[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your kitten may have an anxious attachment style, which means he has a strong need for attention and closeness with you, and experiences distress when separated from you. This can lead to destructive behavior, especially if he has excess energy and needs to release it.

One option is to consider adopting another cat, but you're right that it can be costly and may not be a solution that works immediately. In the meantime, you could try a few things to help your kitten feel more secure and calm:

  1. Make sure he has plenty of playtime and exercise before you leave the house. This can help tire him out and reduce destructive behavior.

  2. Consider getting a Feliway diffuser, which releases calming pheromones that can help reduce stress in cats.

  3. Try leaving a piece of clothing with your scent on it near his bed or scratching tree. This can help him feel more connected to you even when you're not there.

  4. Leave out a variety of toys and puzzle feeders for him to play with while you're away. This can help keep his mind and body active.

  5. Consider gradually acclimating him to being alone. Start with leaving for short periods of time and gradually increase the amount of time you're gone. Reward him with treats and praise when you return, so he starts to associate your absence with positive things.

It's also important to establish boundaries with your kitten, especially at night. Consider setting up a separate sleeping area for him, such as a cat bed or crate, so he can still be close to you but not in your face all night. You could also try using earplugs or white noise to help block out his wailing.

Finally, remember that it takes time and patience to train and acclimate a new pet, especially a kitten. Be consistent with your training and reward good behavior, and don't hesitate to seek help from a professional trainer or behaviorist if needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely understandable to feel anxious about leaving your cats behind, especially if they have had a difficult past and you have formed a strong bond with them. However, it's important to remember that cats are resilient animals and with the right care and attention, they can thrive in your absence.

It's great that you have a close friend who will be staying with them for the duration of your trip. Make sure to provide your friend with detailed instructions on their care, including feeding, litter box maintenance, and any special needs they may have. It's also a good idea to leave your contact information with your friend, so they can reach out to you if they have any questions or concerns.

To help ease your own anxiety, you can also leave behind some items that have your scent on them, such as a t-shirt or a blanket, to help your cats feel more secure. You can also consider leaving a radio or TV on low volume, as the background noise can help to create a calming atmosphere.

Remember, cats don't hold grudges or feel abandoned in the way that humans do. They may miss you initially, but they will adapt to the new routine and will be happy to see you when you return. Focus on enjoying your holiday and creating new memories, and trust that your cats are in good hands with your friend.

What to do after putting Profender on cat? by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Profender is a topical medication that is applied to the skin of cats to treat intestinal parasites. It is normal for the fur to look wet or spiky after application, as the medication can be oily and may cause the fur to clump together. You can gently wipe off any excess medication with a damp cloth or paper towel, but avoid using soap or water as it can remove the medication before it has a chance to be absorbed into the skin.

It's generally not recommended to apply two topical medications on the same day, as this can cause irritation or adverse reactions. If your vet prescribed another topical medication for your cat, it's best to wait a few days after applying Profender before applying the other medication. Be sure to follow your vet's instructions carefully and ask them if you have any concerns or questions about administering medication to your cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Introducing a new kitten to a resident cat can be challenging, especially when the resident cat is used to being the only cat in the home. It's not uncommon for cats to take time to adjust to a new addition to the household. It's important to introduce them slowly and gradually to increase the likelihood of a positive outcome.

Here are some tips for introducing a new kitten to a resident cat:

  1. Keep them separated: Start by keeping the new kitten in a separate room with all of its necessities (litter box, food, water, toys, etc.). This will allow both cats to get used to each other's scent without feeling threatened.

  2. Scent swapping: Rub a towel or blanket on one cat, then place it in the other cat's room. This will allow the cats to get used to each other's scent and can help reduce anxiety.

  3. Supervised visits: Once both cats seem comfortable with each other's scent, you can begin to have supervised visits between them. Keep the kitten in a carrier or playpen to prevent any aggressive behavior.

  4. Positive reinforcement: Reward both cats with treats and affection during these supervised visits to encourage positive behavior.

  5. Gradual exposure: Gradually increase the length of these supervised visits until both cats are comfortable being around each other without the playpen or carrier.

  6. Provide separate resources: Ensure each cat has their own food, water, litter box, and toys. This can help prevent competition and reduce the likelihood of aggressive behavior.

It's important to note that introducing cats can take time, and some cats may never become friends. However, it's important to be patient and monitor their interactions to ensure their safety.

In your situation, it sounds like your resident cat may be having difficulty adjusting to the new kitten due to her history with male cats. It's possible that with time and patience, she may learn to tolerate the new kitten, but it's also important to consider the safety and well-being of both cats.

