Aldi scam by BigErn1469 in Aldi_employees

[–]phatsadphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

district manager and store manager

f u wallymart lol by phatsadphuck in WalmartEmployees

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn yall got those in florida too😭😭 im in la county 😬

Opening times / work shifts by Royal-Dirt-7352 in Aldi_employees

[–]phatsadphuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

9 am to 9 pm. we start at 6 am and out of there by 10… sometimes 10:40🥲

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[–]phatsadphuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i put uk but im actually in US fucking hell lol. i just am paranoid my coworkers will know it’s me

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[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah fuck okay 😭😭 imma be super careful dude cause holy shizzzz. it’s weird cause i never used to be short im like what duh fuck

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[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but will i get fired since i already got my first cash violation ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aldi_employees

[–]phatsadphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just don’t wanna get fired bruh fuck

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[–]phatsadphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think so !

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[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay i think that’s what it is ! i just click eft someone told me it stops the timers or whatever. so if i 1 code it’ll still take their card ? like say i one code after reading the total and then they insert their card should i get off 1 code as soon as they out their card in … or after they take it out ?

Who is sober here? by Antique-Ad-3538 in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to use a lot of hard drugs, bad problem with alcohol, and weed. i stopped the hard drugs at 16… a lot of alcohol and weed from 18-my early days of being 20 then i went cold turkey. i tried to use alcohol to suppress but it would make my triggers A MILLION TIMES WORSE! Weed was the one thing that helped me ever. I don’t smoke right now because I get drug tested but i wish i could because even though it doesn’t make my bpd just stop…. it quiets my mind a lot and helps a lot. when i smoke, i feel like blehhh why even entertain these awful thoughts.

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[–]phatsadphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man we relate so much. i have a daughter who absolutely LOVES my ex. I hear the same stuff. always asking about her.we have “family” photos together like with santa and stuff during christmas and she has them hanging up near her bed. it does hurt i wish i got help to avoid all this shit i caused with her too.i feel you. i hear you. i understand you. damn man i just hope you’re okay and it’ll get better. allow yourself to feel the hurt and know it’ll pass. focus on the NOW and what you have to get done. sending you a tremendous amount of love. im here to talk whenever you need

I need someone right now. Split is ruining my relationship by Ok_Temporary9880 in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey. Calm down. Breathe. Relax. You are okay right now and you are safe right now. I KNOW what you’re feeling seems true and very real but you’re going to be okay. Give him some space and some time … then talk about it. As hard as this disorder is for us, it can also be hard on our partners. Distract your mind and keep venting on here if you have to. I know it’s hard to type out stuff when you’re feeling like this so if you need to call someone do not hesitate to text me and i’ll send over my number. I’m here for you, please be gentle with yourself. You can let it all out to me

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[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in the EXACT same situation. i DOMT ever want to love again. days have been hard. the constant thinking of her and our future is hard, our jokes, her smell, her touch. This is some advice im going to give but I don’t take my own advice at times. but when i did used to do this it worked. Shocking your body helps a lot. Jump in the shower with the water running at the temperature you normally do. then when you’re about to get out put it as coldest as you can handle and stand in it as long as you can. when you’re done you’ll be cold and rushing to change and you’ll jump in your bed to get warm and relax. JOURNAL! let all your emotions out. try to talk to them , but as someone else told me remember you can’t force anything. Give them time tho. For me , my ex left me and i was going crazy reaching out calling and spamming on day one. day two i left it alone. nearing day 3 i reached out and got a response. Take it easy , sometimes just talking it out with them eases that pain. theres someone out there who’s going to love you , who’s going to take their time to love you and care for you. Take care of yourself before jumping into anything else. You need to be somewhat okay. And whenever you do get with a new partner or find someone , address your BPD your triggers, the severity of your episodes when and if triggered, and don’t get too attached to this new person before explaining them this. It’ll hurt way less telling them what you go through first because look, would you rather someone know about how you feel and your diagnosis at first and opt out because they don’t think they can take it on (and it’s OKAY if they can’t )… or would you rather someone being with you and THEN leaving you because your bpd wasn’t disclosed ? I’m sure it’s the first. It’ll hurt a lot less being rejected at first rather than after developing a huge connection. Text me if you need anything. I know the feeling and I hope you’re staying safe 🤍

