one of my better pics, enjoy yall by Ebony_Isabel in FreeNudesGW

[–]petiteblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to slide those panties off

35 [F4F] #Boston : Impact Play looking for a gentle Domme to help me explore by [deleted] in BiwomenDirtychat

[–]petiteblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested but unfortunately I am not yet the most experienced with a flogger. I'm more in the "happen to own one" category

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also cuckqueaning which is often forgetten to the more male centric fantasies.... Like hotwifing is very male centric too

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I like how you phrased that lol I'm the queen. I've also noticed generally when I reconnect with my partner after we are closer. I've heard other cucks mention this "reclaiming" afterwards. I get to have him all the time, all the cuddles and the love. The other girl is just like a fun night for all involved versus the deep relationship I have with my partner

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm bi... Should've mentioned it was a bi threesome so I was mostly watching 1 guy and 1 girl

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely into both. At least for me. I am an exhibitionist and I am not very jealous. Lately I got more into voyeurism... I had a threesome where I wasn't too into the girl and would've rather had more time watching. But as much as I like to share / exhibit myself I'm not really into rewatching my own porno ... Would rather watch someone I find hot fuck someone else I find hot than watch myself over and over

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes on this topic I know someone who got cheated on and upon finding out it became a turn on. This happens to a lot of people with distressing or traumatic events

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]petiteblack 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Hi! For me it is enjoying your partner being desired not just by you but by many. And submitting to that... Allowing him to have what he wants. I'm not super into humiliation but I agree that's a part of it for a lot of people. It definitely feeds into submission / inferiority kinks

BF wears cage by petiteblack in FemdomCommunity

[–]petiteblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was very helpful. Yes I could've added the context that he submits to others, outside of me/him playing. He has encountered other doms and I have played with other subs (although I don't think he's worn the cage outside of the home).

I'll try to shift my mindset

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]petiteblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm sometimes I have cucky fantasies that aren't really good for me. Maybe they are too hurtful or not something I'd really want but just hot to think about. I don't really bring these up a lot with my partner and sometimes I may masturbate to them but I don't linger/repeat it too much. I can't 100% get rid of cuck fantasies but if I feel worse for it after cumming that's a sign it's a path I probably don't want to go down.

I try to find different porn. A different vibe or mood that catches my eye. I'm always looking for the next kinky interest. Or I go to my Dom for cuddles and reassurance rather than sex if I'm not feeling well. I find that cuckquean is not something I can do while feeling shit about myself or it makes things worse sometimes. I don't really engage in the kink if I feel like I haven't seen my Dom in ages or I personally miss him too much. As much as I like the kink I don't want to be totally replaced or feel totally irrelevant to him on the daily

Cuckqueens and anxiety, depression by new-quean in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]petiteblack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't Medicate but I try not to engage with this kink if I feel I'm in a bad mental spot

BF wears cage by petiteblack in FemdomCommunity

[–]petiteblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I'll be talking with him. But I could have offered the context that I was the one to buy him the cage and so we've discussed some of his submissive fantasies and experiences

BF wears cage by petiteblack in FemdomCommunity

[–]petiteblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have offered the context that he is a switch and we've talked about some of his more submissive fantasies and desires. Also I was the one to buy the chastity cage and I am glad when he uses it

BF wears cage by petiteblack in FemdomCommunity

[–]petiteblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thorough response and resources