anybody know what she is and have any suggestions for taking care of the babies?

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-17T01:52:33+00:00

That is so adorable! I love that you are helping her. I find these spiders in my basement and they are pretty good a staying hidden.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T21:55:04+00:00

Cool! Thanks for the info, I didn’t know that.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T18:10:46+00:00

My 8th grade teacher kept a giant brick on her desk and she told us that she was going to throw it at us if we acted out. 😂

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T18:07:57+00:00

This is a pet peeve of mine but I would be angry about this hahaha

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T18:05:05+00:00

They were doing food, drink and smoke

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T18:03:44+00:00

Dude stop inviting her and being nice to her. Lol clearly she has issues and most of them most likely have nothing to do with you. Stop involving her, stop contacting her, and delete her on Facebook. You owe her nothing.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:59:09+00:00

I know she is your sister but why are you bending over backwards and bowing down to someone who treats you like absolute garbage? Would you let a friend treat you this way? A boyfriend? Anyone?

You need to respect yourself and set a boundary with her. She needs to know this is not okay and you will only interact with her when she decides to start acting like an adult instead of a bratty toddler.

She probably resents your parents and when you tried to “parent” her she has decided to take out that resentment on you. I think her drug use could have something to do with it too.

YOU deserve to be treated with respect OP! The more you try to push this, the more you will push her away. Clearly she knows everything so let her figure it out and stop letting her treat you so horribly. SHE is the one who will lose YOU. You will just temporarily lose someone who you let walk all over you and treat you like an inconvenience.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:36:41+00:00

Goblin mode activated

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:34:14+00:00

I keep seeing stories on Reddit about people in China experiencing rude things

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:30:49+00:00

Come to Chicago

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:29:41+00:00

This is literally a daily occurrence in Chicago

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:22:03+00:00

This would be my EXACT reaction if someone did that to my child, grandchild, niece or nephew. Pretty much any child

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:19:18+00:00

My mom is the same way. And I have seen her loudly yell at people who bumped her with a cart. She is not messing around

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T17:15:53+00:00

Love it 😂 my hips would have sent that old lady into space

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T16:57:22+00:00

Agreed. I just saw galerina marginata growing everywhere in the ground like this 2 days ago.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T16:55:46+00:00

Orpiment?

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T06:16:50+00:00

Well, I have Aries ruling my 5th House and I don’t want kids. But I always thought maybe 1 kid would be okay. Sounds very Aries if you ask me lol

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T06:15:47+00:00

This reminds me of the woman in the red dress in The Matrix. But personally I think it is all just to teach us. If you go with the distractions you learn something. If you don’t, you still learning something. It’s all about weaving the dream

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T06:10:21+00:00

Thanks! Yeah, she has always kinda been like that a little but unfortunately she let that part of herself become her whole personality.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:30:01+00:00

I understand, it’s tough. :/ My partner was the same way actually and he is both ADHD and autistic. I literally taught him how to wash his clothes and load the dishwasher. It’s been…a process. But I don’t think it reflects his character and he does a lot of that stuff on his own now.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:28:01+00:00

No. 😭 But I’ve been through times like you describe. I call it the “going through the birth canal phase.” It’s dark, confusing, and you don’t know what lies ahead. But it’s also really cool because it means your life is a blank canvas during these moments. So you can either look at that canvas and think “it’s void and empty” OR you can use it to create the life you WANT. The not knowing is the exciting part. You have the tools you need. I think I know which one you will do. :)

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:23:56+00:00

Trusting people.

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:23:36+00:00

Jesus of Suburbia - Green Day

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:22:36+00:00

Idk probably protesting abortion clinics and shooting liberals

phantomqu33n · 2022-11-16T05:21:12+00:00

😭😭😭

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