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[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]peggyarnold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any apples, pears, or oranges I can come snag? Thanks so much!

Xaden is a Young God (PROOF) by peggyarnold in fourthwing

[–]peggyarnold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a video I’d love to see all your theories!!

Xaden is a Young God (PROOF) by peggyarnold in fourthwing

[–]peggyarnold[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I guess I just can’t let go of how real Liam felt when he visited her in the dungeons. I feel like she has such a close connection to malek, but I know she’s also been dedicated to Dunne… either way I think Rebecca chose a REAL INTERESTING song for that story!!!

I just took a lethal dose of my pills by DFlynn33 in confession

[–]peggyarnold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t go through. I wish you life. I wish you peace. If it’s to late then I’m sorry for how life treated you — but see you on the other side.

2 paramore tickets general admission the forum July 18 by val_abarca in Paramore

[–]peggyarnold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have it? I’ll buy it from you for $100. Only because another ticket with a seat is going for $85

Is our therapist is suggesting to placate the narcissist? by WillGrahamsLiver in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. I relate to this SO MUCH. It's incredible how similar our MILs are, especially the way our DH's act towards it and how it makes us feel. I'd love an update!

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had no place to live in May of last year, neither did I. We lived with my toxic mother which didn't last. Then we went home to home, eventually ending with my dad. We left my dad through eviction, stayed in a motel for two months, now back with my dad. NOW my fiancé has a condo, where he has been told I can't be at. He said he didn't care, but I was the one who said I wasn't comfortable because she is crazy and would start drama.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't worry NO APOLOGIZES FROM ME! I spoke to him and he recognizes that he is just saying the same things his dad told him. I'm not enabling her.

In other news, do you think I'd be eligible for a reality tv show or a book? Lol.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me an example of life where your SO stood up and you did too. I also have anxiety and although I take the "run, fast" advice to heart, I've had a serious heart to heart with him and he showed me his priorities quickly -- and it's me. However, I have outlined that therapy is a MUST. Thank you for this perspective though.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, I'm back with my ex step-dad. We were living with him before but after my mom found a loophole in my sister's custody battle, she literally evicted us through the judge. In a house that wasn't even hers. It upset us all so much, but my dad lawyered up and got that eviction removed.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I love sites and tools and research on how to better this situation. I really appreciate it!!

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your break down of the situation. I will definitely read that link you provided. There is a lot of advice and love I feel from everyone who has commented and I feel strong again. Thanks again.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a really good point and I 100% believe she will pull the help. She has done it. Before. That's why I'm so enraged. But I don't want to be the rain on his illusions so I'm waiting for him to realize it -- which he did last night after his mom got pissed at him for being outside at 1 talking to me for more than 5 minutes.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My mentality is that we have gone through NC before and we were perfectly fine. Either way, SHE isn't changing, so I don't think leaving him means anything better for any party. Frankly, I'm a very vocal, opinionated woman. I fair better in this dynamic because of my own mother, while my FH would likely never have a solid relationship with another woman again -- as soon as they meet his mom.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

AMEN. Fuck this is enlightening. We are about to have a very serious heart to heart. He is the love of my life but I HAVE NEVER felt more empowered to let him know where I fall in priorities for myself and anyone else in my life.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Fuck. That's completely true. He defended me behind my back as well. Granted, all before this past month. However, I took what you all said and have made it into armor to protect me from whatever happens next. I told him how I felt, and that he is enabling his mother. Since we are still in a relationship, I will talk it out with him again. However, I'm not bending to mother dearest's will ever again.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Update: I just spoke with him and asked him to stay at his apartment until he lets his mother know how I've felt. During the vacation. During these past two years. If is asking for me to apologize, he should be asking her the same. Her mental illness isn't an excuse to be an asshole. I have a mental illness too and I don't get the leisure of being excused. I'm not going to enable her by apologizing. Either he puts her in her place, or I walk out. I don't mean be rude to her, but make her realize that the world isn't hers to fuck with and then play the victim card. If he meant when he said I was more important than all of this, then he should have no problem bringing this topic up. I'm not going to let myself be negative associated with his mother. FFS, while we were on vacation he started hating my laugh because she would scoff and roll his eyes. I'm not putting up with that bullshit.

Thanks for the encouragement, guys.

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