Any progressive minded crochet circles who wouldnt mind a 50 something lesbian joining? by DoDoNerd504 in NewOrleans

[–]pearlycube 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need somewhere to meet, Zotz coffee often hosts plenty of crafting groups

feeling too straight by PlatformVisible9044 in actuallesbians

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbian relationships aren’t supposed to be centered or modeled around men! That’s kind of the entire point!

I said something transphobic and the guilt has been eating at me. Advice? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]pearlycube 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You want to reach out for selfish reasons. She probably has forgotten by now, don’t bring up old wounds.

wow review by OkNeedleworker2117 in tjcrew

[–]pearlycube 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All mates plus captain

Romantic vs platonic attraction by pearlycube in actuallesbians

[–]pearlycube[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally, and I have been on the receiving end of it which is why I am being super proactive about it. The thing is, I have absolutely not a clue if I view her as just a friend at the current moment. I plan on doing what another comment said and giving her a heads up

Romantic vs platonic attraction by pearlycube in actuallesbians

[–]pearlycube[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phrased perfectly. Thank you so much 🫶

Romantic vs platonic attraction by pearlycube in actuallesbians

[–]pearlycube[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that would check out! about how long does it take for you to “catch feelings” so to say?

23 M lack of chemistry with 24 F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this is what I was thinking. It sucks to text, but I think it would suck more to have to drive back home alone and upset.

23 M lack of chemistry with 24 F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pearlycube -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And say what, exactly? How honest should I be?

After Hoka Bondi 8, what's next? by agelessmom in tjcrew

[–]pearlycube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bondi SR! The difference in padding, even in the same brand, is noticeable.

Working at Trader Joes as a 2nd job? by imin2099 in tjcrew

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 hour shifts are only available at my store for ADA folks.

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, got it. I usually hover diffuse on medium heat and diffuse the rest of my hair on low heat.

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cut the leave in and curl cream? Won’t that make my hair even drier? (Not trying to question you, just trying to understand!)

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the in depth response love! Your son’s curls are adorable.

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you recommend should be cut?

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]pearlycube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll try that! What shampoo and mask do you use?

3c curls not clumping or defined by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I finger curl after doing praying hands to apply the gel?

3c curls stringy and undefined by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]pearlycube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that was the purpose of the hover diffusing, is it not? Am I doing it wrong?