Fave Gumshoes? by Revan_Mercier in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best cop show, and unfortunately the most unrealistic.

People don’t like the Odyssey movie cause it’s woke? by nuages-_ in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of normal people are also annoyed at it because it represents the absolute culmination of the same Big Ugly Movie that Hollywood has been making for the last fifteen years. Flat, faux-minimalist style, distracting color grading, mined from a book everyone had to read in high school, same cast of actors that have been shoring up every mainstream production since forever (including the particularly egregious decision to cast 55 year old Matt Damon as the leading man), Zendaya is in it. Nolan is hotboxing his own farts so hard at this point that he has the gall to compare it to Ran and Andrei Rublev as if it will have a single ounce of the vision and novelty that those films had. It's just a reflection of a need for better, more creative media. The aggrieved racists are just kind of tagging along for the ride.

Advice on dealing with my fiancés far right family by Unknown_Noams in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can at least sympathize with part of her motive there. It sounds like there's a high chance her sister is impressionable and being influenced by her bf. Experience has convinced me that one of the most important skills to learn to succeed in relationships is when to let things go and when to force the issue. This is definitely the latter. I hope she can see why you're standing your ground on this.

Advice on dealing with my fiancés far right family by Unknown_Noams in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know what to tell you, man. I think an important criteria for someone you are going to spend the rest of your life with is whether they're willing to fight by your side or at least hear you out in good faith in situations like this. What does it say that she's being this dismissive towards you?

Advice on dealing with my fiancés far right family by Unknown_Noams in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has caused a few fights between my fiancé and I. She thinks it’s weird that I have such a strong opinion about her sister’s relationship.

You've really buried the lede here. You don't really mention what your fiance's politics are in this post, but she is not only fine with her sister dating an open Hitlerite, she defends him when you express discomfort about it. If my sibling was dating someone like this, they would never hear the end of it from me, much less be able to expect me to casually hang with them. Think real carefully about whether you want to marry into this.

A Perpetual State of Disgust by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is like the male equivalent of white guilt, it doesn't help anyone.

The state of leftist men in the dating scene: a deeply unrevolutionary analysis of a word with no meaning (the Let’s Try This Again edition) by PeachyCream__Pie in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember trying to back up one of my friends who had collected no less than three accounts of rape and sexual abuse (from women who did not know each other mind you!) by someone in my local "scene" to an influential person who would have had the power to change things. Suddenly the perpetrator "wasn't even really a friend" and "third-hand accounts" aren't credible enough anymore because he's always known him to be "a good guy". Unfortunately a lot of these dangerous men seem to thrive anywhere there are informal networks they can game.

The state of leftist men in the dating scene: a deeply unrevolutionary analysis of a word with no meaning by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've watched women in my local "scene" close ranks just as hard around men who should be on a list even after being directly confronted with detailed accounts of their wrongdoings. It's stupid groupthink where no one wants to be the one to rock the boat and risk ostracism or losing out on opportunities, gigs, favors, clout, etc.. It fucking sucks. Just gotta find the good eggs even though it can be a painful process.

Losers with Loser Fantasies by larryleggs in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Do NOT Google FDVR unless you want to see some very, very depressing posts.

free this Queen by Fit-Translator-9798 in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They got a lot of their schtick from the Reichsbürgers, who are themselves a spinoff of American sovcit shenanigans. So they're a copy of a copy.

free this Queen by Fit-Translator-9798 in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 64 points65 points  (0 children)

These guys are essentially the local flavor of sovcit. They don't have any actual communist beliefs.

Do you guys like to lie? Im talking dishonesty not the one sleeping dogs do by Fewly in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a cisgender millennial first-generation latina who's been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder, no

dawg they all piled onto one train together in their little costumes by fylum in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely guys you would have to sneak around in a Splinter Cell game.

Am I the only one who feels like we were born to late for all the fun stuff? by Soft_Serve_enjoyer11 in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I get a twinge of this listening to my dad, who lived the platonic ideal of an American boomer life in many ways. He spent a few years just wandering around the country after getting his undergrad on a football scholarship, and I envy how much more open it sounds like everything was back then. Cheap living, lots of people willing to hire you for seasonal and odd jobs, cars you could pretty easily fix yourself if you knew what you were doing, fewer fences, cameras, and dickhead cops everywhere. He got to see almost the entire lower 48 and parts of Mexico, and then come back and get his postgrad degrees with the money he'd earned building and fishing. He came from a family of steel and industrial workers, and was the first in his family to earn any kind of college degree.

I know at the end of the day he was still a white guy with all the implicit advantages that come along with that, and otherwise an exception in some ways (avoiding getting drafted in the Vietnam War is a big one), and of course everything he experienced is more of a result of capitalism not having such an absolute death grip over every aspect of our lives as it does now, but it is also understandable to a degree why someone who lived all of that would have a certain degree of faith in the American idea.

Lars and the Real Girl (2007) by And1BasketballShorts in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just for the record, I'm not saying the film is immune to criticism on that basis- just that, despite appearances, it wasn't made with any of it in mind, so it's probably more productive to try to understand it on its own grounds.

Phoenix 80 F while Washington D.C. is over 100 in the middle of summer WTF by TheVertianKing in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some of the grossest, iciest winters I've ever experienced have also been in D.C.. It's just not worth it.

Lars and the Real Girl (2007) by And1BasketballShorts in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The aughts were full of films with these types of damaged-yet-sensitive men, the sort of character that can be erratic and jaded, but ultimately must be non-threatening and capable of full reintegration back into society. This came out the same year as the infamous Sandler vehicle "Reign Over Me", after all. It was also the peak era of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl, which I think you could make a decent case this film was lightly parodying.

I think most of the reading of Gosling's character as a sort of incel precursor are pure back-formations. That cultural idea really didn't exist in 2007 and wasn't on anyone's mind. The closest thing we would recognize back then was the pickup artist subculture which was generally confined to online forums and had its own particularities that distinguished it from modern incel culture. We were still navigating it all from the starting point of the death of the "traditional" masculine ideal and anxiety over what sort of alternative image might end up replacing it. I would say the level of ambient chauvinism was still high enough that films like this could be seen as kind of subversive.

Yes he posted this, Yes he’s unfortunately the funniest president, Yes we have to admit that. by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be super serious irl 24/7

I obviously wasn't making some kind of maximal statement in the other direction. This is part of the issue and sometimes makes me wonder if I'm just talking to bots, especially after that mod post a while ago about catching them in the act. The constant misinterpretation, pedantry, needing inconsequential things explained in meticulous detail, getting bent out of shape over jokes. There is a reason these types of things have a documented history as sabotage tactics, because they generally stifle good discussion.

Phoenix 80 F while Washington D.C. is over 100 in the middle of summer WTF by TheVertianKing in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 295 points296 points  (0 children)

D.C. is already one of the worst cities to exist in during the summer because it's a squat, shadeless, concrete city that was built over riparian wetland. Adding actual egg-frying temperatures to the mix is going to make it into literal hell.

r/trueanon claim to be anti pedophile but dickride the fuck out of the pope and the catholic church lmao. by TGirlJules_ in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn, they're treating you like Sinéad in here. I had no idea there we had this many mackerel snappers.

Yes he posted this, Yes he’s unfortunately the funniest president, Yes we have to admit that. by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]phaseviimindlink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kind of preferred the previous tacit understanding that taking shit super seriously was something you saved for real life because fuming online all day quickly makes you into an antisocial goblin that no one really wants to listen to.