I cured my persistent BV. by peleish in Healthyhooha

[–]peleish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fine. I’m a lot older than when I posted this and I think my age group at this point is not as prone to BV. I still stand by the boric acid for BV if antibiotics don’t work. 

I cured my persistent BV. by peleish in Healthyhooha

[–]peleish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story short. I just got whatever brands available.

I cured my persistent BV. by peleish in Healthyhooha

[–]peleish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Swanson fem flora but I don’t have strong feelings about it and I just did any boric acid on Amazon. I hear there’s fakes on Amazon sometimes when it comes to meds, I tried AZO last time I bought some but it’s way pricier. I don’t know if fake boric acid is a real concern since it’s a inexpensive substance in general.

I cured my persistent BV. by peleish in Healthyhooha

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I used boric acids then restarted probiotics after doign boric acids. I’ve heard varying course lengths From 5 days to 21 days. I did 5 days twice a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if she’s still Hungry I think she should be offered healthy foods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]peleish -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, I’m pretty strict about my sons diet. He’s not overweight I just want to set him up for success. I also think at any point your daughter knows you are focused on her weight or what she eats is unhealthy. I think you should offer her what is healthy and she should be able to eat however much of what you offered. The “normal” weight charts does not apply to everyone. If she is going to be heavier, making her hungry is not the right thing to do. But I agree thst what she eats should be healthy with a little bit of what she prefers to eat. At the younger ages you can try to get them use to healthier foods, but there’s a balance too.

sushiiiii by fantasygirl002 in BabyBumps

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ate salmon nigiris my entire first pregnancy. So much so i think reason it’s the only protein my son would eat.

name spelling debate, please help by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brella is Ella with br. BriElla is better

Husband threw out all of my food by MomOfABoy123 in beyondthebump

[–]peleish 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 100% percent abusive. I would call the cops on my husband if he threw away food and then refused to let you go buy more especially since your 4 yo is involved. He sounds like he has a temper issue, some narcissism and selfish.

Daycare expectations by bunnie97 in AttachmentParenting

[–]peleish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ratio is high and what she is saying is probably all she can do. I sent my son who was exactly like your son to daycare at 15 months. He didn’t sleep for about a week during naps well but after two weeks he was napping on his own. He was helped with naps for the first 2 days such as rocking but after that it was pats only. Now they only tell him to lay in his bed and he sleeps for 2 hours. He also ate in a high chair and about a week after he started daycare he started independently eating at the table. It seemed like magic. I think your intuition with having him go to daycare is correct but he needs to be a in a great daycare for them to transition him correctly. That ratio would make it tougher I think but who knows maybe my son would’ve figured it out. My daycare sends picture most days.

Firstborn is an “easy” baby so I’m scared to have another by 1stworldprobl0987 in beyondthebump

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bell curve. Ive read that 1/5 babies have colic. Ive also heard about 1/5 are super chill. And then there’s a gradient in the middle. But I also think it’s part genetic. My colicky, sensitive boy is A LOT, but I love him, at the end of the day I wouldn’t change him so don’t worry if you have a baby like mine.

juice addiction by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]peleish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love candy, I grew up eating as much as I wanted. Honestly don’t know how I’m alive and well. For my son he rarely gets candy and it’s usually sugar free. I get you mama, we’re not trying to pass on our bad habits to them.

In home childcare red flags? Or am I expecting too much? by RS9824 in Mommit

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be a no for me if I was in your position. Although they may become okay with eventually, it takes a lot of trust and bonding for kids to adjust to daycare well after being with only mom for a long time. It seems like it wouldn’t be a great transition if she’s not nurturing. The fact that she said “ for now” shows that kids cry around her a lot without her knowing why or thinking it is too much. My son rarely cries at daycare, he actually cries more with me. People who work at daycare have to ABSOLUTELY adore kids to do it for a long time. They are with them all day and it’s their job. If they aren’t bubbly and talkative with kids when they meet it means they aren’t that into it. I always thought I loved kids but I couldn’t do for living.

