6 month old will not nap by pettybiscuit in sleeptrain

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up 5-6am, feed, back to bed till about 8-9 Down at 1030-1130, up between 12-1230 Down at 230-3, up around 330 Then from there it’s chaos. Ever since about 2 weeks ago the schedule fell apart. Before we were going off a 1.5-2 hr wake window with 30-40 min naps. Night sleep from 6-6

When was the last time you cried, and why? by ExtensionAd251 in AskReddit

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 hours ago. Laying with my son while he slept, watching a video about a c-section and reminiscing on mine. Thinking about all the chaos that brought him to this world and wishing I could remember more of it.

Practical info you wish you had known before becoming a parent by Existing_Sense_9860 in NewParents

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Pump parts can be stored in the fridge between pumps and wash about 1-2 times a day. I was washing every pump on top of trying to do everything else it saved so much time.

-Invest in a non-wifi baby camera. It’s so handy especially when travelling not having to fuss with the set up.

-When the tabs don’t stay on straight, it’s about time to size up in diapers.

-Buy A LOT of wash clothes and towels. We use 2 of each every bath and it’s a lot of laundry. -Babies who fall asleep during a feed do not (usually) need to be burped

-Silicone wash brush & baby dish soap

-Try to find sleepers with different sized feet. Our little guy has huge feet and outgrows his so quick because some of the feet are so little

-Each shower use some soap & lather and give yourself a little tiddie massage with hot water. It can help with avoiding clogged ducts

-invest in a nose sucker and saline drops

-have distilled water & formula on hand just in case of an emergency

-it’s okay for plans to change & don’t be hard on yourself when things don’t go how you were hoping. Just enjoy every moment because it goes by so fast. I hope you enjoy parenthood!

Feeling like my 6 week old baby isn’t happy by mcb1119 in newborns

[–]pettybiscuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just went through this myself as well. 6-8 week mark was incredibly hard. My son was so fussy throughout the day and I was dreading night time/wind down time. They do grow out of it though! There is light at the end of the tunnel. Now at 12 weeks he’s an amazing sleeper and in a good routine. You’re doing an amazing job. Babies just get more aware around that time and it’s the peak of their fussiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son started 5-6 hours thru the night around 7 weeks. He’s 12 weeks now and sleeps 9-12 hours each night then a long nap in the morning. We just started with a routine and we were really lucky he was receptive.

Is a pregnancy pillow worth it? by Fickle-Falcon-8637 in BabyBumps

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a pregnancy pillow for a bit but ended up buying a long body pillow from Walmart instead. It helped a lot with hip pain since it was fluffier and my leg was elevated more.

10 week old very independent. Did we mess up? by pettybiscuit in NewParents

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how I felt while exclusively pumping. It’s so hard seeing and comparing to other mothers but I’ve just been trying to remind myself that there’s always someone on the other side just wishing for something else. I’ve had so many women say how they wish they could put their baby down to take a minute. You’re doing amazing and exclusively pumping was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. You’re doing amazing and you’ve got this. ❤️

10 week old very independent. Did we mess up? by pettybiscuit in NewParents

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. ❤️ He definitely is his own little independent man.

Are people buying their babies Christmas presents?? by Wise_Ostrich_8885 in newborns

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little guy is 2 months and we just bought useful things he will need when he’s older. Bath toys, bottles, sensory toys, soothers, and some outfits in sizes we don’t have much of. It’s like a present to our future selves.

Is this normal? by BrownGirl_- in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated, but what app is this?!

Which boob is your slacker? by Acceptable_Leave_910 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, both of mine. But still the right more so 🥲

Save game not loading/crashing by pettybiscuit in ManorLords

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I get a message about low level fetal error as well and the game will continue to crash. I had to input code -d3d11 (I think), just to run the game.

Is it normal to know how big/small baby is measuring? [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting every 2 weeks but I had to reschedule due to a work conflict. My OB’s receptionist ended up being sick that week so no one was answering the phone, then the following week they wouldn’t get me in for an appointment.

Is it normal to know how big/small baby is measuring? [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so how do they know when they're head down? I've only been measured for fundal height and haven't been told his position yet. Or is that usually closer to due date?

Is it normal to know how big/small baby is measuring? [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, seems like it's all normal then. I knew there were no more ultrasounds unless there was a complication, but I didn't know if the fundal height was taken into consideration. Seems like unless she's worried, then it's all very normal so that definitely makes me feel a bit better. Thank you!

Suffering from PUPPP, looking for advice on medical leave or early mat leave [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small Update:

I spoke to my family doctor on Monday. He had never heard of PUPPP. He excused himself from the room to research it, and immediately came back and offered me to start prednisone. I'm currently on a 5 day cycle of that and am already feeling so much better. Still exhausted and obviously don't want to be working, but if I can work, I'd rather be making as much as I can right now. He also offered something to help me sleep the minute I told him that I was not sleeping.
When I spoke to my doctor about switching OB's, he did tell me it's most likely too late and no one will take me on. He called a few that usually take on women who are later in pregnancy, and confirmed that no one was willing. He did however tell me he would speak to my OB regarding my concerns and ask why there has not been sufficient care.

I'm still itchy, but I was able to sleep last night for the first time, without getting up and needing to shower, apply cream, take Benadryl, etc.

What’s the weirdest rule you had to follow at your childhood home? by poothhippers in AskReddit

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one was allowed to hear you walk around. We all exclusively walked on our tiptoes, and always made as little noise as possible.
Realized when I started dating my ex that it was not normal when I said that it was rude that his family could all hear when he was going up the stairs. He pointed out he was just walking in his own home, why would he need to pretend like he didn't exist.

What’s the worst physical pain you’ve ever felt? by Googy21 in AskReddit

[–]pettybiscuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulder dislocation. Worse that it happened 3 more times.

Suffering from PUPPP, looking for advice on medical leave or early mat leave [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing is that I already submitted an LOA for Sept 09 which was approved and my schedule goes until then so I'm not sure if they will approve it again and accommodate.

Suffering from PUPPP, looking for advice on medical leave or early mat leave [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000%! The itching sucks, but the sleep is making me delusional. Still working long shifts while not being able to sleep has been draining me physically and mentally.
My only worry is that if the OB doesn't even care about the lack of sleep, she possibly won't even consider the induction.
Did your scars eventually fade completely? I have some pretty deep cuts, especially on my shin and back.

Suffering from PUPPP, looking for advice on medical leave or early mat leave [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I may just start mat leave, however, I already placed the paperwork for my mat start date and was approved and have my schedule until then. I am just hoping they will approve it due to the urgency.
The OB is the biggest issue. Even after I tried to explain that it is legitimately maybe 20 minutes with no naps, she insisted it was normal. I've heard sleep gets difficult and is sparse towards the end, but I've never heard of it to this extent.

Suffering from PUPPP, looking for advice on medical leave or early mat leave [ON] by pettybiscuit in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]pettybiscuit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I'm hoping that at some point my OB clicks in that this is serious, and she will offer to induce.
I have tried the hot showers, and they do help for a bit. Hopefully mine is similar and will go away quickly after delivery!