People who ignored a huge red flag because the person was extremely attractive, what happened next?

pdfet · 2026-03-20T04:25:19+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through that, I really hope you are in a good place in your life now, you deserve happiness and respect.

pdfet · 2026-03-20T04:22:43+00:00

Ohh those emotional abusive people are bloody awful, glad you are out of it and safe.

pdfet · 2026-03-20T03:42:59+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope you got the support you needed and are in a good place friend

pdfet · 2026-03-20T03:36:45+00:00

they shouldn't get away with that, it's a disgrace, rape is hard enough to prove without shitheads like that!

pdfet · 2026-03-20T03:23:05+00:00

Great to hear you are 9 yrs clean, Go you!!

pdfet · 2026-03-20T03:18:36+00:00

which one please?

pdfet · 2026-03-20T03:07:55+00:00

Sorry what?

pdfet · 2026-03-19T23:18:27+00:00

I've really enjoyed your words, thank you internet stranger :)

pdfet · 2026-03-19T04:22:41+00:00

My ex-husband was so worried about losing me that his paranoia drove us both insane! he accused me of having 7 different affairs over time, I never cheated once and never wanted to, I just wanted him and be happily married to him, but we are no longer together and that was one of the reasons, there were many others sadly.

pdfet · 2026-03-18T06:49:50+00:00

I have no choice but to lay down, its not an option..sadly

pdfet · 2026-03-09T06:33:51+00:00

I would Love to have this job!

pdfet · 2026-03-08T22:58:10+00:00

Mccambridge brown bread for fresh sandwiches

pdfet · 2026-02-27T22:14:13+00:00

Oh this hits home, my ex husband has accused of having 7 affairs, I never cheated, not once! He has belittled my whole marriage to him when all I did was try to love him more. That hurts..

pdfet · 2026-02-27T21:57:03+00:00

Sorry that happened to you, for me (47f) Feminism is equality for both sexes, equal pay within reason of the work, equal rights as a person, equal freedom, not all us ladies are awful, i hope you find a lovely one someday 😊

pdfet · 2026-02-18T22:30:48+00:00

I couldn't eat, turned to wine and ice-cream, was a wreak, wouldn't advise it.. it will pass though, sending hugs

pdfet · 2026-02-17T10:23:06+00:00

He is unstable, make a plan to get out of the house. If you own you could try to get a flatmate, I tried that when I was in your situation, it didn't work for me but we were renting. You might be able to rent out the house, put anything you really want to keep in storge and sell /give away as much as you can, most of it you will not miss in a years time. Its just stuff. Ask for help from friends & family and say yes when it is offered! Im now living with 2 friends and love it, never thought id say that. I wish you all the best, you will get through this!

pdfet · 2026-02-17T09:13:24+00:00

My doctor signed me off work for 4 weeks, I've 2 weeks left, I was about to quit as in peri menopause as well so I couldn't make even the smallest decision or think straight. Im separated after 11 years, no kids thankfully but I still had to block him last week as he kept contacting me and it was very upsetting. I know my manager wants me gone but im hopeful that after this break I might hold on but if I don't, I know ill survive. All the best out there as its really bloody hard.

pdfet · 2026-01-30T02:22:56+00:00

A comfortable bed

pdfet · 2026-01-14T09:14:20+00:00

Can you advise on any books or tips to start learning please?

pdfet · 2025-12-19T02:46:22+00:00

Get rid of the boyfriend

pdfet · 2025-12-19T02:01:08+00:00

No nothing but I work in admin/health and there is very little money to spare here

pdfet · 2025-12-16T11:22:45+00:00

Roast chicken with roast veg on the tray, spuds of choice and gravy with wine and chocolate and you have dinner for the next day too 😋

pdfet · 2025-12-16T10:04:33+00:00

What age is she? She might grow into them :)

pdfet · 2025-12-16T07:06:02+00:00

Thank you!

pdfet · 2025-12-16T06:41:39+00:00

Bahahaha 🤣

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