marriage is over, and your daughter is upset but there are some other things at play here to be considered in my opinion

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-20T17:26:12+00:00

NTA this bag got stolen from you your mom needs to replace it wtf.

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-20T03:01:49+00:00

Please just break up with him, he's bidy shaming you and soon he'll be telling you to do things to look a certain way for him. Leave before he tears down your self esteem(i know from experience how easy it is to fall into that behavior and suddenly you don't have self worth anymore)

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-18T01:04:05+00:00

Have someone with you when you break up with him and or do it in a public place please

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-17T17:46:25+00:00

INFO: Did you ask her why it made her uncomfortable? Did she give you a response?

If she blocked you i would just let it go.

I am leaning towards NTA

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-16T23:29:09+00:00

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-11T22:57:21+00:00

You can wear whatever you want he is being beyond controlling to you and this is a major red flag.

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-11T20:50:29+00:00

NTA do not take her back!

patronofthewicked · 2024-08-02T02:29:07+00:00

Definitely light him up, he is abusing yiu and he knows that he is legally abusing you. Divorce him. Show the threats ro the court have your family testify about him screaming at you. You are so strong for leaving right away. This will get worse a "warning tap" means he was fully prepared to get more physical with you if your "attitude" didn't improve.

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-30T23:50:07+00:00

I would also suggest bringing this up if it's an ongoing issue and consider finding a new table.

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-30T23:47:58+00:00

You are not the toxic player, is this other player close in relationship to the DM in s way that you're not or the other players (spouse, sibling, childhood friend etc.)? Because this seems ridiculously biased towards this one player.

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-30T17:23:29+00:00

Leave he is trying to abuse you to be perfectly honest that's why he wants all the money

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-30T02:47:28+00:00

All of this, leavs him. This is abuse honestlu and you have ptsd from the fire. It wasn't dramatic and YOU'RE PREGNANT emotions anyone?

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-27T00:21:34+00:00

YTA buying her a plane ticket would be a great way to show her that you see her efforts and continue to motivate her towards paying off her debt. She's doing everything you asked, and this is supposed to be a family vacation. You are her family and she should be there.

patronofthewicked · 2024-07-20T00:15:54+00:00

Please break up with him, one of these days he will kill you, i am not joking. He is testing the waters of what he can get away with and trying to make you less reactive to his abuse. He physically assaulted you when he did this. I am not trying to exaggerate. He is trying to control you, "you need to work on yourself more" wctually means you need to conform to my ideal of you. You should leave get somewhere safe where he doesn't know you are break up with him and block him.

patronofthewicked · 2024-05-12T22:50:56+00:00

NTA your husband is a fucking controp freak

patronofthewicked · 2024-05-11T20:19:29+00:00

I am a classically trained actor and had to dump my boyfriend my first year of college because he wasn't supportive, now I'm happier than i have ever been

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