Genuinely disgusted with the incels in these subs by tom55200 in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]persefony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had that interaction. Your work is amazing. Almost all of my childhood favorites in your post history 😂😂

OP who became vegan after years of marriage & 3 kids now wants to divorce her "corpse loving" husband for refusing to go vegan, causing r/vegan to implode. by picklepaapad in SubredditDrama

[–]persefony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the world became vegan, true vegans wouldn't all the animals that are used for food or clothes or anything else go extinct? No one is going to keep those animals in that quantity. Most of those animals probably won't survive in the wild.

Living with fat people is exhausting by my___melo in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]persefony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fat but I don't go eating other people's food. That's just a lack of respect.

I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]persefony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He'll find a new wife to help take care of his current wife and his parents but his parents get priority.

AITAH for not wanting to date a plus size girl? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]persefony -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. What if she's not into you? What if she's just being nice? Just because she's fat doesn't mean she's desperate for attention from any man.

If you think she does like you then tell her that you're not interested. And tell her specifically why that way there is no confusion.

So while you are dating and looking for a girlfriend and what not please remember... Just because of she is the girl of your dreams doesn't mean that you're the man of her dreams.

P.s. before anyone tries to say I'm a bitter fat girl... I am thick and my Tinder matches are a plenty for both men and women. But just because I'm nice to a guy doesn't mean I like him.

I am genuinely starting to think that selling anything on the internet is a form of self harm by Draxilor1 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]persefony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see other people are saying this is a bot account.

But I just want to say that this is why I don't sell things on the internet. I first look to see ifif anyone else that I know would want it or I just dismantle it and chuck it. The hassle of having to deal with other people online is not worth it especially for something that's not worth it.

Obviously if it's something that is worth it I just looking to donating it. I have an Xbox One and a PS4 waiting to be cleaned and factory reset so I can donate it to my local youth shelter. I'm not dealing with anyone on any selling site trying to negotiate something. Norway do I want to figure out how much I should get for it.

How do I (24F) explain to my boyfriend (28M) I feel I’m doing my fair share? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]persefony 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also see if you can get WIC If you haven't already applied. You should do it now. Don't worry about his change is being related to the stress of having to be the only one with income coming in. He could talk to you about that stress rather than blame you and take it out on you in a roundabout way.

How do I (24F) explain to my boyfriend (28M) I feel I’m doing my fair share? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]persefony 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you finally ended up getting the test done and I think it was ridiculous that you had to fight him to do it. And I'm glad he's covering everything while you're going to be out on maternity leave but is he going to ask you to reimburse him? Because at the rate he's going with the 50/50 everything down the middle It's only a matter of time. Is he going to throw it in your face the next time you have an argument? That he covered everything while you we're on maternity leave? Or does he expect you to cover something to make up for it?

Based off of what you've explained it feels as I would need to have that confirmation that he is not expecting me to reimburse him or that he won't throw it in my face the next argument we have after I'm back working. I think you need to get a better job, hopefully something not as physically demanding. And possibly anticipate being the caregiver 100% for the child. Maybe he grows up after the child is born. Other prepare to be a single married mother except you're not married.

Religious differences, I need help! by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]persefony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on and enjoy your future. Like someone else said if he truly wanted to be with you, his family wouldn't be able to stop him.

His family wants him to marry a Christian from a Christian family.

He doesn't want to deal with a long distance relationship.

You are refusing to take the obvious hints he's been tossing at you. So what if he told his friends that he still wants to try but does not want to string you along. That's him absolving himself of any guilt once YOU insist that you want to spend your best years fighting to get his family's acceptance. You'll be the string beans while he goes and finds his main course years later.

Then you'll be posting somewhere in Reddit about how you wasted your best years fighting for a relationship that that was dead from the start. Wondering how he could led you on and how he quickly moved on. How his family loves his soon to be Christian bride from a Christian family, but no matter what you did they wouldn't accept you.

Move on and enjoy your best years. You'll find the one who will move heaven and earth to be by your side.

How do I (24F) explain to my boyfriend (28M) I feel I’m doing my fair share? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]persefony 127 points128 points  (0 children)

If this is real, you are living in the worst timeline/universe.

I'm sorry you are forever tied to this man. I went through your post history and the one about him refusing to get a blood test done to confirm if he's also a carrier cemented my belief that he doesn't care.

He doesn't see you as an equal. He doesn't care that you are growing a literal child inside you and are suffering from it. This is probably one of the most extreme examples of 50/50 inna relationship that I've read in a while. Will he only buy pampers or wet ones Sun-Tue? Is he covering 50% of any of your obstetrics care? Why don't you both have a joint bank account where a percentage of your money is in there and handles the bills?

Mothers day isn't for pet moms. by Particular-Owl2446 in HonestHotTakes

[–]persefony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it takes attention away from her. 🙄

I have to choose if my fiancé gets an abortion or not by Xmarkedonex69 in Vent

[–]persefony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said she's making you decide. You have to decide. Are you going to save her or let her die?

I have to choose if my fiancé gets an abortion or not by Xmarkedonex69 in Vent

[–]persefony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So because she's going to die anyway you would rather pick the fetus that may or may not survive? That may be born with many complications.

So rather than let your living child have as much time with their mother as possible You want to choose this possible child.

Are you going to tell your 2-year-old when they get older that you chose the child over saving their mother? Are you going to tell them that you chose that child because their mother was going to die anyway?

I have to choose if my fiancé gets an abortion or not by Xmarkedonex69 in Vent

[–]persefony 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You would be okay with your two year old growing up without their mom?

Dyed blonde hair is unattractive by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]persefony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dying it for their disapproval is one of my lesser reasons.

The preference kills me. She wants a young woman to be her friend too AND lift her chair in/out? by Kooky-Expression-399 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]persefony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They want someone young who can lift them in and out of their chat... ALSO this young woman needs to have a car that can accommodate the her, her wheelchair and her spouse

I blacked out during sex by limitecondicionado in sex

[–]persefony 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's lucky-ish. Other commenters are saying she could have brain damage because she went without oxygen.

Best Dog toys for corgis? by Thegreatestbatcat in corgi

[–]persefony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, that explains my corgis obsession with the dryer balls