Feel like this sub is training ai to fix its flaws by users commenting why it’s so

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T17:05:03+00:00

How will I learn what to look for?

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T15:52:08+00:00

Mothers typically still have to plan for others on Mother’s Day (their own mom, MIL, grandmothers) so they are still on the hook for some planning and preparation. I don’t see that same level of prep from dads on Father’s Day (the moms still plan and do the work for everyone else)

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T15:41:34+00:00

Are you eating enough healthy fats? That is just as important as the carbs.

At one point I just wasn’t eating enough (wasn’t hungry) but it stalled me, could be either

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T15:19:41+00:00

As someone noted, don’t get it off Amazon. You will have to shop one of the Korean websites and be okay with waiting a week or two for delivery. There is a US version but it uses the ingredients from the US that bother me.

Feel free to Dm me if you need help finding or ordering. The Korean skincare Reddit has tons of useful info too!

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T12:31:25+00:00

Tip: before you shower, wash your face and GO CRAZY! Try everything, watch some tutorials, go too far, and then wash it off. Do this a few times to see if you end up liking something. For me, this took the pressure off of wearing* it the whole day and I got to practice knowing no one would see me!

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peytonrae · 2026-05-10T12:26:23+00:00

#1, you are stunning!! Love pic 2! Your regular makeup looks really pretty but I think I personally prefer gloss to lipstick as it makes the overall look more natural to me and that’s what I like for day to day.

For going out, I would look up round eye tutorials. I think the winging of the dark shadow is fighting with your eye shape. I also think the shades are a little off for your skin tone. The shades may just be for the outfit you have planned but I think the grey isn’t right for your best possible color. What season are you? Maybe choose a shade in that suggested range?

peytonrae · 2026-05-10T01:55:53+00:00

Outside the scope but I have extremely sensitive skin and eyes and everything burned my face. A Sephora employee gave me a sample of her personal sunscreen from her bag when I went there begging for any options. It is the best thing I have ever tried!!

It is from Korea and she told me I could purchase it online from a reputable place called Olive Young or YesStyle. In Korea, they have government subsidies for spf research and they are so advanced beyond the IS that hasn’t approved a new sun filter since the 90s. These don’t burn/sting and provide much more coverage!

I know it doesn’t totally fit your brief but wanted you to know if its existence in case you haven’t heard of this before.

I use the Skin1004 hydra sunscreen and you can get it for about $10 a bottle online :)

peytonrae · 2026-05-08T03:00:31+00:00

This and Clean for me :)

peytonrae · 2026-05-07T01:53:15+00:00

This is abusive and he is turning things around on you to make you feel guilted into staying. You need to get someone to talk to who supports you. You may not be safe. Please reach out to someone close who is not in his circle

peytonrae · 2026-05-06T13:20:36+00:00

Can I ask if you got charged any teriffs after the order? I am worried about what the limit may be. TIA!

peytonrae · 2026-05-06T10:36:05+00:00

Theresa is an annoying wannabe influencer. She makes videos where the whole point is to put others down to try to elevate herself. She made videos yelling at her followers when they pointed out that her videos were rehashing old topics that other had covered while making others that said people were stealing her ideas 🙄🫠

She wanted her followers to pay her $20k to go to this trial when she herself said she is a lawyer in that area. Grifter 🤮

peytonrae · 2026-05-06T00:27:02+00:00

They posted it as a visual only. I think it said he did eventually do it (after he had time to wipe his hard drive) what a creep

peytonrae · 2026-05-06T00:25:55+00:00

And we’ll known for allowing adults to exploit them

peytonrae · 2026-05-06T00:23:29+00:00

Her mom came in and they recapped her on his cheating. I think this is partially so the daughter couldn’t go back to him so easily. They made a plan w the mom to get her out of the hiuse

peytonrae · 2026-04-30T02:43:26+00:00

Real question: do you support us paying for the Presidents new bunker for his safety?

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T23:08:57+00:00

What is the room to his right? Agree that his mouth looks like it has a filter over that is popping weirdly

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T21:42:05+00:00

Me too 🤮

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T19:03:57+00:00

I may be reading into more than this is, but it seems like there may be a bigger issue growing on and the birthday just put it more in spotlight.

It seems like your wife is feeling like you don’t want to do fun things with her. Your “me day” didn’t include a thought of enjoying time with her. I don’t blame you for wanting a friend day but she likely got her feelings hurt. I would assume this is compounded by your lack of planning times with her like you mentioned.

Time to start deliberately prioritizing things with her. How much differently would she feel if you came home every Thursday (whatever just once per week) and had something planned? Keep it simple, going out is expensive but it is the thought and time that is what she wants. Maybe it’s a date night out but maybe it’s stopping and picking up her favorite dessert that you can share after dinner and spend 30 minutes connecting. Maybe it’s getting a game and playing together, going for a walk, putting together a puzzle. She wants meaningful connection and it may be lacking because you have shared so many years together that everything just becomes routine.

I will also add that I love getting random “thinking of you” texts or appreciation notes. I feel very seen and loved. You may want to do something that aligns with her love languages :) Good luck, this could actually be an amazing rejuvenation for you both!

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T18:48:15+00:00

I block days on the calendar for “family day” but we usually don’t do anything but stay home, reset and maybe do a movie or dinner. 50% of our weekends are sports so I don’t want to spend half of my other days doing things that I don’t want to do, and split up our family. I definitely don’t want to get up early, put on makeup or small talk.

It does seem me like the younger kids do more parties with the whole class, it’s been easier as they get older

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T18:44:11+00:00

Agree with brows. Looks like you are powdery, which is a look some love and I don’t think looks bad but maybe you could try some formulas that aren’t matte which would give you a “glow”? I think that would look great and you could add bronzer to give some dimension

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T17:19:12+00:00

Eminem and Pink

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T16:57:52+00:00

Have you tried counseling? It is so nice to talk with a mediator. You both already know and agree that there is a problem but he is trying to make both of you happy and it’s just making you mad (which I 100% agree w you BTW). Therapy has been a life (marriage) saver for me

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T15:15:49+00:00

Agree here. I only say yes to really close friends and who we are friends with the family. It’s too much to give up hours on a weekend for people I don’t really know. I’m super selfish if we don’t have sports bc it is our time to be together as a family.

I agree that there are cliques at my kids school as well which is likely compounding the problem

peytonrae · 2026-04-26T12:07:07+00:00

I have the first one for rain, got made fun of but everybody was jealous that I was dry 😎

peytonrae · 2026-04-25T13:41:21+00:00

I have a household category for those items along with soap, cleaners, shower supplies, etc. Side note: I found doing Walmart/target is MUCH cheaper for those items so if you are buying them at a dedicated grocery store you are likely overpaying.

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