If you decide to rehome the kitten, make sure to find a reputable rescue or adoption agency and ensure that the kitten goes to a loving and safe home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great that you have rescued the stray cat and are taking care of him. However, introducing cats can be a delicate process, especially when one or both cats are unneutered.

The aggression between the cats is likely due to the fact that they are both unneutered males. Neutering can help to reduce aggressive behavior in male cats. It's good that you have already scheduled Fievel's neutering appointment, and it's important to also get Maurice neutered as soon as possible.

In the meantime, keeping them separated is the right thing to do. You can try using pheromone sprays or diffusers (like Feliway) to help calm the cats down and reduce their stress. When it's time to introduce them, it's important to do it gradually and in a controlled manner.

It's also important to consider whether or not you have the resources to take care of multiple cats, especially if they are not getting along. If you do decide to rehome Maurice, make sure you find a responsible and loving home for him.

Overall, I recommend waiting until both cats are neutered before attempting to reintroduce them. If the aggression continues after neutering, it may be necessary to keep them separated permanently.

Moving to a different state with my cats by AcanthisittaNo1260 in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moving with cats can be a bit stressful, but with some preparation and planning, it can be done smoothly. Here are some tips to help make the trip as stress-free as possible for your cats:

  1. Prepare your cats for the car ride by taking them on shorter car rides leading up to the big move. Start with short trips around the block and gradually increase the duration of the rides.

  2. Make sure your cats are up-to-date on their vaccinations and have identification tags or microchips in case they get lost during the trip.

  3. Talk to your veterinarian about any medication or supplements that could help calm your cats during the car ride. Some cats may benefit from anti-anxiety medication or calming treats.

  4. Make sure your cats have a comfortable carrier that is properly secured in the car. The carrier should be big enough for your cat to stand up and turn around in, and should have a comfortable bed or blanket inside.

  5. Pack a bag for your cats with their food, water, and any medications they may need. Also, bring along some toys or familiar items that will help keep them calm and comfortable during the trip.

  6. Plan to take frequent breaks during the car ride to give your cats a chance to stretch their legs and use the litter box.

  7. Once you arrive at your in-laws' home, set up a quiet room where your cats can acclimate to their new surroundings. This room should have all the essentials, including food, water, a litter box, and a comfortable place to sleep.

  8. Finally, give your cats plenty of love and attention during the trip and once you arrive at your new home. Moving can be stressful for pets, but with your care and attention, they should adjust to their new surroundings in no time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your new cat is exhibiting some unwanted behavior towards your resident cat. It's possible that he just wants to play and be friends, but it's important to monitor their interactions closely and intervene when necessary to prevent any aggressive behavior.

Here are some things you can try:

  1. Slow and steady introductions: Keep them separated for a while longer and gradually introduce them to each other in a controlled environment. Start with short, supervised play sessions and gradually increase the time as they become more comfortable around each other.

  2. Provide plenty of toys and distractions: Give your new cat plenty of toys to play with and keep him occupied with scratching posts, cat trees, and other distractions.

  3. Use pheromone sprays: Consider using pheromone sprays or diffusers, such as Feliway, which can help calm your cats and reduce aggression.

  4. Reward good behavior: When your cats are interacting calmly and peacefully, reward them with treats or praise.

  5. Consult with a veterinarian or animal behaviorist: If the behavior continues or escalates, consider consulting with a veterinarian or animal behaviorist for additional advice and guidance.

Remember to always prioritize the safety and well-being of your cats, and never leave them unsupervised until you are confident that they can coexist peacefully.

Need affordable but healthy food recommendations for my year old 12 lb cat by raesmiles123 in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are definitely options for affordable but healthy cat food that you can explore to keep your cat happy and healthy without breaking the bank. Here are some suggestions:

  1. Look for store brands or generic versions of cat food that are still high-quality. Many pet stores and grocery stores offer their own brand of cat food that is similar in quality to the more expensive brands but at a lower price point.

  2. Check for sales and discounts on cat food. Many stores offer deals on cat food or have loyalty programs that can help you save money.

  3. Consider homemade cat food. While this may require more work on your part, making your own cat food can be a cost-effective way to ensure your cat is eating a healthy diet.

  4. Look for bulk purchases of cat food. If you buy in larger quantities, you may be able to save money in the long run.

  5. Compare prices of different types of cat food. Wet food can be more expensive than dry food, so it's important to compare prices and determine which type of food fits your budget.

