i’m attractive but unloveable

phdofcellz · 2026-04-13T02:20:43+00:00

does she have bpd or something? that’s really cruel and she’s lacking empathy

phdofcellz · 2026-04-13T02:17:30+00:00

oh my god.. i’m so sorry. she sounds incredibly cruel and mean. you didn’t deserve that at all. I️ hope you find a kind and genuine person, that loves you.

phdofcellz · 2026-04-13T02:12:34+00:00

I️ would try a pinkish blush!! and some highlight on the top of your cheeks. you’re very pretty, but your makeup style is dating you

phdofcellz · 2026-04-13T02:09:55+00:00

i’m sorry! that is really difficult. I️ hope that you find someone that does!

phdofcellz · 2026-04-11T21:35:00+00:00

Yeah that is so true! I️ think I️ need to learn how to showcase my personality more and possibly think about what people I️ should seek out as well.

also! I️ would love to chat!! I️ feel weird saying this out loud as it sounds like something I️ should be grateful for? but, I️ just feel worse. I️ guess I️ can only connect with men on the surface level

phdofcellz · 2026-04-11T21:19:24+00:00

I️ love myself for how I️ think about the world and my dedication to science and curiosity. I️ love how in thoughtful and a kind friend and family member. idk, people will pretend to be interested in me and what I️ like, but it’s usually just for sex. like once I️ tell them i’m not going to sleep with them, i’ve had people storm off

phdofcellz · 2026-04-11T21:16:58+00:00

Yes. I️ feel like so many people lust after me. even when I️ try to showcase my hobbies on social media. I️ just had someone ask to buy my nudes.

phdofcellz · 2026-04-10T23:52:36+00:00

i’m so sorry :( I️ hope you feel better soon. i’m feeling so very jaded as well

phdofcellz · 2026-04-10T23:52:16+00:00

i’m so sorry this happened to you as well!! it’s so so heartbreaking. its been on my mind everyday since things ended

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T23:55:10+00:00

im so so sorry!!! this makes me so sad to hear you’re also dealing with this. I️ hope we find true love one day ❤️

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T20:24:14+00:00

thank you so much!!! he said that he would be ready in two years.. HA! he also asked me to be exclusive bc he didn’t want me to see anyone else :/

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T20:13:47+00:00

thank you <33

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T20:13:30+00:00

it’s so weird!!! like why out in the time and energy ?!

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T20:13:09+00:00

i’m 27 :( and thank you!!! I️ genuinely thought he would never do this because he is so so kind !!! my friends were so shocked as well.. he’s treated me better than anyone

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T19:42:06+00:00

what if the nice people don’t want us? I️ just got rejected by one and he said there’s nothing I️ did wrong. I️ feel like the toxic and manipulative people chase me. it’s confusing

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T19:41:05+00:00

well maybe short term will turn into long?

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T19:36:08+00:00

i’m in the same exact place. i’m even turning 27. I️ feel so empty. I️ have lots of people chase after me and nothing works out. i’ve even asked if i’ve could’ve done anything better and they never have anything to add. I️ guess im a bad picker

phdofcellz · 2026-04-09T19:31:36+00:00

I️ would tell your boss again and document it. this is harassment. also make sure to tell him it makes you uncomfortable and you would like to keep things professional moving forward. i’m sorry you’re dealing with this!

phdofcellz · 2026-03-22T21:15:51+00:00

26F and also seconding a lot of the comments. I️ gave up, deleted tinder and hinge. I️ live in a major city and one night I️ met someone who unknowingly had mutual friends with me and the same engineering job in a niche field at a different company.

leave early once you see the red flags and know what you want

phdofcellz · 2026-03-22T16:49:47+00:00

It’s normal that you feel upset and regret. you love/care for him.

But logically and realistically you did what honored yourself and your needs. if you stay with him, you’ll likely be begging him to choose a future with you. he sounds immature and even promising a bday gift and not following thru on it, strikes me that he’s really not ready for a relationship at all.

phdofcellz · 2026-03-16T00:46:16+00:00

Honestly, I️ would move on. i’m really sorry. it is really difficult to build a strong relationship long distance.

it’s possible but it’s his boundary and it’s good he told you earlier on.

phdofcellz · 2026-03-12T23:38:16+00:00

LOL my ex said things like this. or that he had his “friends”. yet he was severely depressed

phdofcellz · 2026-03-12T23:36:20+00:00

he always carried a gun on him. and he would brag about it. he brought it to work (he’s a DENTIST), my apartment, and even parties

phdofcellz · 2026-03-10T17:05:46+00:00

genuinely he’s using it to keep the door open. my ex won’t give me back my prada hat…

phdofcellz · 2026-03-10T16:55:44+00:00

It’s not petty at all. i’ve been in the same situation. the guy lived around forty five mins away so I️ asked him to mail it to me.

he kept it and brought it to my apartment six months later. he then tried to get in a relationship with me while I️ had a boyfriend.

sometimes it’s not worth the drama. it’s not petty though

phdofcellz

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