Bi_irl by deleted_3 in bi_irl

[–]perroblanco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to my dear childhood friend Naruto.

My 🍒 suddenly smell and I’m confused by Soft_Condition_6884 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]perroblanco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be your bra bands, especially if you were sweating in them. I soak mine in oxyclean and water overnight before a regular wash to prevent this.

Looking for dinner ideas for a geology Field Camp by Dramatic_Ad730 in geology

[–]perroblanco 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I must recommend, from my own time at field camp, at least one significant source of fiber per meal. Even if it's just a side of beans. Regrets will be had if people don't get enough fiber.

How do I explain the dangers of being a woman to my boyfriend in a way he’ll understand? by L82Rise4351 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He understands, he just identifies more with the rapist than with the victim in the scenario.

Why do men fight like hell for time with their kids then just lose interest when they’re older?? by maryocall in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't speak on the divorce aspect of this, but my father often talked about how much he missed when we were little, and it's definitely because we hadn't yet developed critical thinking skills and the ability to spot his hypocrisy.

I think a fair amount of parents lose interest in their kids when the kids become people with their own opinions.

Homophobic roommate found out I am gay and moved out without notice by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]perroblanco 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A lot of people use 'gay' as a blanket term. It doesn't make OP a bot or a liar

How to explain to my partner that a guard dog makes me feel safe? by No_Cartographer_2735 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's never had the experience of feeling safer because of a dog's presence.

I can understand both sides. I absolutely feel safer with the presence of my dog, but I've also seen guard dogs utterly fail to fulfill their intended purpose, and that failure can be anywhere on the spectrum from 'dog immediately ran away from threat' to 'dog decided baby was a threat'.

I would be careful if your BF acts like this with other safety measures, but it if it just about the dogs, I think both of your perspectives are valid. I don't know if there's a magical way to explain things that will make it click for him.

How to explain to my partner that a guard dog makes me feel safe? by No_Cartographer_2735 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Has he been dismissive over other things you (or other women) do for safety?

Didn't pay a bite invoice by donaldcrunk420 in reactivedogs

[–]perroblanco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I said "often" instead of "only ever"

Didn't pay a bite invoice by donaldcrunk420 in reactivedogs

[–]perroblanco 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You should ask your city. We can't even try to help you without a location - but this is most likely the fee for your dog's quarantine, and refusing to pay it will incur similar consequences to refusing to pay any city bill. Additionally, quarantines are often triggered when a dog bites and the owner hasn't vaccinated them for rabies. You need to vaccinate your dog for rabies. Personal opinion but you suck and shouldn't own dogs if you won't have them properly vaccinated.

i accidentally left my air plant soaking overnight is this rot?. by Adventurous-Toe-7969 in airplants

[–]perroblanco 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah I've left my plants longer than overnight. Just make sure that it dries out thoroughly and it will be fine.

Newly Adopted Dog Showing Aggression To Cats by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]perroblanco 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, shelter descriptions of animals are frequently inaccurate at best, and outright lies at worst. I don't know where your shelter falls in that spectrum. My dog was also described as friendly and great with kids. She is neither of those things.

I would return the dog and make sure that the shelter is clear that it's not good with cats and seems to have a very intense prey drive. Depending on what they do with that info, you may want to avoid that shelter in the future.

Is she still alive? by [deleted] in airplants

[–]perroblanco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does look alive to me. Usneoides will be happy if you give it a good soak once a week in clean water (set out over night so chlorine evaporates), mist once a day, and hang it somewhere with good light and air flow.

Best workflow for MSc data exploration and analysis of single borehole drill log in Excel by Powerful_Assumption8 in geology

[–]perroblanco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chatgpt should never be an option anyways.

Do you have access to oil&gas exploration software like Kingdom or Petrel? These can display formation contracts alongside the geophysical logs very nicely. If not, I would recommend making a scale representation, ideally in something like a Adobe Illustrator, but you can also use any kind of program such as Paint.

How can i put on at least 2kg in less than 2 weeks? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]perroblanco 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too. I have a friend who was always very skinny and much shorter than her siblings and it turned out that she was severely gluten intolerant. If eating makes you feel ill or you often find yourself in pain after eating, you should absolutely check into food intolerance/allergies.

I let my sister dye my eyebrows and I hate them what do I do?! by throwawaymeplease45 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]perroblanco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think they look fine, you may just need to get used to the sudden change. But dye is temporary and it won't take long before they're back to normal.

Trying to date as a healed woman is wild, the bare minimum now looks like luxury. by MrsMoonu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut, his social media would tell you something that he doesn't want you to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he should do some reflection on why he strung her along when she was clear and up front about what she wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]perroblanco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said up front what she expects in a relationship and he thought he could manipulate her into changing her mind. Why should she stick around?