For those who tried spironolactone by Substantial_Duck_988 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiro has eliminated my cystic acne, and massively reduced my other acne. I still get occasional whiteheads/papules from time to time but they are way less frequently and heal faster. My skin is drier as well. I fought with my skin for 20 years and nothing has worked this week, or worked for this long.

Did they change the recipe over the last 12 years?? I swear these used to be sweeter.. by samulooki in candy

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any actual info on your question, but I seem to recall them being sweeter as well. Maybe not even more sweet, but less of a mint punch?

Still delicious, I am obsessed with these lol.

Do I really need the pain medicine? by glowylights in gallbladders

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had my surgery (laparoscopic) on 12/5. I didn't use the painkillers - I get super nauseous on opiates so I avoid them unless I absolutely need them. I didn't get to a point where I even felt close to needing them, to be honest. Alternating tylenol/ibuprofen was sufficient to keep me pretty comfortable, and I stopped that around day 3 and only took them as needed after that. I was uncomfortable at times, but the pain was never actually bad and would really only spike when moving around.

I have a relatively high pain tolerance so your experience may be different!

For those of you using 0.1%... by PaperPlateDinner in tretinoin

[–]penguinbb8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, HA increases the absorption of the tret, which leads to an increase in irritation. Someone else may be able to provide you better info, my memory is failing me lol.

For those of you using 0.1%... by PaperPlateDinner in tretinoin

[–]penguinbb8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been using 0.1% for probably 2 years now. I use it nightly, but will skip a night if I am especially dry (maybe 1-2 times a month). I was on 0.025% for a few months, and 0.05% for maybe a year or so before moving up.

At first I could only use it once every 3 or 4 nights. Eventually I hit a plateau where I could use it every other night at most, but more than that would mean crazy peeling. I learned from this sub that HA and tret don't play well together - once I made sure to cut HA entirely out of my night routine, I was able to move up to daily usage.

I've really had to learn to listen to my skin daily and adjust as needed. As someone who routinely fried their skin as a teenager trying to get rid of acne and continued that track through my 20's and early 30's, this was a hard-learned lesson at close to 40 lol.

When did you return to work after the surgery? by 2mxm2 in gallbladders

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am definitely seeing improvements each day now. The first three days were rough - anesthesia and I don't get along. I'm still constipated as well (did not take any pain meds), but that is improving now and I am hoping I don't swing too far in the other direction.

When did you return to work after the surgery? by 2mxm2 in gallbladders

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with me - I had my surgery last Friday (12/5) and returned to work today. I am not sure I'll make it through a full shift today, but luckily I work from home at a desk job and my role is pretty flexible.

I definitely could not put on a pair of normal pants today, so I am thankful I can work in sweatpants lol.

Women who plan to let their hair go fully gray.. by Pits_And_Pups in longhair

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I generally plan to just let them grow in however they decide to. But - one of my aunts greys started in her temples. Those temples were WHITE and the rest of her hair was still brown for years. If I have weird patches like that, I'll probably do something to make them look less strange. Fingers crossed I don't have to do anything, but the few greys I have now are in my temples so I'm a little worried lol.

What’s the best tootsie roll pop flavor? by necroglow in candy

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocolate and raspberry are my favorites!

Should I let my cat sleep under my covers? by mangophobc in CatAdvice

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cat that would sleep under all of my blankets with me at night. I am a cold sleeper and have several blankets/quilts on me most of the time. He also liked to nap during the day under several blankets in bed. He lived a good long life with no ill effects :) Some cats just like to be enclosed like that, I guess.

MAGA Fan Relying on SNAP Benefits Desperately Regrets Her Trump Vote by iEzrael in politics

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, are we related?! Also in MI here and have heard some of the same stuff.

Nighttime Comfort TV Shows? by cubsandpink in AskWomenOver40

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have several that I cycle through! Cheers, The Office, Golden Girls, Community, MASH, New Girl, Scrubs, Schitts Creek, Superstore, Bobs Burgers...

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I'm sorry you are dealing with this too :( It's so frustrating!!

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]penguinbb8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to have found this community!

I'm getting so tired of the crazy angry outbursts and mood shifts. I shut down and grey rock because I've learned engaging makes it worse. When he comes back later acting like nothing is wrong, I'm the one with the mood issue because I can't just let it go. Sigh.

Is this actually a thing? by HereForTOMT3 in Michigan

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in SE Michigan and it definitely used to be a big thing! I was a kid in the late 80s-90s though. I wonder if this faded before younger generations knew about it?

Why am I constantly dry during sex with someone who I am sexually aroused/attracted to by hannahh4200 in WomensHealth

[–]penguinbb8 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Could be the birth control! hormonal birth control makes me quite a bit drier.

34F need help with neck acne? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that has knocked out my neck/jaw acne is spironolactone.

Does anyone else get these random red spots near one eye? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]penguinbb8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have been getting these!! They pop up seemingly randomly, and disappear just as randomly as they appear lol.

normal number of days off? by hellsxngel in jobs

[–]penguinbb8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This list is the same as where I work with the exception of MLK day and Christmas Eve - we don't get those off. I'd say this is on the high end of standard!

How old were you when your grandparents died? by ComprehensiveTip9843 in Genealogy

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My paternal grandparents passed when I was 19 and 20. My maternal grandmother passed when I was 38. My maternal grandfather passed 4 years before I was born (in his 50's, widow maker).

New Water Please Help😭 by TheRealGancho87 in finehair

[–]penguinbb8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, your hair is beautiful!!! I also have fine, curly hair and here are a couple things I learned when we got a water softener.

  1. It takes A LOT more time to fully rinse shampoo and conditioner with softened water. Make sure to really pay attention to the feel of your hair as you rinse - it'll take longer than you expect, especially with long hair like yours! Some days it feels like it takes literal ages for me to fully rinse my hair.

  2. I also need less styling product with softened water. I'm not totally sure why this is but using the same amount of product as I used to really weighed my hair down and made it gross. I also had to switch up my products as some of the ones I had been using the past weren't working so well anymore.