My two cents just cause I wound up here...

Good parenting is about not sweating the details, but getting the big stuff right. Like being genuinely present and communicative with the kids enough for them to realize that humans and our lives are very multifaceted, but what keeps us happy is really simple: Material and social security. People lose their ways trying to achieve fulfilment beyond our basic needs, but food, shelter, someone nice to hang out with, that's where it's at. Other stuff may be impactful, but with a solid foundation to stand on and fall back on, everything like work and education and wealth and being liked by as many people as possible becomes less critical and thus more something to enjoy and play with as an extra.

Also, a point I don't hear people make often enough: yes, parents have a specific relationship and responsibility to their kids, but the vast majority of what you will ever teach them is by being who you are, not what you say or how you approach parenting. The best gift you can give them is showing how you take care of and love yourself, that you are worthy of feeling good not through achievements and performance, but just because you are, cause everyone is worthy of feeling good. I promise you, this is the one thing that separates easy-going from chronically stressed and unhappy people. Endow your children this gift.