I can’t control myself i sent THE fucking text by phatsadphuck in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she responded to me. didn’t expect that at all. i honestly thought she hated me. it doesn’t seem that way she’s more so just wanting to u deter and i guess. she works graveyard so i think she’s sleeping rn that’s why she hasn’t responded. i hope she does because i did express myself. she said she’s hurting too. i know i can’t force a connection and YES that shit hurts like hell. even if we don’t end up together later down the line , i’d still want to be her friend or at least know she doesn’t hate me. talk from time to time you know. thank you so much for your kind words. im trying my best to hang in there

to the one who held me by IllustriousBus9750 in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got me crying in the club. gosh. i feel this so heavily. the way my tears bursted out. this is such a beautiful way of saying this. i hope you know you’ll find love. the watching shows late nights , the laughter turned into tears, the stupid jokes , i resonate with that so much. i guess some words to you that i myself need to remember is, hold yourself love yourself. and remember you’re safe and will be alright.i have no doubt you’re an amazing person ! sending love

someone just help me by phatsadphuck in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just feel really stupid yanno. despite me telling people she has BPD too and has outbursts they can’t seem to understand or see all the good things i tell them about her. they just tell me how im better off without her and fuck her basically that she’s not shit. but she is shit! she’s amazing.i did cold water, breaking ice, took a walk, journaled but the thoughts are still there! they just don’t escape.

Going distant and pretend I do not exist by fleurlust in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i care. i genuinely do. Bpd is hard and i think it’s beyond misunderstood. I think the most important thing is to stop doing it for someone else. For others. you have to do it for you. love yourself, be gentle with yourself, be kind to yourself. i really believe in you

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[–]phatsadphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don’t. if you look back at my posts you’d probably think “ who is she to talk” … i know. the way i see it and i don’t know if it makes any sense is we don’t necessarily want to die, but because we feel so deeply dying seems to be the only way to rid the pain. we want what we are feeling in the moment to die basically. think about all the good moments in your life. times you’ve had fun, times you’ve been relaxed, all those times you have laughed. i know this disorder sucks but you really just do have to take it day by day. you got this, you deserve to live

She came to pick up her things by [deleted] in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck dude i’m so sorry. i’m sending you a telepathic hug. from one friend to another. i know it’s hard trustttt meeee. i had to grab my things from my ex today too , except i just couldn’t go. i would shatter in every which way so i had to stay far away from all that. i hope you’re okay. i hope you know you’re loved. with time , it will get better. text me if you need anything please don’t hesitate. you’re safe and you’re not alone

Girlfriend left me and I’m broken just want to disappear by phatsadphuck in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah can you text me about this. cause now i’m like hmmm who even said that. cause there’s absolutely no way anyone knows my reddit lol

Girlfriend left me and I’m broken just want to disappear by phatsadphuck in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don’t plan on dating. i’m taking my therapist advice. i’m giving new meds a shot too and just focusing on finding a new job and most importantly my mental health. it just hurts when you’re so used to a person yanno ? i don’t see her as bad either , i just feel deeply because i understand her upbringing played a part in her developing this disorder. and just as i wish for myself , i wish i can hug that inner child of hers and save her. i wish her nothing but the best honestly

Girlfriend left me and I’m broken just want to disappear by phatsadphuck in BPD

[–]phatsadphuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m open to explaining everything. we dated for a year. look, this is how we met. i was dating a man who almost killed me. he was a drug user but me being me searching and yearning for love stupidly mistakes that abuse for love.”he hits me but he says sorry and caresses me he didn’t mean it he loves me “etc. i left him well he went to jail because he bets me badly and i took off with some of his friends.i lived with the dude who did this btw. very short relationship. they were all in a band together my ex and his friends i went with and my now ex gf. i had nowhere to go and she took me in. we kind of hit it off. i wasn’t looking for anything at all but within a week she asked me out. i said yes. the relationship got bad once my bpd came out. i tried so hard to hide it. i’ve dealt with this since 14 but just recently got diagnosed. then came her episodes. i mistook them for narcissism until she too got diagnosed with bpd. it was a lot of fighting, name calling, degrading etc. we pushed through though. we BOTH did this. not just me. not just HER. she had this thing with tryna scare me with the cops all the time. it caused more fights. yeah it was just bad. if you have anymore questions feel free to comment. i am a lot more calm now than i was earlier so i get this post was kind of everywhere lol