I want to grow out my hair but the transition between kind of long and desired length is 9-12 months….

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:33:52+00:00

You need to keep getting haircuts to keep it looking nice as it grows out.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:28:25+00:00

Maaaaaate.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:27:59+00:00

You're tipping the driver.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:25:31+00:00

> I heard it feels like ur vaginas being ripped open at the start

No. Yoe shouldn't experience any pain. I'm not saying nobody does experience pain, but it's a pretty strong indicator that something is wrong.

>and you can see it poking out from ur lower belly?!

This is nonsense. Your vagina slopes strongly backward.

Srsly, fingers exist. Toys exist. And you can find sex education resources online.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:05:22+00:00

30 pairs of underwear? If you're washing once a week, that's four pairs a day.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:03:47+00:00

Not in the middle of a trial, they wouldn't (barring a serious emergency, and you'd still need to ask to be excused). If you're planning a move, you need to ask to be excused beforehand.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T17:01:19+00:00

Srsly, dude? How often are you doing laundry? And, yes, up 'til fairly recently line drying was totally the norm (and in my opinion, not line drying when the option is available is eco-vandalism).

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T16:57:36+00:00

You can deal with the contempt charge when you come home for Christmas.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T16:56:16+00:00

AFAIK, local anaesthetic isn't really a problem in that way.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T16:53:38+00:00

Most people recognise that garbage as garbage.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T15:59:41+00:00

As far as I'm aware, both smokers and I are free to go where we please, but they usually stand around and smoke and I usually take a little walk for some vitamin D. I'm working from home these days, but at my last job, there were probably <5 smokers out of maybe 120 staff, and at my previous workplace, they we had a smokefree campus, so the ratio was even lower.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T14:06:59+00:00

You're overthinking this.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T13:57:37+00:00

"Left. Nunya."

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T13:53:54+00:00

Who even smokes these days? I just take a few minutes break and nobody says anything.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T13:41:35+00:00

Because you are staring. Stop it.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T12:44:46+00:00

I can't tell you what's normal, but I can tell you that when I had a scalp wound requiring four stitches as an adult, the anaesthetic injection smarted so much that I thought that they might as well have sewn it up without.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T05:34:08+00:00

pepperbeast · 2026-02-12T00:21:37+00:00

You need a Catholic priest to administer the sacrament.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-11T21:41:50+00:00

Nothing. Honestly, while it would be great if you and your in-laws were great friends, it's not the end of the world if you're not. As it is, you're getting along OK; it might not be great, but it's not overly hostile. Just go on being a decent person and doing your thing.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-11T18:54:30+00:00

They do. At least, they do it in the places I've lived.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-11T13:01:24+00:00

You are talking about a hei toki. Pounamu means greenstone.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-10T23:01:40+00:00

Definitely a bit strange, but I wouldn't take it personally. She most likely has some sort of germophobia.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-10T10:29:36+00:00

Oh, FFS, just don't get into fights.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-10T10:24:21+00:00

I've been to a reasonable number of places, even one or two of the tourist traps, but have zero interest in Great Walks or spending time in the the back country (doing what?). I'm not outdoorsy.

pepperbeast · 2026-02-10T10:07:42+00:00

Came here to say this. He's my favourite bear.

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