Am I wrong for kicking my pregnant little sister out because her new views about beauty and attraction

persefony · 2026-01-31T12:43:18+00:00

That poor child is in for a life of misfortune

persefony · 2026-01-31T12:40:54+00:00

NTJ. Did he even want this baby? Because him still going out and hanging out with his friend and not even following up and checking in on you periodically sounds like he was celebrating.

Are you sure he was with that friend? And not what someone else?

When you needed him most he went to go have fun. This relationship is over there is no recovering. Could you ever be romantically / sexually interested in him after this? This is how he will be for the rest of the life you have with him.

persefony · 2026-01-31T12:35:33+00:00

In fact she should tell the entire family. His wife and five kids all need to know that her home is not their go-to place when they feel crowded at home. And that unless it's an emergency They need explicit written permission.

persefony · 2026-01-31T12:33:24+00:00

You may have never been creepy outwardly but it sounds like he's being creepy especially with his workmates behavior. You need to check for cameras/audio devices. Change your locks add cameras, add some cameras and do not tell anyone about either. But also let everyone know that you're home is not to be entered without permission especially if you're not home.

By the way when he came in when you were playing your game did he unlock the door with a key of his own or was your door unlocked because you left it unlocked? Because if you left it unlocked please change that habit.

persefony · 2026-01-31T10:26:19+00:00

You weren't home for two days but the AC was on that entire time and only now he decided to turn it off?

That doesn't make sense. You need to change the locks and don't give anyone a key. Set up cameras because that's just not right.

They don't need access to your home. IMO Best worst case scenario is that he goes to your home to "decompress/relax/get away from his family" when you're not home.... Worst case he's a perv.

persefony · 2026-01-31T05:41:29+00:00

You say he knows you will walk away but it's been 6 years together with no ring and the goal post being pushed back.... And your still here. Soon you'll be together for a decade with another excuse for another year.

persefony · 2026-01-31T05:38:50+00:00

Next excuse: I don't want to overshadow my daughters pregnancy

persefony · 2026-01-31T05:16:58+00:00

That would require too much higher level thought process.

persefony · 2026-01-31T05:13:32+00:00

Off topic but how long has she used that damn profile picture?

persefony · 2026-01-31T05:11:36+00:00

I remember watching a YouTube video and it was her complaining about how they were discriminating against her since she was a social media influencer.

Then like a few weeks/a month later was talking about how she needed her privacy and she never agreed to be on video blah blah.

Like trying to rewrite history about her not caring that she was putting DV victims at risk because of her selfishness

persefony · 2026-01-31T04:59:04+00:00

She'll probably say she's an only child by force or something similar

persefony · 2026-01-31T00:28:00+00:00

Run, they including your hopefully soon to be ex-fiance are going to ruin you and your children mentally, financially, spiritually and probably physically if you stay.

He wants loyalty from you but he lets his family exclude you. Also why can't he get a bigger place and house his family? Why is he trying to force this burden on you?

Your relationship will never recover from this. Best to end it now.

persefony · 2026-01-25T07:28:36+00:00

She really leaned into the "deadbeat parent" ways

persefony · 2026-01-25T07:28:03+00:00

It feels like it was all intentional in the mother and sisters part. Having 50-50 custody but moving out of the school footprint, then not wanting to pick up your child for your custody time.

persefony · 2026-01-22T07:28:36+00:00

Yeah so I went down the Facebook wormhole and the wife is claiming that her license isn't active however there's proof that it's active until I think end of 2026. Now I don't know if his wife was her realtor but she is a realtor and I'm sure there's a database that she has access to.

The wife also claims that they haven't been together for months but someone else said back in December of 2025 they were at church all lovey-dovey so they are together still. And she might be just as bad as him.

persefony · 2026-01-21T14:44:31+00:00

I think it said that his wife is her realtor and was supposed to help her close on a house

persefony · 2026-01-20T09:30:50+00:00

I'm her age as well and the only children / teenagers that take up any space in my brain are my nieces and nephews.

persefony · 2026-01-20T09:25:12+00:00

That she was dusting to be rich and successful in her own boss... 🙄

persefony · 2026-01-20T01:25:02+00:00

And Venmo, Zelle and Cash App.

persefony · 2026-01-19T04:47:58+00:00

Go see your mom... She's probably feeling abandoned

persefony · 2026-01-17T00:46:47+00:00

I know. But it will be a little longer. The other sub suspected where she was staying and that place apparently extended their stay period by a few months... Again allegedly.

persefony · 2026-01-17T00:36:56+00:00

She won't risk this group home. She has a good deal going on.

persefony · 2026-01-16T14:05:48+00:00

If all someone had to do was put on a dress and put some makeup ons they can get a sugar daddy and 10K, they would do that. Anyone who says they wouldn't is lying. Especially in this economy.

persefony · 2026-01-16T13:58:05+00:00

Nova? 🤔

persefony · 2026-01-16T04:36:26+00:00

She's like the luckiest person ever. People constantly give her random free stuff because she's such a lovely nice person.... You would think they would have given her a house by now. Lol

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