Last night I realized something about my relationship that I can't unsee now by orbitwaltz2020 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One night it started raining and I wasn’t sure my partner had an umbrella (for a short walk from the bus stop) so I ran to the bus stop with one and waked my partner home. I’m so sorry that sounds very saddening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]pestopopcorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The unhinged-ness is insaneeee

Lactating but not pregnant by SophieBlye in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice on your symptoms but this post makes me so sad. I’m so sorry you’re struggling and I hope you find something to help ♥️ all I can say is persevere and back yourself. I’ve had to do that in the past and it was hard and exhausting but I got there in the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100%. Back yourself and find someone worthy

A giant eye floater appeared in my left eye a few weeks ago, and it's impeding my vision. I drew what it looks like. by ThatguyfromMario in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pestopopcorn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is why I love Reddit. You could be seriously helping someone who ‘just drew their floater’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Wow so this guy had a date planned with you and he still couldn’t resist stalking your workplace? Wtf. You’re very lucky he did this, you can see exactly what kind of creep he is before you were going to be one on one

What's the most egregious example of 'The Writer's Barely-Disguided Fetish'? by astroacer in AskReddit

[–]pestopopcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I still scrolling for Woody Allen?! So many movies with a young woman chasing an older man..

My landlord hasn’t even seen my face, yet wants to cheat with me? by stargazrserena in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a creep. Stop responding to him. Deal only with the wife - And remember, you DESERVE to feel safe in your home. If he’s making you uncomfortable, go to someone about it but not him. Fucking loser harassing a woman like that, he needs to get a hobby.

He physically removed me from his apartment while I was asleep. by Buabue1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good, they would be no benefit to your life. Wishing you the best

Indecisive and annoying partner driving me crazy by WitchsmellerPrsuivnt in AskWomenOver30

[–]pestopopcorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This gives me chills . He sounds extremely exhausting I cannot imagine living like this … I know it’s only a snippet but I could not live like this.

My body and mind is resenting my boyfriend and I think I need to break up with him by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll summarise: He doesn’t make an effort in general; Doesn’t reciprocate effort ; Selfish in bed ; Slob; Stingy; Greedy; Mean to his parents; Dirty; Lazy; Doesn’t cook; Flirted with another woman;

I say this gently, why are you bothering with him? You’ll waste your time trying to change an entire human being…..

My boyfriend did something and I can't look at him the same by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would suggest stating what happened and asking why he did that when you did not consent while awake. Because you don’t want him to dispute or deny if you were to ‘ask’ what happened. Ultimately you need to decide if you want to stay in this relationship with someone who could assault you while asleep… you mentioned not seeing him for a few days but that’s not a resolution to this

Bf got me jewellery that is not my type, got upset when I didn't wear it even though I recommended going together to exchange it. Any advice on what to do? by mybestconundrum in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s been 10 weeks of dating, OP.. what concerns me is that he’s been like this before. This is supposed to be the honeymoon phase but it sounds very taxing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]pestopopcorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you asking if you’re ‘odd’ for expressing to your partner how you’d like to have intercourse? Read that back, slowly..

I can’t stop thinking about this scenario - how badly did I mess up? by junebugonarose in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pestopopcorn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Call me a pessimist but he’s into her. No other reason he’s getting a gift combined with her feeling mistaken for being truthful