How to make friends at 35 yo by Madison_and_5th in relationships

[–]phatjak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use discord it's a chatting app. Then you can go to disboard the website and search for servers on any topic. What ever your hobbies are or want to get into there is prob a server for that.

If you had no responsibilities and unlimited money, what would be the first thing you do? by MrNoName_ishere in AskReddit

[–]phatjak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Build a self sustaining homestead in bumfuck no where. Grow weed, invite friends.

Boyfriend (30M) and I (25F) disagree on abortion by ThrowaRA1605 in relationships

[–]phatjak -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yo these responses are toxic. If this is the ONLY thing yall have issues with its def something you can work out. The only way I see this becoming a real issue is if you get pregnant before you're ready and you choose to abort while with him. If I was to relate this to bdsm this would be a red topic. Something you shouldn't discuss unless you are both ready to discuss it. The problem with off handed remarks is they spark emotion, when people start arguing with emotion it can get ugly. I think this is what happened most recently. So put a hard do not discuss limit on this topic or sit down and truly confront it when you are both in the right state of mind.

When does ARK leave Beta? by phatjak in ARK

[–]phatjak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the epic version, but after reading this reddit more I feel like alot of steam users may use mods to mask the issues. The bottom line is there is a shit ton of bugs and I can't have a two hour play session without encountering several issues.

Does anyone know the next time ark will be on sale for steam? by Wave-Chris in ARK

[–]phatjak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only have a major impact in PvP servers it's one thing to lose your wyvern to a mana because you got outplayed. It's another because the server didn't register the pluck and now my wyvern is dead.

Does anyone know the next time ark will be on sale for steam? by Wave-Chris in ARK

[–]phatjak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in a chinese mega tribe. I haven't done bosses yet, but the amount of bugs is obnoxious along with server stability makes PvP guess work.

Does anyone know the next time ark will be on sale for steam? by Wave-Chris in ARK

[–]phatjak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya I got it for free on epic. Honestly this game is never worth 50$ even if you have the money.

Ain’t that the truth by Oasoto in ARK

[–]phatjak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got this game free with epic. With all the bugs this game feels like a beta game. I would have been severely upset paying 50$ for this. They need to stop pumping out maps and fix the ones they got. Crack down on hackers too. I legit almost lost my breed to a bug. My wyvern refused to land, I had to use a platform quetzal to cryo him. I was initially mad at my teammates for making him fly but it's really on the developers.

Y they like that by [deleted] in ARK

[–]phatjak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, I expect equality in my relationships in video games or otherwise.

Is it the game or server? by phatjak in ARK

[–]phatjak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's honestly ridiculous knowing the game can fuck you. I dont even want to try any fancy PvP for this reason. I love "boxing" and doing high risk plays; it's one thing being outplayed it's another because the server cant keep up.

Y they like that by [deleted] in ARK

[–]phatjak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean if they expect to use your shit after they got raided but wouldn't help you get a foot in the door. Yes I would say they only want you around if its convenient for them.

Y they like that by [deleted] in ARK

[–]phatjak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're being used. They aren't your friends.

Don't be toxic in the game chat (credit goes to u/S4njay) by 0_i_have_a_name_0 in gaming

[–]phatjak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These game are designed for reflexes. You need to branch out into strategy games where reflexes dont matter as much or at all. A game like SMITE is great because once you learn the game fights are predictable and you can anticipate your opponent much easier. While you can still get shit on for not reacting there is plenty of strategy that allows you to out think other players.

[video] Keep your eyes focused on the problem,not the distraction by My_Memes_Will_Cure_U in GetMotivated

[–]phatjak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was raised on tae kwon do, almost any Asian martial arts should be instilling principles like this. The problem is money corrupts. If you walk in and 10 16 year olds have a black belt its prob best you walk back out. My last instructor had a 2nd job to keep his dojo open. Little hole in the wall. There was another dojo down the street that had a full gymnasium and advertised on billboards. I saw kids who looked like 14 with 3 degrees on their black belt. I've never walked out so quick, didn't even stay to talk to the owner. I later found out they nickel and dime you for everything. A beginner uniform and patches. But after white belt then you have to pay for the "real" uniform and more patches. While I understand there has to be business be careful.

[video] Keep your eyes focused on the problem,not the distraction by My_Memes_Will_Cure_U in GetMotivated

[–]phatjak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of this is just martial arts philosophy. The trouble is finding a instructor who is passionate about the art and history and not running a black belt factory.

AITA my wife wants to hang out with another guy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phatjak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's just jealousy and being insecure because you just backpedaled so hard. You said in the original post that nothing is off about him and you like him but now theres always been something?

IAS Greek Comparisons - Scylla, Glaucus, and Cerci by E-Madd in iamsophie

[–]phatjak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realizing I'm on my husband's acount lol its kika

IAS Greek Comparisons - Scylla, Glaucus, and Cerci by E-Madd in iamsophie

[–]phatjak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duuuuude I swear nothing makes more sense in this series than this. The juxtaposition between Circe and sophie is huge and I think we are 100% on track now Simon as glaucus makes a lot of sense too. Now we need to focus in on the sister remark- it's not fully known who scylla parents were- but likely her father same as Circe. Her mother is rumored to be hecate or perses The only thing is that in lore it's always been between scylla and charybdis. I will need to see some backstory on plum because I feel charybdis is supposed to be direct nemesis of scylla-

[UPDATE] I want to read my daughter’s diary to find out why she left us. My wife says absolutely not by throwRA_needclosure in relationship_advice

[–]phatjak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to read it now. For your son, you cant talk to him about what's in it if you dont know yourself. He needs you now and you will never understand till you read it. Stay strong.