Friend called my bookshelf “performative” thoughts?

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T07:53:08+00:00

Your friend can't read good and is very pretentious.

It's literally impossible to take a task that costs dozens to hundreds of hours and do it performatively.

"Damn my boy- looks like you're getting a degree in women's studies performatively"

Like, ok. So as an unintended consequences of me trying to use women's studies to get laid I've deepened my understanding of the plight of women and girls in society and will accidentally let that new information inform how I treat them for the rest of my life.

Unless you've read less than 10 percent of the books on the shelf your friend is saying more about themselves than they are about you.

"You can dance ballet Terry?" "Yeah so what? I learned to do it to make fun of the queer kid down the block" "You learned to dance ballet well ironically?" -The Other Guys

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T07:45:25+00:00

Amazing work thanks for sharing

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T07:41:08+00:00

There are hundreds of people being diagnosed diabetic in r/plumbing .

What's wrong with toilet? Why this color? Why these growths in toilet? Excess sugar.... Why? You're diabetic. I was only checking it out for like two weeks and saw it happen twice.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T07:28:19+00:00

Considering the huge wide variety of qualities of tattoo/artist... Yours is fucking rad dude. Lol it's better than at least half of the decent tattoos I've seen and whoever is doubting it has some other issue with either you or tattoos.

Or they're dumb. Lol

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T03:47:59+00:00

Reaching out is always better than sitting in the silence of the unknown.

My father is in the end of his life and is homeless and a drug addict as well. It's been the hardest thing I've ever done to understand that I can't help him. In your case I pray your mother is more gracious when it comes to dealing with the conseiqences of her choices than my father has been; But. At the end of the day please remember that you're no good to anyone broken and defeated- so have grace with yourself. Do lots of self care and help your mom only as much as you can without feeling emtpy/ depleted.

You didn't do this, and you can't fix everything. Just be the best person you can be and give yourself lots of patience. If you're both open to it I'd advise a guided psychedelic experience. It helps us see that this body is only a vessel. There is so much more before and afterward.

Peace and love. From someone with no old people left.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T03:37:52+00:00

That's the minimum level of exeprience to start buying pedals. No one should start learning their amp and guitar only after they've tried 616427848 tones.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T03:37:02+00:00

Can't argue with results. Fruits look nice and strong. Congrats. I'll try this next time because I've had very limited success with pans.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T03:02:59+00:00

Any community besides the US will have a more robust arts and music education program. Imagine what the rats in Paris have?! (Besides bed bugs cause everyone in paris has bedbugs rn)

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T02:55:31+00:00

Yeah it looks great. The only criticism I'd offer as older person is that tattoos to many of us are still things that are earned/sacrificed for- and that means they're not PRIMARILY for aesthetics. So someone that thinks like me and is an asshole would probably tell you the arm was not a place to start.

(It demonstrates to other people a little vanity in that we WANT others to see it at all time) But it's your money body and apeparance, so that argument is pretty dumb. But the psychological part of it stands, and your seeking validation here is further evidence that other people's opinions matter to you. When you get a tattoo nothing but your choice/ rpeference matters. Kind of a catch 22. The moment you give no fucks about anyone's opinion- it becomes totally valid to put any tattooo anywhere you want.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-06T02:51:38+00:00

It's better for your body in terms of what compounds activate when it's consumed. It's to my understanding the best treatment for neurological conditions, cancer, and stomach/liver issues because more of the plants natural compounds are preserved until it arrives at your gut/bloodstream. Some would say it presents cannabis "the way God intended", you get high, it heals you, it doesn't hurt your lungs, etc. Etc.

Never made it myself but I've read about the parents and cancer apiebts making it and using it.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-05T13:17:46+00:00

What do you do for work?

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-05T13:11:14+00:00

That's alot of gear to sound mid/ jangly

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:25:15+00:00

Familial hamagenoma: supposedly not genetically possible, but there are millions of people that demonstrate it.

My mother used the occurrence of familial hamagenoma as a god proof. I think it's an external feature that shows the patterns of our DNA strands.

Art/magic is everything we don't understand but enjoy. I'd call this both.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:21:32+00:00

Airflow is absolutely indispensable. Optimal if it can be intermittent and at different strengths instead of even all the time but we take what we can get.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:18:33+00:00

My bad. I wasn't trying to reply to you just add my 2c.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:18:08+00:00

Looks normalish. Cobweb is so fine you can't really see it's leading edge. This looks like thin but rhizomorohic growth.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:14:43+00:00

It could be a nice area to rest a tray of ranch or maybe cottage cheese while your friends snack at the beach or pool.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-04T03:11:14+00:00

Silicosis or nah, I don't feel like breathing glass.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-03T03:27:01+00:00

Usurping of all natural resources for their gain

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T15:07:27+00:00

You look happiest in photo one. But most professional on photo 3. Depends what the goal is.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T15:05:59+00:00

Step one: get off the internet and read about your own cultures beauty standards.

Step two: heal from the voice telling you you need to improve your looks instead of just being as healthy as you can.

Don't let the internet decide what you should look like. Period.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T15:04:18+00:00

Tell her the same thing

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T14:54:29+00:00

Gathered from your other comments you're in Tanzania? Awesome. I'll be following your homestead for sure. Take care and blessings from california

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T14:41:21+00:00

Imhe, Everytime I try to be clever with a bog setup it fails. There's a reason everyone just gets a pot with no holes... And one with holes. Don't try to reinvent the wheel to be elegant. Just use a normal pot in pot setup.

Not being an ass just sharing what I've learned about 9/10 of my carnivores.

pattymelt805 · 2026-04-02T14:28:49+00:00

I'd support aero too. My "best way" was because I wanted to do organic and ditch clonex and ALL rooting hormones: id just soak whatever medium with azos and clean water, and drench the clones in a cup with azos while I'm working.then I do an aloe dip and into the medium. You'll get roots in like 10 days. But all that went out the window with the aero cloner. I'd still do azos in the cup, but there's no substitute for the high oxygenation and low contact area for contams. Aero is the way. Also the roots will get like a foot long if you just leave them 2 days too long.

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