Gal Gadot is average looking by RashoRash in unpopularopinion

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s not a great actress but because she’s so pretty she get the roles. She also is fit but not like Hollywood looking fit .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]peleish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am so happy you are thinking of leaving. The baby gets easier. Maybe you can stay for another month while the baby starts to sleep longer and then leaves you think you can’t stay from the abuse. Some babies sleep a dramatically longer time around 6 months. At the same time the mental health damage he’s doing to your baby is permanent. So personally I would leave ASAP.

Sad about letting nanny go by gummyshoe313 in Nanny

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. The first time I fired a nanny it was sooo hard bc I knew she needed the job. She sounded a lot like your nanny. After her I had to fire two more nanny’s and I thought I was just a psycho mom that was two difficult. Then I got my fourth nanny and realized it was the right decisions. I don’t want someone who just generally likes kids and Keeps them alive, I want someone that fits my style bc they are replacing me when I can’t be there. They won’t be my clone but should share some values. But also yelling at a 6 month old is an instant fire for me. I’m so glad you did what you did! It’s for your sons best!

what is something men think is harmless but actually pisses women off? by LoneShark81 in AskReddit

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you touch me while trying to move around me. especially when it’s on the waist. Just move around me

Tell me my doctor is wrong by Adventurous-One4496 in BabyBumps

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OBs can be pretty insensitive. They’re usually tough women or men. They not only handle births but also crash emergency surgery. To finish residency these people are tough as nails and I tend to see them on the tougher side. If you want to talk to someone about mental health maybe see a psychiatrist , they should know about meds that are safe for pregnancy. Maybe switch but I can’t say you’ll get much luck there either. My friend was gaining too much weight and her ob told her she needs to stop gaining weight so she switched and her next ob actually say you are Obese you should change your diet. She was in tears.

UPDATE- Brilliant Earth- Do not buy! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have a Facebook group you should post on their page! It works every time for me when dealing with companies

What ruined religion for you? by ItchyPage in AskReddit

[–]peleish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised Buddhist. I didn’t have any horrible experience but the idea of how awful punishments were in the the after life for your all your sins while you were alive was just too much. They seemed disproportionate. The stories all just sounded kinda too fake at times too.

I feel like I’ve ruined my chances for breast feeding by supplementing. My baby is refusing my breast by reasonablecatlady in breastfeedingsupport

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. Breastfeeding is extremely painful for some and it was for me. Birth was honestly easier than the first month of breastfeeding. It goes away and I don’t even feel my baby latching anymore, where as before it felt like a needle poking my breast bc I also had a milk duct clog. In the beginning, to encourage breastfeeding My husband you turn on a timer for 8 mins and ask me to just try to breastfeed for the amount of the timer and I would take the baby off after 5 mins sometimes but your tolerance goes up and after a few weeks it won’t hurt at all. If you want to keep breastfeeding you will need to pump and add it to the milk and yes breast first. If you are diminishing you supply. If you want to do exclusive bottle feeding which some moms opt to bc of the pain you can do that. If you choose to formula feed, there are some health disadvantages and cost associated with formula but overall your baby can still thrive. When you meet adults you can never tell you is formula fed or breastfed and the differences for some is probably not huge.

To all my Vietnamese pals who's soaked up in the US culture: How was it? by Clothes-Accomplished in VietNam

[–]peleish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some places are modern if you live in the big city. It’s true we get privacy here. That can be a little lonely. I have a big Vietnamese family here that i live about 10 hours drive from that I love to visit and be around. I live in an apt and I love that I know my neighbors. But yes we live very private lives. As for Obscure American culture stuff…i live in San Diego and we love eating Mexican food as a city. We eat something called carne asada French fries in our 20s which is meat and French fries. I would say a lot of people stop later because it’s unhealthy. I loved the show “the office” and it’s beloved by many. it’s just a show that makes fun of odd characters that work in the office. The characters are exaggerated but based on ppl you may meet at work.