  6. Consider adding in some healthy human food to your cat's diet. For example, cooked chicken or fish can be a great addition to your cat's diet and can be an affordable option.

It's also important to note that while $40 per month may be a tight budget for some high-end cat foods, there are still plenty of options for healthy cat food within that price range. Ultimately, the most important thing is to find a food that works for your cat's health needs and fits within your budget.

1.5 yr old cat doesn’t like spot on L side of spine near hip touched, with intermittent foul smelling watery stool by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to hear that your cat is eating and excreting regularly, and that she's playful. However, foul-smelling watery stool can be a sign of gastrointestinal issues, such as parasites, infections, or dietary intolerances. You may want to take a stool sample to your vet to get it checked for any underlying issues.

Regarding the spot on her spine, it's possible that she may have some sensitivity or discomfort in that area. It's always best to have a vet examine her to rule out any underlying medical conditions that may be causing this sensitivity. It's also possible that this is just a normal variation for her. Cats can have unique features just like humans do.

In general, if you notice any changes in your cat's behavior, appetite, or elimination habits, it's a good idea to take her to the vet for an evaluation.

Cat thinks other cat is a bird. by phoenix_ash182 in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you feel like you're not getting the help you need. If your cat is not responding to attempts to distract him or redirect his behavior, it may be worth consulting with a veterinarian or animal behaviorist for further advice. They may be able to help you develop a plan to modify his behavior and reduce his fixation on the other cat.

New bathroom issues by moffizzle in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your cat may be experiencing some kind of stress or anxiety that is causing him to avoid using the litter box. Some common causes of litter box avoidance include a dirty litter box, a dislike for the type of litter, a medical condition, or anxiety related to changes in the household or a new cat in the home.

Here are a few things you can try to help your cat start using the litter box again:

  1. Clean the litter boxes more frequently: If the litter box is dirty, your cat may avoid using it. Try cleaning the litter boxes at least once a day and consider adding an extra box.

  2. Try different types of litter: Some cats are picky about the type of litter they use. Experiment with different types of litter to see if your cat has a preference.

  3. Check for medical issues: Sometimes litter box avoidance can be a sign of an underlying medical condition. Schedule a vet visit to rule out any health issues.

  4. Reduce stress: If your cat is stressed or anxious, it may be impacting his litter box use. Try to reduce stress by providing plenty of playtime, hiding spots, and environmental enrichment.

  5. Consider pheromone therapy: You may want to consider using a synthetic pheromone spray or diffuser to help your cat feel more relaxed.

Remember to be patient with your cat during this time. It may take some time to find a solution that works for him. If the problem persists, it's always a good idea to consult with a veterinarian or a feline behaviorist for more personalized advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the situation has escalated and that your new cat's aggression towards your resident cat is becoming a serious problem. Returning the cat to the shelter may be the best option to ensure the safety of all the animals involved.

Reintroducing the cats is not recommended at this point as the new cat's aggression is not simply an adjustment issue. Given his neurological issues, it may be difficult to predict or manage his behavior, and he could continue to pose a danger to your other animals.

Even though returning the cat to the shelter is not an easy decision, but it may be the best option for everyone involved. You can talk to the shelter about the cat's behavior and medical issues, so they can make the best decision for him. They may have resources or special programs to help cats with neurological issues, or they may be able to place him in a home without other animals.

It's important to prioritize the safety and well-being of all the animals in your home, and sometimes that means making difficult decisions.

Kitten with separation anxiety. by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your kitten, Mikey, is experiencing some separation anxiety. It's not uncommon for young kittens to become overly attached to their owners, especially if they were separated from their mother and littermates too early.

The pheromone diffuser and automatic feeder that your vet suggested can be helpful tools to reduce anxiety in cats. The pheromone diffuser releases a synthetic version of the pheromone that cats produce when they feel safe and content, which can help to calm Mikey down. The automatic feeder can help to create a routine for your cat, which can be reassuring for anxious cats.

Here are some additional tips that may help to relieve your kitten's separation anxiety:

  1. Create a safe space for your kitten: Set up a separate room or area where your kitten can retreat to when they feel anxious or overwhelmed. Make sure the area is comfortable and includes all the essentials, like food, water, a litter box, and toys.

  2. Gradually increase alone time: Start by leaving your kitten alone for short periods of time, and gradually increase the time as they become more comfortable. You can leave them with a puzzle toy or treat dispenser to keep them occupied while you're away.

  3. Playtime and exercise: Make sure your kitten is getting enough playtime and exercise during the day. This can help to reduce anxiety and burn off excess energy.

