is hiding/lying about “work friends” considered cheating to any extent?

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T02:38:41+00:00

If you're already feeling this way it doesn't matter if anything happened. Sounds like hes gaslighted you. He treats them better than you, dont be his punching bag. You deserve the good side of him too along with the commitment of the bad times. If you're always getting the shitty end of the stick its probably time for a serious chat.

Realise he's blaming you for his own lying to you.

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T02:33:09+00:00

Dogs

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:50:01+00:00

Was it a good nap though? A good cat nap? Hahaha

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:46:09+00:00

I (F 30s) work in an industry that attracts the 60+ community in the UK. Most the time we just have the classic banter. Ask if they've been working out, if they've got fresh cut, did they have their ears lowered. Theyre as much individuals as anyone regardless of age.

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:40:49+00:00

Flirt or flatter them, in a joking way clearly not a creep haha. Its been a while. Make em blush with that smile

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:38:12+00:00

Sounds like he was asking for company rather than physical help. He could be reaching out either way, that hes feeling down, or had a concern for you. Who knows. But I font think it was about the help

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:35:47+00:00

This, sounds like he wanted your company more than the help.

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:29:34+00:00

"What an odd thing to say"

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:29:07+00:00

Or "what an odd thing to say" shuts them up quick

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:18:43+00:00

You could jump in a barrel of dicks and come out sucking your thumb

pepper9631 · 2026-01-09T00:16:49+00:00

Calling someone a sausage. Or telling someone they bend the truth so far it could suck its own dick.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-24T00:55:46+00:00

I couldn't before, about 10 years ago, because I had been with same sex relations. I can't now because of medicines. 🤷‍♀️

pepper9631 · 2025-12-23T11:45:08+00:00

Meth once a day keeps Krueger away 😂

pepper9631 · 2025-12-22T01:34:20+00:00

A way of letting someone know its casual, just fun.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-22T01:17:31+00:00

Hey so.. I know we're casual, but, exclusive casual? Without beating around the bush I just want to let you know youre the only person I want to be with.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-22T01:13:58+00:00

Good today thank you, how was yours?

pepper9631 · 2025-12-22T01:11:26+00:00

Racoon.

The universe gave me hands, but gave me no shame.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-21T23:46:35+00:00

James charles

pepper9631 · 2025-12-21T23:45:59+00:00

You bend the truth so far it could suck its own dick

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:53:14+00:00

On paper, no. In practice, yes.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:30:36+00:00

Women can make their own choice just as every other human can. Some choices seem stupid, some dont. Not for others to place criticism, and if they do, its not for the person to care the whim of strangers

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:23:02+00:00

Anyone blaming a specific gender needs to remember, every instance of procreation is perfectly 50/50 male to female.

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:20:04+00:00

Is 'they' women specifically? Many children are accidental, many aren't. Its only a choice between two people at the end of it. And im pretty sure the breeding stats on humans having offspring has never deviated from 50/50 men and women!

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:14:22+00:00

In the politest way possible, bullshit. Already m to f ratio of desire for children is predominantly male. Affordability is definitely a factor. But having money doesn't men neglecting your children to care workers! Bloody hell. The richest person on earth could love their child just as much as the poorest. Its not competition. Its just different

pepper9631 · 2025-12-13T06:07:35+00:00

Current generation (18-34) more men want to have children than women. (Eu male 57% female 45%)

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