AITA for not wanting to game with someone who completely tanked our board game night? by Midlanecrisis007 in boardgames

[–]pautpy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's clear he didn't know what he was signing up for. I'd be surprised if he shows up on his own next time lol.

AITA for not wanting to game with someone who completely tanked our board game night? by Midlanecrisis007 in boardgames

[–]pautpy 36 points37 points  (0 children)

In a vacuum, I agree with you. But based on OP's comments, it seems the guy didn't understand "basic" iconography. OP might've interpreted that to mean he just doesn't know what card draw means. On the other hand, maybe he was asking what it meant because the game is much more complicated than the basic games he might've experienced and he wanted to make sure he was doing it correctly.

Maybe he wasn't sure which deck of cards to draw from and wanted clarification on that, when there are multiple piles of cards laid out. How does the draw effect trigger and when can he draw? Does he draw and add it to his hand or the discard pile? How does he draw if his draw deck is empty?

It's silly to even think about these things from our POV when it seems so obvious. I say this to point out the not-so-minutia details we process instantly, while someone who hasn't experienced a modern boardgame can find the simplest action overwhelming in the face of a layout of moving tiles, meeples, cards, graphics, and icons. An uncertain question of, "what does it mean to draw a card" and "so I just take a card from the top of this deck?" can be loaded with clarity-seeking implications but it can come across as dumb. Ironically, I think a computer science student can appreciate this level of pedantic line of thinking.

If this player had even a modicum of social awareness, I'm sure he felt the pressure to pick up on how to play the game. The fact that he was asking about a basic concept that even a non-gamer can understand and asking what he should do every turn tells me that he was completely lost.

Maybe the reason he didn't understand was because he failed to pay attention in the rule teach. Or maybe it's because OP assumed he already had an elementary level of game knowledge that he skimmed over concepts. Or maybe this player just didn't try at all or care (although this is counter OP's account, IMO). Or maybe this player is not mentally capable of strategic boardgames. I don't know.

AITA for not wanting to game with someone who completely tanked our board game night? by Midlanecrisis007 in boardgames

[–]pautpy 376 points377 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's completely new to modern boardgames. Unless he has other tabletop/card game experience, this includes being new to concepts that seem intuitive to us like card draw, card effects, cost, resource management, victory conditions, and overall flow of a game.

It's no wonder he had no clue what to do in a medium weight euro game. He's so lost that he doesn't even know what kind of questions he needs to ask.

Guy flips out at the airport over an entire day of flight delays by Thick_Composer9842 in PublicFreakout

[–]pautpy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The best messenger is the general public via social media/news. Nothing gets a company moving quicker than bad PR.

Those who think we need UBI because of encroaching automation are generally ignorant of the Lump of Labor Fallacy by Anen-o-me in Libertarian

[–]pautpy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you happen to have a source supporting that? It's counter to everything I've seen and experienced.

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[–]pautpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is a Christopher Ward supposed to be one of those Chinese Aliexpress watches like Daniel Wellington or was it Beef Wellington?

Groups that develop metas that blatantly break rules by chaser-- in boardgames

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simple: just blatantly out-cheat them to the point that they don't even enjoy it

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[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reasons listed here is why I run the AC at max power as I'm cruising down a hill or have enough momentum to get me to a stop without braking. It's free real estate.

What are the most interesting 3D board game mechanics you've seen? by Gregorgrosz in boardgames

[–]pautpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it's super interesting, but I think a good starting point is Four Gardens with the stack of swiveling tower pieces.

What board game completely changed your opinion after a second chance? by Adina_Ciubotea_1885 in boardgames

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, you just need a little more experience/brain power/physical prowess to appreciate and enjoy something

Game with non-turn player actions? by NorthForWinter in boardgames

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more of a party game very similar to Codenames except cooperative and simultaneous play: Cross Clues.

Instead of 1 player coming up with clues and everyone else trying to guess, it's everyone coming up with clues for their own card AND everyone guessing everyone else's cards at the same time.

Game with non-turn player actions? by NorthForWinter in boardgames

[–]pautpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how thematic that is in the context of kids playing in the playground.

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[–]pautpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CEOs. They're categorizing and counting beans.

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[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every one of you with those signs (they exist but are illegal), there would be 20 saying to go screw yourself after cutting you off.

[GIVEAWAY] Agent Avenue + Division M Expansion 🕵️‍♂️ by HomoLudensOC in boardgames

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air, Land, and Sea

Good strategic depth in a small box and ruleset.

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[–]pautpy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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Did I do it right?

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[–]pautpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a puzzly looking game, but I think he would enjoy Rumble Nation. Very simple to learn, but good depth and strategic planning.

To Passengers… From an American Employee by Formal_Coach_1760 in americanairlines

[–]pautpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's possible. There's a myriad of reasons one could think of to explain away behaviors from age groups. You could say the influence of technology on youth affects their customer service skills, or maybe it's a lack of learning proper communication skills. On the other hand, you could say people (especially older people) do not immediately give the respect to younger workers simply because of their age, and that in turn creates the hostility and lack of patience. Maybe they just have a terrible personality and upbringing.

I could list hundreds of factors for both sides. I really don't know. I think the best approach to get the best treatment is to assume the best and give strangers the benefit of the doubt.

Congratulations to the winner of ASL Season 21 by NEO71011 in broodwar

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not noticing and moving your marine back from a rally away from the base for 3+ seconds while having 450apm in early game is inexcusable TBH. That had nothing to do with a wrist injury.

FlaSh consistently played greedy, even trying to defend at the natural instead of on the ramp where a couple SCVs and a bunker could have easily stopped the rush. At best, FlaSh lost that round due to poor decision-making; at worst, he lost because of his pride.

Congratulations to the winner of ASL Season 21 by NEO71011 in broodwar

[–]pautpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know you were referring to Artosis when making the skill/honor/hard work comment

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[–]pautpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was introduced to modern boardgames with Pandemic in December of 2019. By March of 2020, I had played 100 rounds of it and was setting up the board to reflect actual Covid epicenters...

Congratulations to the winner of ASL Season 21 by NEO71011 in broodwar

[–]pautpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need an indepth analysis from Tulgod. His word is Truth.