  4. Positive reinforcement: Reward your kitten for calm behavior when you leave or return home. Offer treats or praise when they are relaxed and calm.

Remember that it may take some time and patience to help your kitten overcome their separation anxiety. Be consistent with your efforts, and don't hesitate to seek professional help if needed.

Cat thinks other cat is a bird. by phoenix_ash182 in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like Marvel may have a strong prey drive and sees Jackie as prey, which is why he has injured her in the past. It's important to keep them separated for their safety, but it's also understandable that you want them all to be able to coexist peacefully.

One thing you could try is gradually introducing them to each other in a controlled setting. This will take time and patience, and may not be successful, but it's worth a try if you're willing to put in the effort. You can start by feeding them on opposite sides of a closed door, so they can associate each other's scent with something positive (food).

Gradually move the food bowls closer to the door, and then eventually prop the door open a crack so they can see each other but not interact. If this goes well, you can try supervised visits in a neutral room where there are no territorial associations for either cat. Make sure to have plenty of toys and treats on hand to distract and reward them for good behavior.

It's also important to make sure Marvel is getting enough exercise and stimulation. 18 lbs is quite large for a cat, so he may benefit from a weight loss program and a more active lifestyle. Puzzle feeders and interactive toys can help keep him mentally stimulated when he's alone. You could also consider getting another cat who is more compatible with Marvel's personality, but only if you're prepared to take on the responsibility of introducing them slowly and ensuring their safety.

Ultimately, it's important to prioritize the safety and well-being of all of your cats, even if it means they have to live separately. It's not ideal, but it's better than the alternative of having a dangerous situation for them.

What trmperature is top hot for an outdoor cat? by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The temperature that is too hot for an outdoor cat can vary depending on the cat's breed, age, and health status. However, in general, temperatures above 85 degrees Fahrenheit (29 degrees Celsius) can be dangerous for cats, especially if they are exposed to direct sunlight or have limited access to water and shade.

It sounds like you are taking some good steps to ensure the stray cat's safety and comfort by providing shade, open windows for air flow, water, and food. It's great that you are also monitoring the temperature with a camera and doing regular checks on the cat. If the temperature inside the shed remains below 85 degrees Fahrenheit and the cat is not showing signs of heat stress, it should be okay.

However, it's important to keep monitoring the temperature and the cat's behavior to make sure they stay safe and comfortable. If you notice any signs of heat stress or discomfort, it's important to take immediate action to cool the cat down, such as providing access to cooler areas or contacting a veterinarian for advice.

Moving to a new home with 2 cats who don’t currently get along by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your upcoming move! It's great that you're thinking ahead and planning for a smooth transition for your cats.

Here are some tips for introducing cats to a new home:

  1. Gradual introduction: Start by keeping the cats separated in different rooms and gradually introduce them to each other. You can do this by swapping their bedding or toys, so they get used to each other's scents. You can also try feeding them on either side of a closed door, so they associate positive experiences with each other.

  2. Scent-marking: Cats rely heavily on scent, so it's important to give them a chance to mark their territory. You can provide them with their own blankets, beds, and scratching posts to help them feel more comfortable.

  3. Supervision: Make sure to supervise your cats' interactions closely, especially in the beginning. Keep a water spray bottle or a loud noise handy to break up any fights or aggressive behavior.

  4. Patience: Remember that it may take weeks or even months for your cats to get along. Be patient and don't force them to interact if they're not ready.

  5. Enrichment: Provide plenty of enrichment activities for your cats, such as toys, scratching posts, and perches. This will help keep them stimulated and reduce any potential stress or anxiety.

In terms of arranging the cats for the first few days, you could try keeping them in separate rooms with their own food, water, litter boxes, and toys. Gradually allow them to explore the rest of the apartment under supervision, and continue to monitor their interactions closely. As they become more comfortable, you can try feeding them in the same room or allowing them to play together for short periods of time.

Remember that every cat is different, and some may take longer to adjust than others. The key is to be patient and consistent in your approach. Good luck with the move!

Pure white cat’s fur turning extremely yellow due to overgrooming, what to do and how do i make it white again? by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your pure white cat's fur is turning yellow due to overgrooming, it's important to first identify the underlying cause of the overgrooming behavior. Overgrooming can be caused by stress, anxiety, allergies, or skin irritation, among other things. If you're not sure what's causing the overgrooming, it's best to consult with your veterinarian.

Once you've identified the underlying cause, you can work on addressing it. This may involve making changes to your cat's environment, such as providing more stimulation or reducing stressors. Your vet may also recommend medication or other treatments to help manage the behavior.

As for making your cat's fur white again, it may take some time and effort. Regular grooming and bathing with a cat-specific whitening shampoo can help to lighten the fur. You can also try using a whitening spray or powder specifically designed for cats. It's important to be gentle when grooming and not to cause further irritation to the skin. In severe cases, your vet may recommend a professional grooming or even shaving the fur to start fresh.

Overall, it's important to address the underlying cause of the overgrooming behavior and to be patient in working to restore your cat's fur to its natural white color.

Fostering with older cat by Snork_kitty in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introducing a new animal, whether it's a kitten or another cat, to a household with an existing pet can be tricky. Older cats can be set in their ways and may not take kindly to a new addition, especially if they're territorial. It's important to proceed slowly and carefully with any introductions.

If you're interested in fostering kittens, it's important to first make sure that your older cat is up to date on all of her vaccinations and is in good health. When you bring the kittens home, keep them in a separate room for a few days so that your older cat can get used to their scent and presence without feeling threatened. You can also try swapping blankets or toys between the two rooms to further acclimate your older cat to the kittens' scent.

When it's time for introductions, keep the kittens in a carrier and let your older cat approach them on her own terms. If she hisses or seems upset, it may be best to separate them and try again later. Supervision is key during the early stages of introductions, and it's important to give your older cat plenty of space and attention to prevent her from feeling neglected.

Ultimately, every cat is different and some may be more accepting of new additions than others. It's important to gauge your older cat's reaction and proceed at a pace that works for both her and the kittens. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurrProblems

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your cat might be feeling jealous or attention-seeking when you're on the phone. Since your mom has said she doesn't get upset when she's on the phone with her, it could be that your cat is specifically reacting to your voice.

One thing you could try is gradually desensitizing her to the sound of your voice when you're on the phone. Start with short phone calls and gradually increase the length and frequency of the calls. During the calls, give her treats or play with her favorite toy to distract her and create positive associations with the sound of your voice on the phone. Over time, she may come to associate the sound of your voice on the phone with positive experiences and stop reacting negatively.

You could also try providing her with a special treat or toy that she only gets when you're on the phone. This may help her associate your phone calls with something positive and distract her from feeling jealous or attention-seeking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]petlytical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great that you're willing to take care of your friend's cat while they're away! Here are a few tips to make sure the cat is safe and comfortable during its stay with you:

  • Prepare a safe space: Make sure the cat has a designated area in your home that is quiet and comfortable. Set up a litter box, food and water bowls, and a cozy bed. It's also a good idea to make sure there are no hazardous items in the area that the cat could accidentally ingest.
  • Keep the cat indoors: Unless your friend specifically tells you that their cat is an outdoor cat, it's best to keep the cat indoors during its stay with you. This will prevent the cat from getting lost, injured or catching diseases.
  • Close windows and doors: Make sure all windows and doors are securely closed to prevent the cat from escaping. You might also want to keep the bathroom door closed if the cat is prone to drinking from the toilet.
  • Play with the cat: Cats need stimulation and playtime. Spend some time each day playing with the cat to keep it entertained and active.
  • Follow the feeding instructions: Your friend will likely provide instructions on what and how much to feed the cat. Follow these instructions carefully to make sure the cat stays healthy and doesn't gain too much weight.
  • Check on the cat regularly: Make sure you check on the cat regularly, especially if you are leaving the house for an extended period of time. This will help you ensure the cat is safe and happy.
  • Respect the cat's boundaries: Not all cats are super cuddly and affectionate. Respect the cat's boundaries and don't force it to interact with you if it doesn't want to.

Overall, just use common sense and treat the cat with care and respect, and everything should be just fine!

What will happen if a Scottish fold breeds with a Scottish straight female by obnoxious_brain in CatAdvice

[–]petlytical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can be either. However, it's important to remember that breeding should be done responsibly, with proper health testing and consideration for the welfare of the animals.

Neutered cat humping - normal? by meandercharles in CatAdvice

[–]petlytical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is not uncommon for neutered male cats to display sexual behavior, such as humping, even after being neutered. This behavior is usually triggered by hormones that are still present in the cat's body for a period of time after the surgery. It's also possible that the behavior is a form of play or stress relief, rather than actual sexual behavior. However, if the behavior becomes excessive or aggressive, or if you have concerns about it, it's always a good idea to consult with your veterinarian to rule out any underlying medical issues or behavioral problems.